I wish it was the same. Driving 5 minutes within a parking area to get your driver licence for 20 bucks seems fine to me.
Regarding autism, it is not official, although I might fall into a spectrum of it but most likely I am just too retarded and also I really do not have motivation for anything to be honest.
No, you got this topic wrong.
If this is the case you would already now why but perhaps you missed the part where I have explained this topic and you most likely saw me replying with a catchword, yet I did not make any thread regarding to this topic for quite a while now. All the threads have been made by other users, so there is that.
So, regarding to this whole topic and since you asked, here is a general reply of mine. Even on inceltears people do agree to some extend which means, I am not just seeing things. I am just observing a general problem. Perhaps that does not apply to you and you can hate me for that, yet again that does not mean it is not a thing:
This statement contains two quotes which have been original posted on inceltears. Since this post is quite long I want to point out that the last poll reagarding to this topic is elaborated.
More than 100 people participated in this. 30% do not know how to drive, so I am not alone here. 10% know how to drive but do not have a driver licence and/or car. Which means, a total of 40% do not drive. Please apply this to the general public. More and more men do not know how to drive anymore. More and more men are doing low-level work without any future prospective. More and more men do miss basic skills in life. More and more men are struggling with stuff like anxiety. More and more men do not have nothing anymore and yet they are bashing materialism.
That is to the general topic but since you asked me directly I will also give an answer to it as well.
First off, a driver licence in Germany costs more than 2000 Euro at least. Theory lessons are mandatory and you have to do all 14 topics. Then you have to wait at least 2 months for the permission to do theory examination. The test is also harder than in America for example. You also have to do more than driving 5 minutes within a parking area to get your driver licence here. Most likely you have to do more than 20 hours of driving and then you have to do 12 specific driving lessons which are mandatory and you also have to pay for it.
Let us say you need 20 hours of driving. You have to pay 1 Euro for 1 minute. Let us say you have to pay 80 Euro in total (because 80 minutes in total) for one driving lesson and you do have 20 of it.
20 hours of learning x 80 Euro = 1600 Euro
Then 12 hours for mandatory driving lessons, in this case 45 minutes: 12 x 45 = 540 Euro
Mandatory theory lessons: 300 Euro
Learning tool: 80 Euro
First aid, pictures and other stuff: In total 100 Euro
Then you have to pay for theory examination and driving examination which I do not know the exact price for it, but let us assume both together cost like: 100 Euro in total
Let us say, you failed once at driving or theory: Another 50 Euro
Extra costs for official documents and so on: 100 Euro
The driver licence in total: 2870 Euro
I also have to add driving simulation since the driving teacher told me to do this first instead of having the real experience behind a steering wheel. Perhaps you now know where I am coming from.
The driving teacher said to me 10 hours, so the cost will be about more than 200 Euro for that.
Driver licence with driving simulation: 3070 Euro
While in America you pay like 20 bucks and you have to drive 5 minutes in a parking area for it. So, there is that.
But since you asked me specifically what my problem is, I will give you also an answer to that as well. The answer is quite simple and here it is: I am just bad at it.
People on inceltears and people here asked/told me the same thing over and over again. ''Just do your driver licence brah, what is stopping you.''
Ohh really... Ohh my god I never thought about this...
@rightfulcel look at this, just do your driver licence brah...
No, but seriously, I am just bad at driving, it is that simple. Is not it weird that you did not think about that for at least one moment? Only because you do not have any problems with it, does not mean that I can do it as well and the last poll showed that I am not the only one here actually.
Same goes with everything else. Let me give you an example in order to create a better basis of understanding:
Imagine being bad at math or just another topic you might be bad in it although it is needed within this society. You just cannot get behind it, while another classmate seem to not have any problems at all with it. Do you at least now know where I am coming from? At least a bit?
I also try to work on that one, but like said, I am struggling with it and therefore I do not have any appointment for another driving lesson. The driving teacher told me to do driving simulation first. I am still waiting for the call though. I guess it is because of the holidays. I might try to call them next week.