Being a NEET is a must for the Incel. Not giving away your time and energy to a society that despises you is better for your mental health. Imagine coming home after a tiring work day to an empty bed in a post Tinder timeline slowly gathering that your life has become a dead end with almost no satisfaction, pleasure, paths to achieve what you want or way out that isn't painful? It is one thing to be depressed.. but you add tired and unfulfilled on top of that it would convince to rope. At the end of the day I think NEETing is a sort of defence mechanism to a broken society. You get nothing but you stop giving. Whereas before you were still getting nothing but you were giving a lot of time, energy, thought and effort into a job where you never get a raise because you are ugly even though you have all the qualifications necessary. But Chad with almost zero qualifications gets hired because life is all about the Face and making people comfortable which ugly people cannot do.