Because that's what a true incel is, imbecile. If you can successfully court women into a bed, you aren't an incel. How long it can take is irrelevant. If you're a sexhaver who takes 3 years to get laid, you're clearly doing something wrong in the dating game.
Most men CAN successfully court foids. Men giving up because they have to work harder to get it doesnt mean they're fucking incel you low IQ goober, it just means they need to do better since they atleast have skin in the game. Me and you dont even have a token to play the game.
Being single doesnt mean they are permavirgin subhumans, Retard
A normal guy doesnt want to wife up a single mom, but he is willing to use her for a quick/ez lay.
Lazy men with no ambition settle on porn, guys with normal T levels are out there still getting laid and look for ways to get it done. They dont have this retarded self-defeating mindset to give up, because they are ambitious on all fronts. Foids are like a secondary reward for them when they got their shit together.
It's not out dated, I just know people irl while you probably sit in your room denying yourself sunlight for days feeling sorry for yourself.