I'm not sure what charisma is even. Charisma is mostly sociopathy. When I think of charisma, the first person that comes to mind is the sociopath WeWork CEO Adam Neumann, but he's like the male equivalent to Gal Gadot. I suppose Snoop Dogg is naturally charismatic too, I wouldn't call him handsome, he just has a relaxed weed vibe to him. Snoop is interesting because I would even go as far as to call him "low-energy" but somehow he makes it work. Would Snoop be as charismatic if he were short though? I also read Snoop was good at football when he was younger. Like a lot of Harvard dropouts, it seems to be a thing where at least touching the high hoop gets you a long way.
I'm not sure if Bobby Lee is charismatic. He's more of just a jester. He's not the kind of guy you want to hang out with more than an hour.
I'll tell you who isn't charismatic. The 'Charisma on Command' youtuber, PUAs, therapists, or everyone trying to teach you charisma. Everything about teaching 'charisma' - - which I genuinely believe cannot be taught, comes across as sociopathic behavior to me.
You either are charismatic or you are not. It's not purely a genetic factor, but it does have a lot to do with early childhood. And I think society mostly frowns on the idea that you can change the early childhood version of yourself. They like it if you can change to be less criminal, but hate it if you become more socially skilled. They want you to stay in your lane. Social skills are only acceptable in platonic friendships or economic situations where you don't overly exploit workers or customers.
I think everyone should have their own standards of what charisma actually is. You can't just read the dictionary definition or the word and understand it. Come up with your own conclusions. Here are my takes:
1. A person that is charismatic MUST be talented at something.
2. They have the ability to talk about anything and have it not be boring. A natural storyteller.
3. They have the ability to inspire and be serious when needed, but also just chill out.
4. Just have a trustworthy look to them. Which is not the same thing as being beautiful or high SMV. Looks like a person that is not desperate. This is really hard to define. I need to come up with more theories on this on a separate post. So if anyone has insight on this please chime in. This is probably the most difficult aspect of charisma. But I do think animals have a lot to do with this. This is why a lot of sociopaths own dogs. It makes them look more charismatic.
5. A person that is charismatic is more likely to do drugs.
6. A charismatic person hugs, fist bumps, they don't give a fuck about this plandemic. #MeToo can't touch them.
7. Men, especially autist men, have a lot higher bullshit detector than women when it comes to differentiating between a charismatic sociopath and just a normal charismatic person. Namely-- how does this person use their powers?? Are they vegan? Do they own horses? The sad thing is that women enable natural charismatics to BECOME sociopath power abusers. We can smell people like Elizabeth Holmes and Adam Neumann a mile away and we get called incels untill they're the ones holding the bag.
I'm not sure if Bobby Lee is charismatic. He's more of just a jester. He's not the kind of guy you want to hang out with more than an hour.
I'll tell you who isn't charismatic. The 'Charisma on Command' youtuber, PUAs, therapists, or everyone trying to teach you charisma. Everything about teaching 'charisma' - - which I genuinely believe cannot be taught, comes across as sociopathic behavior to me.
You either are charismatic or you are not. It's not purely a genetic factor, but it does have a lot to do with early childhood. And I think society mostly frowns on the idea that you can change the early childhood version of yourself. They like it if you can change to be less criminal, but hate it if you become more socially skilled. They want you to stay in your lane. Social skills are only acceptable in platonic friendships or economic situations where you don't overly exploit workers or customers.
I think everyone should have their own standards of what charisma actually is. You can't just read the dictionary definition or the word and understand it. Come up with your own conclusions. Here are my takes:
1. A person that is charismatic MUST be talented at something.
2. They have the ability to talk about anything and have it not be boring. A natural storyteller.
3. They have the ability to inspire and be serious when needed, but also just chill out.
4. Just have a trustworthy look to them. Which is not the same thing as being beautiful or high SMV. Looks like a person that is not desperate. This is really hard to define. I need to come up with more theories on this on a separate post. So if anyone has insight on this please chime in. This is probably the most difficult aspect of charisma. But I do think animals have a lot to do with this. This is why a lot of sociopaths own dogs. It makes them look more charismatic.
5. A person that is charismatic is more likely to do drugs.
6. A charismatic person hugs, fist bumps, they don't give a fuck about this plandemic. #MeToo can't touch them.
7. Men, especially autist men, have a lot higher bullshit detector than women when it comes to differentiating between a charismatic sociopath and just a normal charismatic person. Namely-- how does this person use their powers?? Are they vegan? Do they own horses? The sad thing is that women enable natural charismatics to BECOME sociopath power abusers. We can smell people like Elizabeth Holmes and Adam Neumann a mile away and we get called incels untill they're the ones holding the bag.
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