a little story based on my experience worked a total of 4 jobs as a 26 yo
I can remember getting asked this question a lot. last time was like 2 months ago.
the first time I was asked by my manager of my first job after graduating college, he told me "when will you get married?"
I answered "I don't think about it. I don't even have enough financial resources"
he replied "but svgmn1, god blesses those who marry with success, don't stress too much about financial resources, think about marrying first. when you have a wife and a kid, god will bless you and your managers will hold you in a higher regard"
2 months after, he laid me of work due to covid 19 crisis. think what would happen if I was married and had a kid hypothetically. this shit stunned me.
other managers did ask the same question, including my current job managers.
at first I was oblivious to the meaning behind it, but I think I just figured everything out.
the reasons why a manager, who isn't concerned about your personal life, asks you these kind of questions are:
1-marriage will more likely tie you to the job:
from a financial standpoint, a single person has his fare shares of responsibility, marrying a toilet and betabuxxing yourself for her will increase that responsibility exponentially. you as a fugly looking piece of shit will be torn between your toilet whore of a wife, who only married you for financial stability and your boss.
yes the same boss who lectured you and gave you a little cute moral talk about the virtue of marriage, he will use that against you in the future. you're basically renouncing your financial freedom infront of him and telling him "I'm all yours" if you're naive and you don't have a backup plan.
but even if you had a backup plan, your boss knows your chances are low in the current market and it's over-competitiveness. and he sure depends on that.
he will have the luxury of deducting from your paycheck and he knows you will be begging on his desk like a bitch in the first day of the month instead of just giving him a middle finger and walking away, like I did for my past two jobs.
tl;dr: he isn't concerned about your happiness, he just wants to tie you to the job/company. It's so creepy how normies can be manipulative to such a degree.
2-merely powerplay:
another reason that could be attributed is just powerplay. your manager knows well creatures like you won't marry: this is because I got asked this question by the same manager more than once, even for my obvious ugliness that they themselves mock behind doors and even after arguing against it and clarifying my reasons for not marrying/hooking up.
your manager wants to keep that weakness/underachievement under exposure, that so you always feel inferior and feel in a dire need to achieve more.
3-mere psychopathic tendency to extract humor of someone else's suffering.
yep, your boss laughs at whatever you will give him as an argument to why you don't want (irl, can't) marry at the moment.
now, here's my takes on how to get a rebuttal for such questions without being a dumbass on the edge and end up looking "offensive/rude":
1-never tell him you can't marry for any reason, carefully read point no. 2 of the previous list. the worst thig you could say would be to mention your physical attributes as the reason, he will simply dismiss them and laugh about you and be giving you a tirade of bluepill bullshit, fully knowing you are in the right.
if you do that, you will basically tell him "I'm a bum" believe it or not this question is a trick, just like a job interview.
infact, it's better for you to treat your entire time at the job as a job interview, lie lie, make shit up. it's hard but in theory it is perfect.
2-never tell him about your financial situation expecting help from him or thinking it is just an attempt for him to get closer to you, you aren't a female. he clearly wants the opposite.
3-always answer this question with a satirical/rhetorical tone. never be too serious about it. if you do you will announce your desperate attempts.
"she hasn't found me yet" "If I was married I would be like x person who is married" or something that sounds as a joke is 10 times better than humiliating yourself by giving obviously fake, pathetic answers like "I haven't found a suitable person that met my standards"
I told my boss once "I would like to, but I'm looking for a young and financially strong woman bla bla, etc"
knowing that he had a daughter that was spoiled as fuck and fit those words, he kept a tight mouth. I also made sure to make it formal, indirect and not make it obvious, otherwise it would've been a grave mistake,
but this was one of the few times I got those fuckers right in the balls. he just kept listening and couldn't mutter a single word JFL.
I can remember getting asked this question a lot. last time was like 2 months ago.
the first time I was asked by my manager of my first job after graduating college, he told me "when will you get married?"
I answered "I don't think about it. I don't even have enough financial resources"
he replied "but svgmn1, god blesses those who marry with success, don't stress too much about financial resources, think about marrying first. when you have a wife and a kid, god will bless you and your managers will hold you in a higher regard"
2 months after, he laid me of work due to covid 19 crisis. think what would happen if I was married and had a kid hypothetically. this shit stunned me.
other managers did ask the same question, including my current job managers.
at first I was oblivious to the meaning behind it, but I think I just figured everything out.
the reasons why a manager, who isn't concerned about your personal life, asks you these kind of questions are:
1-marriage will more likely tie you to the job:
from a financial standpoint, a single person has his fare shares of responsibility, marrying a toilet and betabuxxing yourself for her will increase that responsibility exponentially. you as a fugly looking piece of shit will be torn between your toilet whore of a wife, who only married you for financial stability and your boss.
yes the same boss who lectured you and gave you a little cute moral talk about the virtue of marriage, he will use that against you in the future. you're basically renouncing your financial freedom infront of him and telling him "I'm all yours" if you're naive and you don't have a backup plan.
but even if you had a backup plan, your boss knows your chances are low in the current market and it's over-competitiveness. and he sure depends on that.
he will have the luxury of deducting from your paycheck and he knows you will be begging on his desk like a bitch in the first day of the month instead of just giving him a middle finger and walking away, like I did for my past two jobs.
tl;dr: he isn't concerned about your happiness, he just wants to tie you to the job/company. It's so creepy how normies can be manipulative to such a degree.
2-merely powerplay:
another reason that could be attributed is just powerplay. your manager knows well creatures like you won't marry: this is because I got asked this question by the same manager more than once, even for my obvious ugliness that they themselves mock behind doors and even after arguing against it and clarifying my reasons for not marrying/hooking up.
your manager wants to keep that weakness/underachievement under exposure, that so you always feel inferior and feel in a dire need to achieve more.
3-mere psychopathic tendency to extract humor of someone else's suffering.
yep, your boss laughs at whatever you will give him as an argument to why you don't want (irl, can't) marry at the moment.
now, here's my takes on how to get a rebuttal for such questions without being a dumbass on the edge and end up looking "offensive/rude":
1-never tell him you can't marry for any reason, carefully read point no. 2 of the previous list. the worst thig you could say would be to mention your physical attributes as the reason, he will simply dismiss them and laugh about you and be giving you a tirade of bluepill bullshit, fully knowing you are in the right.
if you do that, you will basically tell him "I'm a bum" believe it or not this question is a trick, just like a job interview.
infact, it's better for you to treat your entire time at the job as a job interview, lie lie, make shit up. it's hard but in theory it is perfect.
2-never tell him about your financial situation expecting help from him or thinking it is just an attempt for him to get closer to you, you aren't a female. he clearly wants the opposite.
3-always answer this question with a satirical/rhetorical tone. never be too serious about it. if you do you will announce your desperate attempts.
"she hasn't found me yet" "If I was married I would be like x person who is married" or something that sounds as a joke is 10 times better than humiliating yourself by giving obviously fake, pathetic answers like "I haven't found a suitable person that met my standards"
I told my boss once "I would like to, but I'm looking for a young and financially strong woman bla bla, etc"
knowing that he had a daughter that was spoiled as fuck and fit those words, he kept a tight mouth. I also made sure to make it formal, indirect and not make it obvious, otherwise it would've been a grave mistake,
but this was one of the few times I got those fuckers right in the balls. he just kept listening and couldn't mutter a single word JFL.
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