So me and my bf wanted to do some light exploring with different stuff in bed, which led us to buy a satisfyer pro. We were really exited about it, but when we tried it for the first time together i thought it was kind of underwhelming tbh. I mean it was nice but not nicer than fingers or oral. However…. Decided to try it on my own when my bf wasn’t home and it was amazing. It made me realize I’ve never had an orgasm, like ever… at least not like that. And that I’d never really experienced arousal outside my head before. That warm pulsating feeling, nope. The cramps in your lower belly, no. The sensation in your whole body before an orgasm, never. How sensitive you are afterwards?!?! I know orgasms are different for everyone but, this experience made me question my entire sex life, both past and present. However, tried using it again with him, but it wasn’t the same. I couldn’t relax, didn’t get as aroused and ended up faking an orgasm. But then again when I was alone it was easy to finish. All this led me to being less sexually attracted to my bf, and now I don’t know what to do.
