Being mature is simply waking up one day and just realizing that all dating advice besides what little the blackpill can offer is literally, LITERALLY schizophrenic.
Be nice! Oh, not too nice, that's being a pushover! Oh, not enough nice, you're being mean now!
But be also assertive! Oh, not that assertive, that's domineering!
No, no, just take a better photo! You aren't getting any matches because you wore the blue shirt and not the red shirt in the photo!
Just approach ten million times! No, I have never, ever dated anyone who did try to chat me up in the mall, why do you ask?