Just Be Confident = actually Don't Give a Fuck

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What the fuck is confidence? The belief that you can do something?

What you really need to approach is not confidence or the belief that you can do it.

Of course, you can do it. You are talking or have been talking to people for years.

What you really need is not confidence...it's not giving a fuck mindset that makes the difference

If you don't want to approach is not because you are not confident that you can do it.

It's because:

1. You are convinced or know that it won't bring you results and you talk yourself out of it.
2. You are too high inhibition NOT because of confidence but because you CARE.

Carrying about what others think of you and confidence are not the same fucking thing.

Going with this attitude "just be confident" is wrong because you will be rejected 49/50 times and that will destroy just about anyone's confidence.

It's about not giving a fuck really. IT's about doing it just because....whatever.

Confidence applies to things OVER WHICH YOU HAVE MORE CONTROL.

For example, learning to play a song on a guitar by practicing will give you confidence.

 

[Blackpill Dealer]

the thing is that denialcels can't even be confident, of course they can try to fake it as hard as they want, but they will be just ignored (at best) or laughed at if not worse.

 

[happiless]

This chadlite summed it up pretty well

 

[The Ratman]

There is an old maxim. You can have anything you want if you are willing to give up everything else for it.
Sorry but guys like us have to be harder, take more punishment, endure savage cruelty even get close to the prize. Not fair? Fair is a made up word used by children who don't understand what life is really about.
Confidence is a word like that. It really means if that is what you want keep at it. It does not mean keep doing the same thing but learn from the experience and while it is almost impossible for guys like us to endure, be willing to be savagely shot down again and again and again until you succeed or die. No one cares that is is harder for you no one cares if you die a virgin. No one

 

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This chadlite summed it up pretty well

i can't stand this pretentious asshole faggot

fuck youtube and all vlogging faggots on it

There is an old maxim. You can have anything you want if you are willing to give up everything else for it.
Sorry but guys like us have to be harder, take more punishment, endure savage cruelty even get close to the prize. Not fair? Fair is a made up word used by children who don't understand what life is really about.
Confidence is a word like that. It really means if that is what you want keep at it. It does not mean keep doing the same thing but learn from the experience and while it is almost impossible for guys like us to endure, be willing to be savagely shot down again and again and again until you succeed or die. No one cares that is is harder for you no one cares if you die a virgin. No one

isn't the quote:

You can have anything you want if you are willing to give up the belief that you can’t have it.

 

[The Ratman]

i can't stand this pretentious asshole faggot

fuck youtube and all vlogging faggots on it


isn't the quote:

You can have anything you want if you are willing to give up the belief that you can’t have it.

Amounts to the same thing. If you want it, endure the pain if not just quit and stop whining about it. Being a man is hard.

 

[Kanakops]

All is in your title
"Just be confident" mean "I actually don't give a fuck about your situation fucking looser, change the subject"

 

[Grotesque]

By this definition, I am extremely confident.

Confident = Attractive and aware of it.

 

[theoldnick]

What the fuck is confidence? The belief that you can do something?

What you really need to approach is not confidence or the belief that you can do it.

Of course, you can do it. You are talking or have been talking to people for years.

What you really need is not confidence...it's not giving a fuck mindset that makes the difference

If you don't want to approach is not because you are not confident that you can do it.

It's because:

1. You are convinced or know that it won't bring you results and you talk yourself out of it.
2. You are too high inhibition NOT because of confidence but because you CARE.

Carrying about what others think of you and confidence are not the same fucking thing.

Going with this attitude "just be confident" is wrong because you will be rejected 49/50 times and that will destroy just about anyone's confidence.

It's about not giving a fuck really. IT's about doing it just because....whatever.

Confidence applies to things OVER WHICH YOU HAVE MORE CONTROL.

For example, learning to play a song on a guitar by practicing will give you confidence.

the way I see it,
confidence is a feedback loop

you get more confident when you already succeeded, so you get even better

that's why the first time is so difficult (getting that first date)

you are confident with girls when you already have been succesful and you know you can do it

 

[Deleted member 1252]

If an ugly man acts confident he ends up in prison.

 

[IKnowThatImNot]

I mean if you don't give a fuck enough you won't even bother trying cause who fuckin cares.