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LDAR Let's argue the 3 most important things which man needs to have to score.

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I'll start:

1.height
2.face
3.size
My reasoning;

1. Height is the MAIN, besides size, trait of male dimorphism. If you're good looking and short, your chances of getting laid are still there, but slim. And also , you're going to get picked on by people regardless and hated by practically EVERYONE, regardless whether you've done anything to them or not. Being short is a death sentence. You'll never be respected nor seen as a human being. Being born short as a male is an instant red strike, unless you're insanely good looking, and since we live in ever increasingly height inflated society, being even below average won't cut it. At least if you're tall, you will be at least seen as a human being(somewhat). Height can NEGATE your ugliness by few points if you're big enough. Also, you can't work any job because everyone is going to bully you and attack you for your height. Work at supermarket? You get made fun of? Work as a officer? Made fun of too. Be a literal billionaire with endless money? Also get made fun of for your height. No matter what career you pick, you will ALWAYS be targeted.

2. Simply because I can't bare to look at myself in the mirror. It's not matter of just getting laid. It's the matter of the fact that you can't even love nor accept yourself because you're , by nature, dysgenic too. You know something's wrong with you, that you're a defect, yet you simply have to live with it or grind for a surgery. You have to look at your ugly fucking mug for the rest of your life. If I were tall as hell, I'd still somewhat hate myself for being ugly, but at least I'd have the intimidation factor.I'd still feel disgusted by my own appearance and wish to end myself over it. Even with a gf, even if she were good looking, I'd still hate myself and be hated by everyone for being this fucking ugly.

3.Size

Yes, some tall men got into relationships and average height ones too(due to the fact that the height alongside face are the two passing factors), but their sex lives are ruined because of their size. It's like the final card God plays. His triumph card. You get in bed with her. She's all over you and the second she pulls your pants down, all attraction goes away. All that attraction you've built up with her gone in an instant, with a snap of your fingers.
 
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3. size has no correlation with a man's height or looks.
 
  1. looks
  2. looks
  3. looks
 
I think that neurotype is undeniably among the most crucial traits, certainly of greater importance — not only for relationships, but all aspects of life — than the size of your penis.
 
I think that neurotype is undeniably among the most crucial traits, certainly of greater importance — not only for relationships, but all aspects of life — than the size of your penis.
NT does matter, but it can't override their hatred for your face nor height.

The way i see it personally is this:

If you fail below a curtain genetic threshold(height and face), you're fucked.

You could be the most NT person in the room, and if you're a manlet, you're gonna get hated anyways, and endlessly at that.

Do you think that women writing endless hate posts (who get 100k+ likes at that), care or give a shit for a short guy because he's NT? He's out of the game before he even opened his mouth. I look at posts of short men doing nothing and they still get hated because of their height, even if some of them pass and come across as perfectly normal.

NT does matter, but it won't change anything drastically if you can't pass their main genetic threshold.
 
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NT does matter, but it can't override their hatred for your face nor height.

The way i see it personally is this:

If you fail below a curtain genetic threshold(height and face), you're fucked.

You could be the most NT person in the room, and if you're a manlet, you're gonna get hated anyways, and endlessly at that.

Do you think that women writing endless hate posts (who get 100k+ likes at that), care or give a shit for a short guy because he's NT? He's out of the game before he even opened his mouth. I look at posts of short men doing nothing and they still get hated because of their height, even if some of them pass and come across as perfectly normal.

NT does matter, but it won't change anything drastically if you can't pass their main genetic threshold.
No it does matter, non-nt chad can misinterpret social clues and instead of choosing easiset, most rewarding path in life hyperfocus on something specific and useless by social standart and as a result of it get less apprectiation
 
NT does matter, but it can't override their hatred for your face nor height.

The way i see it personally is this:

If you fail below a curtain genetic threshold(height and face), you're fucked.

You could be the most NT person in the room, and if you're a manlet, you're gonna get hated anyways, and endlessly at that.

