Scatius Deletus
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How do I make myself like shorter guys?
I’m a 33 yo well established woman who finds herself realizing that I’m disregarding a lot of great potential partners on the basis of their height.
Mind you, I’m only 5’2 myself (158cm) but I’m not feeling attracted to anyone below 180cm (5’10).
Now for full disclosure, I have given shorter guys a chance and tried to be open minded. I went on dates with guys who are 175 cm and such. But I just can’t seem to make myself feel attracted to them because I don’t feel the same level of “manly” effect unless I’m standing to a bigger guy.
With that I also know that I’m cutting myself off from a very large pull of smart, kind and amazing men due to some shallow preference. And I’m not getting any younger so my standards should be going down at this point or else I might be lonely forever….
I want to shift my mindset around this but I don’t know how to make myself feel more attracted to shorter guys.
Anyone who’s been there, please share your advice