Virginity isn't only about the vagina.
Unironically about the personality too.
You can define two different types of virginity if you like, such as "vaginal virginity" and "consent virginity" but the traditional meaning refers to if a guy coomed inside your pussy
Uhh... you know the thing about a woman's virginity that is most important is her mind.
That is not the classic definition and you know it.
A girl who gets raped laments "oh no, I lost my virginity"
A girl who voluntarily gives a handjob doesn't exclaim "oh no, I'm not a virgin anymore"
You can say intent is more important than results if you like, but that should get a new word, not redefine virginity.
Too many words getting redefined