Today had a conversation with a friend (24f), she's a very attractive woman who's been in a long term relationship for about 3 1/2 years and we've been friends from work for maybe a year and a half. I thought pertinent to ask her for some advice since she seems to have found a relationship that works for her and I've only had a girlfirend a couple years ago and the relationship lasted only a few months.
Her boyfriend dosen't have his life together and has been out of work for the past two years, so she's been paying for both of their lives in that time. She jokingly asked me if I could take care of her financially because I do have my act together. I said I found it rude because she enjoys my company and my being and that kind of felt like a backhanded compliment where the only thing missing for her to want to jump ship and try to date me was physical attractiveness. She said yes. I then said if I was 6'2 and nothing else about me changed I wouldn't have any issues dating and she answered yes again, no hesitation.
