Exactly. People have become desensitized to the word "sex", "oral sex", "blowjob", etc. When you think "sex" you think a man and woman lying down together likein movies. You don't think of Chad jackhammering the girl, but that's what really happened. When you think "oral sex" you don't imagine the actual act of the girl with a meaty dick in her mouth and slobbering all over it, you just think "safe sex to prevent STDs", because that's what they teach in modern cucked schools.
Men who are about to marry non virgin women should be forced to watch sex tapes of every sexual encounter their bride to be has had with another man, and then decide if they still want to marry her.