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I've never asked a woman out. Heres why

Popbob

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A lot of people here will say you are fakecel if you never actually approach a women but im going to tell you why thats bullshit. Why would you approach a women if you know you are going to get shot down, its obvious that im not the type of guy that women like so why whould I even waste my time to approach a female when there is virtually a 100% chance that she is going to reject me. Not to mention im a very awkward guy, if I try to approach a women its going to be really cringy and if she doesn't reject me based on looks then she is going to realize im an aspie and reject me for that, its a lose lose situation.
 
if you are ugly why try? thats my motto tbh
 
Woman approach guys that they like, men approaching woman is just false hope.
 
Popbob said:
A lot of people here will say you are fakecel if you never actually approach a women but im going to tell you why thats bullshit. Why would you approach a women if you know you are going to get shot down, its obvious that im not the type of guy that women like so why whould I even waste my time to approach a female when there is virtually a 100% chance that she is going to reject me. Not to mention im a very awkward guy, if I try to approach a women its going to be really cringy and if she doesn't reject me based on looks then she is going to realize im an aspie and reject me for that, its a lose lose situation.

Rejection is normal. Don't expect too much from her. Just try hitting in some girls. Who knows? I've tried out many times but a few more times and I'm sure we can get girls. The more girks you ask, the higher chance of you getting in a relationship.
 
Crustaciouse said:
Woman approach guys that they like, men approaching woman is just false hope.

Ive seen men have luck with approaching women, just not me


C450_4matic said:
Rejection is normal. Don't expect too much from her. Just try hitting in some girls. Who knows? I've tried out many times but a few more times and I'm sure we can get girls. The more girks you ask, the higher chance of you getting in a relationship.

every rejection is a blow to your self esteem, if you get rejected once or twice then its fine but if you get rejected everytime witch I know is what would happen with me, that would be a huge blow to my self esteem that I couldn't recover from
 
C450_4matic said:
Rejection is normal. Don't expect too much from her. Just try hitting in some girls. Who knows? I've tried out many times but a few more times and I'm sure we can get girls. The more girks you ask, the higher chance of you getting in a relationship.

The more girls you ask, the higher the chance of committing suicide
 
I've never cold approached a woman without knowing her beforehand
 
Crustaciouse said:
Woman approach guys that they like, men approaching woman is just false hope.
 
Crustaciouse said:
Woman approach guys that they like, men approaching woman is just false hope.
 
nah man you are a fakecel. if you dont approach you will never even have a chance.

Just lave the basement theory is the most legit one out there.
 
Sounds like you have tiny genitalia
 
You gotta try. You only need one to say yes brah! The other 99% don't matter.
 
flowerful said:
nah man you are a fakecel. if you dont approach you will never even have a chance.

Just lave the basement theory is the most legit one out there.

There is some truth to JLTB theory but making a first impression as an apsie is a death sentence and its not easy to just switch off
 
Approach females that are below your looks value.

"B-But, I don't want to fuck that."

Then enjoy dying alone.
 
Grotesque said:
Approach females that are below your looks value.

"B-But, I don't want to fuck that."

Then enjoy dying alone.

I dont have any standards
 
Crustaciouse said:
Woman approach guys that they like, men approaching woman is just false hope.

Nail on the head.
 
if you don't know if she likes you, she doesn't
 
Popbob said:
There is some truth to JLTB theory but making a first impression as an apsie is a death sentence and its not easy to just switch off

i know, im in the same damn boat but legit all you have to do is say hi. do not fall for the mem that chad does not approach... its a complete cope
 
volcel projection cope.
 
Popbob said:
Ive seen men have luck with approaching women, just not me



every rejection is a blow to your self esteem, if you get rejected once or twice then its fine but if you get rejected everytime witch I know is what would happen with me, that would be a huge blow to my self esteem that I couldn't recover from



I might not have self esteem myself, but everytime I hit on someone, I always expect "Fuck offs" so no, I do not know what a heartbreak is for it is my lifestyle. Nevertheless, I just keep asking them out. Plenty of fishes in the sea. Don't forget, lots of new girls in my college every semester
 
I approached girls for years and got rejected every single time. It completely destroyed my self steem :( If ur actually ugly and have no social skills its pointless. They prefer to share a Chad with another 20 girls to have sexo with subhumans. Fuck my life :(
 
Popbob said:
A lot of people here will say you are fakecel if you never actually approach a women but im going to tell you why thats bullshit. Why would you approach a women if you know you are going to get shot down, its obvious that im not the type of guy that women like so why whould I even waste my time to approach a female when there is virtually a 100% chance that she is going to reject me. Not to mention im a very awkward guy, if I try to approach a women its going to be really cringy and if she doesn't reject me based on looks then she is going to realize im an aspie and reject me for that, its a lose lose situation.

Only approach women that give you strong indicators of interest. Pointless otherwise. Most incels never get IOI's so that issue sorts itself out


if a woman is not attracted to you at first sight, even if she says yes you will be in for a cucking
 
If there is no IOI's from an FHO, there is no point in approaching her.

If you really had a chance, she would come to you. This just doesn't happen for us.
 

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