"Just Go To Therapy"

[TINMAN]

It always pisses me off when cucks repeat this shit to you

In my personal experience, in my life I have seen over 20 different therapists, at least 10 different psychologists, and about 5 psychiatrists, and I have formed the opinion that the whole mental health system is a sham based on pseudoscience.

The worst therapists in my opinion were the foids, because at least the men were able to relate to my problems and show sympathy, while I could tell that the foids could only barely conceal their disgust. Most of them weren't disgusted with me at first, but it would always become more and more obvious as time went on. Don't misunderstand me, these sessions went on back when I was still bluepilled, so it wasn't like I held any controversial views back then, in fact I was probably the most cucked person you could imagine. There was even one foid counselor who straight up cut contact with me, I didn't do anything wrong, she just sent me an email one day "I'm not qualified for the problems you have".

The only helpful advice that I ever received was from the 15th therapist I saw, who realized that I had all of the symptoms of child abuse, and asked me what my home environment was like. The only reason why he realized this was because he himself was a child abuse victim, so basically it was not his education or expertise that led him to this conclusion. None of these therapists or psychologists actually know jack shit about psychology, they just take your money and repeat platitudes to you. They all follow a script, and if the contents of the script aren't helpful to you, too bad, pay me another 100 shekels and come back for another session, maybe it will make more sense.

Get this, before meeting this guy, I had been to 14 different therapists, 7-8 psychologists, 5 psychiatrists, not a single one of them realized that I was an abuse victim. They all just repeated the same canned script to me, everything I said would just go in one ear and out the other. The worst part is that over half of them were foids, so not only were they completely unable to relate to anything I said, as I mentioned earlier they were disgusted with me.

Therapy only works for normie problems like breaking up with your girlfriend or some shit, and the reason why it works is because you would have recovered from it on your own anyways.

TL;DR Fuck you, just read it

 

[guaucel]

=Just pray. Too stupid to even think about it

 

[Gyros_Pretcel]

I mean you talked aoout your past, right?

Just how? Mind boggling level of incompetence on their side, if true.

 

[zangano1]

Therapy for my face

 

[TINMAN]

I mean you talked aoout your past, right?

Just how? Mind boggling level of incompetence on their side, if true.

This is what I'm trying to say, you would think that they actually listen to you and analyze what you're saying right? But that's not what's going on at all. They just sit there and wait for you to finish talking so that they can say their prepared responses that they say to every schmuck who believes in this shit.

The foid ones are the worst by far, I could literally tell with them that during my sessions they didn't listen to a single word I said. I doubt they would even remember who I am if somebody came up to them and asked about me today.

 

[KingOfRome]

TL;DR Fuck you, just read it

Based.

I've been in and out of mental institutions and have been reviewed by numerous psychiatrists. Most of them didn't even bother with platitudes, they just wrote me a prescription for ten billion milligrams of haldol and upped the dose when I told them it wasn't working. I've also been to a couple therapists, and they told me to count the number of seconds I spend breathing on top of the usual platitudes that I could just get on the advice thread on cucktears for free.

=Just pray. Too stupid to even think about it

Confession in a Catholic church is probably more effective than therapy jfl. At least prayer makes you feel good if you're a believer, and strangely, even a little if you're not. And it's free.

 

[azakhan]

As some high IQ incel said one day, therapy is for normal people with normal problems.
Maybe in future therapist will be able to change genes and solve our problems but until then it's worthless.
I'm talking here of course about true incels, a lot of people here are probably mentalcels and therapy may actually help them tbh.

 

[OverBeforeItBegan2]

The only helpful advice that I ever received was from the 15th therapist I saw, who realized that I had all of the symptoms of child abuse,

Could you tell me what those symptoms are?

 

[TINMAN]

Could you tell me what those symptoms are?

Symptoms vary pretty widely depending on the type of abuse and who it was committed by. Sexual abuse has very different symptoms from non sexual for example, physical is very different from verbal, being abused by an authority figure or a relative is very different from being abused by a stranger, there are a lot of things that can factor into it.

