I've quit my job...

[Fontaine]

Well I apologize to all NEETs. I really thought I could LARP as a normie, I tried really really hard for a year, but I can't - that was possible only back when I had no money. Take the drive to make money away from me and no reason in the world is sufficient to really convince me to go wageslave.

I believe there are only four possible drives to go wageslave:

1) money
2) higher status (with dating as the ultimate purpose in mind)
3) you derive a sense of accomplishment from your job and you like it (you are very lucky because it is very rare)
4) to contribute to society (doesn't work if you feel alienated from society/dislike society)

Because the 2) and 4) reasons don't work for us, maintaining a stable career as a 21st century incel is close to impossible unless you absolutely need the money or particularly enjoy your job (enjoying your job is extremely rare unless you derive great status and recognition from rare skills, or work outdoors/travel a lot).

If I have one recommendation to give to youngcels here, it's to apply yourself in HS so you can actually get a job that doesn't make you feel like becoming a NEET.

 

[Deleted member 5861]

You probably feel depressed now right? In my experience it is cyclical, you think you accepted inceldom and boom you want to kill yourself badly. Incels will definitely have a midlife crisis if they weren't already depressed.
Also I did quit my job in customer service because it is way too much for any incel to tolerate. It only makes you feel 10x worse. On my first one I was fired after a year because I never showed up to work, when I showed up every single day. You could probably guess the reason.

 

[Weirdcel]

Weren't you working for the government? Government jobs tend to pay really well, while private sector pay/compensation is mostly dogshit.

Really didn't want to let a job like that go.

 

[Fontaine]

You probably feel depressed now right?

I feel elated and liberated, like someone who just escaped a prison.

It helps, of course, that I have enough money to not need welfare. Asking for welfare is undeniably far more depressing than having a regular job.

 

[JovanD]

Or maybe you like the job/project?
I work at gamedev studio, so its easy to fit in and small talk about games with normies.

 

[Fontaine]

Weren't you working for the government? Government jobs tend to pay really well, while private sector pay/compensation is mostly dogshit.

Really didn't want to let a job like that go.

Government jobs pay well, and offer a few other advantages, but what you gain in comfort you lose in other ways. Having to deal with the retarded bureaucracy or software they use is soul-crushing on a daily basis. If you don't need the money, it's over- you'll quickly find yourself sleeping at your desk or browsing forums on your phone in the restroom.

 

[Deleted member 5861]

I feel elated and liberated, like someone who just escaped a prison.

It helps, of course, that I have enough money to not need welfare. Asking for welfare is undeniably far more depressing than having a regular job.

Oh you might feel that way now, but you will realize what this means after the dopamine wears off.
Also I live in America, far less welfare, so it might be a different situation here.

 

[Fontaine]

Or maybe you like the job/project?
I work at gamedev studio, so its easy to fit in and small talk about games with normies.

See 3).

 

[JovanD]

See 3).

I see, totally missed it.

 

[Fontaine]

Oh you might feel that way now, but you will realize what this means after the dopamine wears off.

I don't plan on staying idle forever, I'll ultimately find something but I doubt it will be wageslaving. If I work again it will be freelance work or some kind of business. Also, I'm like, really rich now - it completely changes your perspective on life. I could LDAR for life if I wanted. I insist on retaining some form of activity though.

 

[Deleted member 5861]

I don't plan on staying idle forever, I'll ultimately find something but I doubt it will be wageslaving. If I work again it will be freelance work or some kind of business. Also, I'm like, really rich now - it completely changes your perspective on life. I could LDAR for life if I wanted. I insist on retaining some form of activity though.

at 25? Well I have no idea whats going on then. I pictured a relatively young guy who was poor and wageslaving to get by but figured it wasn't worth it and practically gave up on life. Now thats depressing.

 

[Jockcel]

Too bad I am too dumb to do anything other than low iq unskilled physical labor.

 

[Bootycel]

Too bad I am too dumb to do anything other than low iq unskilled physical labor.

Same

 

[Narazz]

I tell ya the happiest time in my life was when i was neet. friends and women didn't even matter because i was having fun doing my own stuff. i think my goal now is to is to find osme type of income online that will support me enough to play video games in asia somewhere. otherwise going to be cucked into being a slave for some purposeless corporation. not really a way someone should be living and wish we as a society would see shit like that more.

 

[Deleted member 60]

I told you man. At least with school you get the summer off. I'm going to delay working full-time for as long as possible

 

[Fontaine]

I tell ya the happiest time in my life was when i was neet. friends and women didn't even matter because i was having fun doing my own stuff. i think my goal now is to is to find osme type of income online that will support me enough to play video games in asia somewhere. otherwise going to be cucked into being a slave for some purposeless corporation. not really a way someone should be living and wish we as a society would see shit like that more.

The only reason most men have tolerated work since it exists is finding their wife, their kids and a nice meal back home at the end of the day. Also, no welfare kind of made the deal clear- no money, no wife, no security and no self-esteem.

Incels need extra motivation to go to work. This extra motivation involves liking your job. I didn't like my job. Few do. I think a pleasing job must involve the act of creation or discovery: game developer, movie maker, researcher... Or extremely rare and useful skills: neurosurgeon eg. It's not an option for 98% of humanity.

 

[Percolator]

I don't plan on staying idle forever, I'll ultimately find something but I doubt it will be wageslaving. If I work again it will be freelance work or some kind of business. Also, I'm like, really rich now - it completely changes your perspective on life. I could LDAR for life if I wanted. I insist on retaining some form of activity though.

Define really rich.

 

[BasedGod1]

Too bad I am too dumb to do anything other than low iq unskilled physical labor.

Same here

 

[UltimateExile]

I wish I applied myself more in high school. Only jobs open for me are mostly terrible and all are low-paying.

 

[Fontaine]

Define really rich.

Last time I said it on another incel forum, I was overwhelmed by requests for funding plastic surgeries.

I don't want to help fund your surgeries. In nearly all cases, it won't fix your life. A human life is determined between 12 and 16. If you were ugly between 12 and 16, you'll always remain weird, introverted and alienated from society, even if you lower your inhib. I went from 9 to 3 inhib in the last years through ego death and exposure therapy, and still feel like a social retard in a lot of situations. Your life is fucked and the only thing you can do is limiting the damage.

How do you limit the damage? Not by plastic surgery. By getting a job or occupation that sucks the least. It either involves nerdmaxxing in college or striking it rich with luck, like I did.

 

[Percolator]

Last time I said it on another incel forum, I was overwhelmed by requests for funding plastic surgeries.

I don't want to help fund your surgeries. In nearly all cases, it won't fix your life. A human life is determined between 12 and 16. If you were ugly between 12 and 16, you'll always remain weird, introverted and alienated from society, even if you lower your inhib. I went from 9 to 3 inhib in the last years through ego death and exposure therapy, and still feel like a social retard in a lot of situations. Your life is fucked and the only thing you can do is limiting the damage.

How do you limit the damage? Not by plastic surgery. By getting a job or occupation that sucks the least. It either involves nerdmaxxing in college or striking it rich with luck, like I did.

Why am I reading letters when I asked for numbers ?

 

[Fontaine]

Why am I reading letters when I asked for numbers ?

Because I don't like giving precise info to the IRS. It's high, is all I can say.

 

[KyloRen]

I told you man. At least with school you get the summer off. I'm going to delay working full-time for as long as possible

Don't get into debt for it bro, unless you plan on offing yourself.