Do you think that women writing endless hate posts (who get 100k+ likes at that), care or give a shit for a short guy because he's NT? He's out of the game before he even opened his mouth.
Obviously, if one is grotesquely unattractive or extremely short, being highly neurotypical won't allow him to magically overcome his suboptimal genetics, but the point I was getting at is that if you are neurodivergent, you would require strong redeeming qualities to make up for it; it is not as crucial for success as being attractive, but it is still notably important. Statistically, autism, for example, correlates very strongly with inceldom; it is arguably one of the most consistent correlating factors with romantic failure.

Ultimately, the blackpill is holistic, which is why it is difficult to measure which trait matters the most, though we can meaningfully determine which one affects a man more negatively on average. I was specifically replying to the part of your post which listed size as number three, since it is quite evident that neurotype is considerably more consequential.
 
Heigh is important but if you have the face of a digusting ogre it will not work for you that much, but it's 200% better than being a dwarf
 
I'll answer more to how to get a shot at an actual relationship, rather than risking STDs to goon in a used hole once.

1. Personality/psychology (not applicable if normie enough, obviously). Be normie and/or low-inhib enough, maybe some dark tetrad whatever (including job and education and social life and shit). Basically anything but non-normie autism combined with something like anxiety/depression/attachment disorders.
2. Physicality (looks, height, frame, smell, body language, facial expressions, etc).
3. Luck (the others are also at least tangentially related to luck as well, but here I refer to direct luck). Just random shit like did you happen to end up alone with a girl at some party or wherever the normies gather. Did someone like how you looked and happened to be brave enough to approach you at work? Did you meet some bro who carried you through social situations? Etc, etc.

For purely getting as much sex as possible I would include dickpill. It's so incredibly brutal what I've read on Reddit (and even heard IRL despite not being social, imagine that) about that. Basically harems, fucking entire friend-groups, getting hit up straight for sex, etc. Same could happen, though, I imagine, with Chad-level looks and an average dick + some sexual skill and luck with how the foids at hand prefer to orgasm, I guess..?
 
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I find it interesting that nobody mentions the ethnic aspect/how ethical one looks.
 
I'll start:

1.height
2.face
3.size
My reasoning;

1. Height is the MAIN, besides size, trait of male dimorphism. If you're good looking and short, your chances of getting laid are still there, but slim. And also , you're going to get picked on by people regardless and hated by practically EVERYONE, regardless whether you've done anything to them or not. Being short is a death sentence. You'll never be respected nor seen as a human being. Being born short as a male is an instant red strike, unless you're insanely good looking, and since we live in ever increasingly height inflated society, being even below average won't cut it. At least if you're tall, you will be at least seen as a human being(somewhat). Height can NEGATE your ugliness by few points if you're big enough. Also, you can't work any job because everyone is going to bully you and attack you for your height. Work at supermarket? You get made fun of? Work as a officer? Made fun of too. Be a literal billionaire with endless money? Also get made fun of for your height. No matter what career you pick, you will ALWAYS be targeted.

2. Simply because I can't bare to look at myself in the mirror. It's not matter of just getting laid. It's the matter of the fact that you can't even love nor accept yourself because you're , by nature, dysgenic too. You know something's wrong with you, that you're a defect, yet you simply have to live with it or grind for a surgery. You have to look at your ugly fucking mug for the rest of your life. If I were tall as hell, I'd still somewhat hate myself for being ugly, but at least I'd have the intimidation factor.I'd still feel disgusted by my own appearance and wish to end myself over it. Even with a gf, even if she were good looking, I'd still hate myself and be hated by everyone for being this fucking ugly.

3.Size

Yes, some tall men got into relationships and average height ones too(due to the fact that the height alongside face are the two passing factors), but their sex lives are ruined because of their size. It's like the final card God plays. His triumph card. You get in bed with her. She's all over you and the second she pulls your pants down, all attraction goes away. All that attraction you've built up with her gone in an instant, with a snap of your fingers.
Id personally put face at 1
 
Height and Frame matters most
 
Racking up a criminal record for violence against women will be the cheat code that bypasses all these values no matter how low they are.
 
face then height
 
1. Neurotypicality
2. Face
3. Money
 
Height and high status
 
Status
Social skills
Pretty boy face
 
Face Height and being Neurotypical in my opinion
 

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