In my case it was extreme fear and distrust of my peers, whenever I was within 10 feet of another person roughly my own age, I would be absolutely terrified and be completely drenched in sweat within minutes. This became much more of a problem when I became an adult, because at that point I started seeing all adults as my peers.

Another thing was my extreme reliance on dissociation as a coping mechanism, where I would escape into my mind in stressful situations and lose awareness of myself and my surroundings.

 

[Sportbro]

Sounds like me tbh

 

[Incline]

Therapy is for chads

 

[Iwanttolive]

Therapy is only for textbook problems.

 

[Incline]

Therapy is for chads

 

[Deleted member 16624]

therapy is kinda of like religion.
It only works if you believe it does

 

[Haywire]

family wants me to go to them too and take their drugs. the same family that was never any good

 

[FUCKITALLREEE]

Therapy is only for textbook problems.

True, all they studies is written in a fucking book, they can't deny or prove the blackpill is wrong. There is no studies done about the blackpill and incels, so they repeat the same shit they tell to bluepilled simp all over.

 

[universallyabhorred]

Get this, before meeting this guy, I had been to 14 different therapists, 7-8 psychologists, 5 psychiatrists, not a single one of them realized that I was an abuse victim.

How severe was the abuse? What types of abuse were you subjected to? I myself was abused by my parents, physically, verbally and emotionally along with bullied by my peers. I wrote about some of my experiences and most people said it was quite brutal.

Symptoms vary pretty widely depending on the type of abuse and who it was committed by. Sexual abuse has very different symptoms from non sexual for example, physical is very different from verbal, being abused by an authority figure or a relative is very different from being abused by a stranger, there are a lot of things that can factor into it.

In my case it was extreme fear and distrust of my peers, whenever I was within 10 feet of another person roughly my own age, I would be absolutely terrified and be completely drenched in sweat within minutes. This became much more of a problem when I became an adult, because at that point I started seeing all adults as my peers.

Another thing was my extreme reliance on dissociation as a coping mechanism, where I would escape into my mind in stressful situations and lose awareness of myself and my surroundings.

I too have symptoms, mainly PTSDlike, which involves emotions from the past flooding in and seeming new, this makes me feel despair, anger and irritable. I have trouble relaxing and aches and pains in my body. I also distrust others and fear being socially dominated but they are relatively rational and this has more to do with me being autistic rather than being abused or bullied. I also feel a deep contempt and hatred for all of humanity.

 

[TINMAN]

How severe was the abuse? What types of abuse were you subjected to? I myself was abused by my parents, physically, verbally and emotionally along with bullied by my peers. I wrote about some of my experiences and most people said it was quite brutal.



I too have symptoms, mainly PTSDlike, which involves emotions from the past flooding in and seeming new, this makes me feel despair, anger and irritable. I have trouble relaxing and aches and pains in my body. I also distrust others and fear being socially dominated but they are relatively rational and this has more to do with me being autistic rather than being abused or bullied. I also feel a deep contempt and hatred for all of humanity.

Sorry for the slow reply, I went to bed early last night because I felt like shit after remembering all of this.

When I was very young (younger than age 5) it was mostly physical, later on it was mostly verbal or behavioural, with some physical abuse. In terms of the type of physical abuse, I would say things like arm twisting to the point of near dislocation or other abuse in such a way that did not leave obvious evidence. The other abuse consisted of constant verbal putdowns mixed with loud verbal abuse, no privacy, no personal belongings (the few things that I had would be regularly stolen and/or broken), not allowing me to have any personal boundaries whatsoever. I think there were other things but my memory is kind of a blur, it's really hard to remember a lot of it directly.

In my opinion, the most traumatizing thing for me was not having anywhere I could go where I could escape or feel safe, hiding didn't help at all. When I got older, about the age of 15 or 16, I came up with the idea of going after school and climbing a tree in a park nearby where I lived where there was no one around. I would stay there until it was really late and pretend that I was out with my friends (I had no friends, I was too scared of other people). In my younger years I unfortunately just had to come up with some way to endure it directly.

