St. Thomas Aquinas said that the basis of society is loving thy neighbor, but modern western societies are so fucking degenerate and upside down we have even more urgent problems than people not loving each other to deal with. So I'm not helping women unless I go to jail or face other serious consequences for my omission.
Fix women first. Put them in their place again and then I'll help them. Through helping a slut who brought a rape upon herself, for example, I'd be only enabling her to keep going outside at night scantily clothed to fuck strangers, etc.
Not to mention how modern women don't have an ounce of respect for men anymore, so why do they think we must help them?