Hypocrisy JFL literally nobody besides one of the hosts at the club want to talk to me

[Hunter]

i got forced to go to a club by my mom and i have to go every week.

first one guy said:

"wow he just seems to be isolating himself" on the first day

then i try to befriend him and he just gives one word responses.

no one else wants to talk to me and they always give off disinterested vibes or straight up ignore me.

even the incel guy with acne and glasses sticks to his own social circle

now virtually no one besides one of the hosts actually acknowledge me.


"JUST SOCIALISE BRO! STOP SPENDING SO MUCH TIME IN YOUR ROOM!"

Just.Fucking.LOL.

 

[Ritalincel]

Go ER

 

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[TheRealChincel]

What kind of club? My mother asked me one summer “So this is the plan, spending your whole summer in your room?” I told her how last summer went where guys tried to start shit with me when I asked to get in a volleyball game and she said to just keep trying...

 

[ColdLightOfDay]

What kind of club? My mother asked me one summer “So this is the plan, spending your whole summer in your room?” I told her how last summer went where guys tried to start shit with me when I asked to get in a volleyball game and she said to just keep trying...

How old are you? I always pictured you as late 20s.

 

[TheRealChincel]

How old are you? I always pictured you as late 20s.

Early 30s so close enough.

 

[Hunter]

What kind of club? My mother asked me one summer “So this is the plan, spending your whole summer in your room?” I told her how last summer went where guys tried to start shit with me when I asked to get in a volleyball game and she said to just keep trying...

a social group hosted for teens by workers, not a real nightclub or house party club.

 

[Deleted member 11015]

a social group hosted for teens by workers, not a real nightclub or house party club.

Jesus Christ, imagine the autists going to that.

 

[ColdLightOfDay]

a social group hosted for teens by workers, not a real nightclub or house party club.

Was there drinking going on there?

 

[Hunter]

Jesus Christ, imagine the autists going to that.

surprisingly its mostly normies and swagfags

Was there drinking going on there?

no

 

[Deleted member 11015]

surprisingly its mostly normies and swagfags


no

Struggling to imagine what it actually is tbh. I know in the UK people going to that would be mercilessly attacked for it. Maybe things have changed though

 

[Hunter]

I know in the UK people going to that would be mercilessly attacked for it.

elab?

 

[Deleted member 11015]

elab?

Well it says you are 17 in your bio. When I was younger kids who were 17 had ID and there were drug and alcohol fueled house parties most weeks.

If you were going to a 'social group' for teens organised by adults you would be laughed at. The people going to it would have been the lowest on the totem pole.

 

[Hunter]

Well it says you are 17 in your bio. When I was younger kids who were 17 had ID and there were drug and alcohol fueled house parties most weeks.

If you were going to a 'social group' for teens organised by adults you would be laughed at. The people going to it would have been the lowest on the totem pole.

yeah, dunno why its attracting all these normies. all of them besides 1 or 2 are completely NT and decent looking. half of the people that go there are foids. just as well the host adults treat us/talk to us like little children. kinda strange tbh.

 

[TheRealChincel]

a social group hosted for teens by workers, not a real nightclub or house party club.

Yeah, I meant like wilderness, computer, etc. When I was a teen, I was in a social group for volunteer work. The guys there didn’t bother me but we did fuckall. I could’ve gone to an arcade by myself or passed out flyers for a parade if someone had asked. I went the next year but it was me and a 12 year old from the last group as everyone else was kicked out. I was the oldest by 4 years and they were all playing TCGs. Luckily my parents understood my plight and that was it for “social group”.

 

[Hunter]

Yeah, I meant like wilderness, computer, etc. When I was a teen, I was in a social group for volunteer work. The guys there didn’t bother me but we did fuckall. I could’ve gone to an arcade by myself or passed out flyers for a parade if someone had asked. I went the next year but it was me and a 12 year old from the last group as everyone else was kicked out. I was the oldest by 4 years and they were all playing TCGs. Luckily my parents understood my plight and that was it for “social group”.

id go to the gym which isnt so far away from the center but my mom is in cahoots with the person who runs the club so she can ask and find out if i have been skipping it.

 

[TheRealChincel]

id go to the gym which isnt so far away from the center but my mom is in cahoots with the person who runs the club so she can ask and find out if i have been skipping it.

That sucks, OP. I guess all I can say is stick it out for a few weeks and then tell your mom it’s not working out. If she thinks you just want to isolate or aren’t trying, I’m sure she’ll relay her concerns with the leader who hopefully confirms what you’re saying. Offer an alternative but stress that you get bad reactions, you’re all for socializing but it’s give and take.

 

[Hunter]

That sucks, OP. I guess all I can say is stick it out for a few weeks and then tell your mom it’s not working out. If she thinks you just want to isolate or aren’t trying, I’m sure she’ll relay her concerns with the leader who hopefully confirms what you’re saying. Offer an alternative but stress that you get bad reactions, you’re all for socializing but it’s give and take.

she wont listen to reason. atm im just waiting it out until college starts again(september) so i dont have to go anymore, or at least for the next couple of months.

 

[TheRealChincel]

she wont listen to reason. atm im just waiting it out until college starts again(september) so i dont have to go anymore, or at least for the next couple of months.

Sorry to hear that, I hope it gets more tolerable at least.

 

[Hunter]

Sorry to hear that, I hope it gets more tolerable at least.

thanks. its not that bad though, i just stay on my phone the whole time.

 

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