It didn't occur to me that I was being abused, I was subjected to these conditions from a very young age (younger than 1 year old), as far back as I can remember, so I just assumed that they were normal. When I first learned about the concept of abuse I assumed that it was something more serious than my situation, like someone physically torturing you every day or beating you with a belt all the time.

 

[Deleted member 16624]

Not bad advice imo,but it's overused and doesn't work for most incels.

 

[universallyabhorred]

When I was very young (younger than age 5) it was mostly physical, later on it was mostly verbal or behavioural, with some physical abuse. In terms of the type of physical abuse, I would say things like arm twisting to the point of near dislocation or other abuse in such a way that did not leave obvious evidence. The other abuse consisted of constant verbal putdowns mixed with loud verbal abuse, no privacy, no personal belongings (the few things that I had would be regularly stolen and/or broken), not allowing me to have any personal boundaries whatsoever. I think there were other things but my memory is kind of a blur, it's really hard to remember a lot of it directly.

Seems similar to me. In my case, I can't remember when my parents first hit me maybe in preschool or younger, but I think they have always used hitting, it's considered "normal Indian parenting", seen it with my relatives too. It started out pretty lightly by comparison, I think, but got worse in later childhood and preteen or teenage years.

I have had all these things done to me, arm twisting, hit by belt, strangled a few times (didn't pass out), hit by other objects, had objects thrown at me, kicked, punched, shoved, slapped, falling, lifted forcefully, burned lightly once on the bottom by mother. I had some cuts, bruises and welts but no broken bones or permanent injury, outside of the emotional trauma.

Also had a lot of verbal and emotional abuse, wasn't allowed to post things on my room walls and had parents coming in and out with no regard to privacy, yelled at and criticized for everything, constant name-calling, shamed and guilt tripped for anything I wanted or liked. I never felt loved or cared for by my shitty parents, in the cases where they acted that way, it was just pretentious manipulation.

In my opinion, the most traumatizing thing for me was not having anywhere I could go where I could escape or feel safe, hiding didn't help at all. When I got older, about the age of 15 or 16, I came up with the idea of going after school and climbing a tree in a park nearby where I lived where there was no one around. I would stay there until it was really late and pretend that I was out with my friends (I had no friends, I was too scared of other people). In my younger years I unfortunately just had to come up with some way to endure it directly.

Same, though this wasn't the worst part. I had friends but they just bullied and picked on me, mainly verbally but rarely physically, I was never accepted or liked due to being my autism (diagnosed). The whole world was similarly cruel to me as my parents though it hurt more coming from them, since they were supposed to love and care for me and not hurt me. I trusted them and they betrayed me and caused me a lot of trauma by being abusive.

The worst part for me is realizing everyone is the same, that they are all against me, there's no good in the world, and if there's, it's not for an traumatized incel male like me, it's for those who won the genetic lottery by being NT and good looking.

It didn't occur to me that I was being abused, I was subjected to these conditions from a very young age (younger than 1 year old), as far back as I can remember, so I just assumed that they were normal. When I first learned about the concept of abuse I assumed that it was something more serious than my situation, like someone physically torturing you every day or beating you with a belt all the time.

I also used to think this was normal until I read up on child abuse. Even then I was in denial for a long time, believing it wasn't that bad since I didn't pass out or have bones broken or permanent injury and they occasionally bought me stuff I wanted or "acted loving". But then I realized what it was. After a long time of fighting this fact, I have now come to terms with it.

Humanity is scum, dirt, trash and truly overrated.

 

[lightskin2thousand0]

therapists are there to help normies who are bad on luck but still developed social skills healthily as a child, it is a scam for the people who truly truly need it

As some high IQ incel said one day, therapy is for normal people with normal problems.
Maybe in future therapist will be able to change genes and solve our problems but until then it's worthless.
I'm talking here of course about true incels, a lot of people here are probably mentalcels and therapy may actually help them tbh.