If chad's room is pure chaos with ashtrays filled with marijuana joints, dirty bongs, rusting beer cans under the bed, dirty smelly clothes all around the floor, used condoms and wet panties thrown around, and yet he has no self-esteem problems because there is a line of stacies outside...
then I guess the room is not the problem.
The problem is there is no room for autistic, ugly, short, poor and low-status males in the hypergamous mating queue.