Story I've been thinking so much about my teens today

[Hoppipolla]

They were so fun! So social and stuff. So much in life felt so much easier than now.

The main reason I can think of is that teenagers are so fun and sociable (on average) compared to adults IMO. So everything just flowed.

Plus you feel like you belong because you're part of a family, school / sixth form, etc. You never just drift.

I remember saying to my best mate when I turned 21 that I felt like my life was over.

I guess it makes sense. No direction anymore, I was away at uni so my friends network wasn't there anymore, everyone moving away, everyone changing, etc. Can't live with family. The whole infrastructure of your life falls apart and best case scenario you build something that's totally different because the lifestyle is totally different.

As an adult you don't have that built-in sense of community, belonging, support, etc. It's like you have to work 5x as hard to get a fraction of the amount in return.

 

[Onyx]

Interesting. Well I'm 18 rn and it isn't fun.

 

[SewerGoat]

Interesting. Well I'm 18 rn and it isn't fun.

Don't worry, it gets worse

 

[Onyx]

Don't worry, it gets worse

Can't wait. Thanks for the heads up!!!

 

[Hoppipolla]

Interesting. Well I'm 18 rn and it isn't fun.

Hm. At 18 I was on my gap year before I went away to uni.

I was working somewhere small and partying a LOT with my old friends network from school and sixth form. Going to see bands, etc etc.

 

[anotherwastedlife]

my teens sucked but it was better than the shit existence i have now

 

[retardedzoomer88]

bro had a happy teenhood. lucky

 

[Excalibur]

Mogs me. I was completely by myself during my teens.

 

[retardedzoomer88]

Hm. At 18 I was on my gap year before I went away to uni.

I was working somewhere small and partying a LOT with my old friends network from school and sixth form. Going to see bands, etc etc.

popular chad low inhibition prob had tons of sex too

 

[Onyx]

Hm. At 18 I was on my gap year before I went away to uni.

I was working somewhere small and partying a LOT with my old friends network from school and sixth form. Going to see bands, etc etc.

Went to a party before? Fakecel
JK
Sounded like fun though.

 

[Hoppipolla]

Don't worry, it gets worse

It's weird because... 19 was OK for me. Uni was fun at least at first. But my old friends seemed to be changing loads as they grew up, and for some reason my mum was convinced that she had to pressure me lots and that stressed me out too much to finish my course so I dropped out at 20.

 

[Rapistcel]

Mogs me. I was completely by myself during my teens.

 

[RealSchizo]

jfl everyone here mogs my childhood

 

[PolnischeKartoffel]

bro had a happy teenhood. lucky

 

[PolnischeKartoffel]

Mogs me. I was completely by myself during my teens.

 

[nazianime]

My childhood sucked ass, I had no privacy and was poor. My adult life mogs to shit my childhood life, I can go drive to get a nice burger any time or ice cream, I can watch what I want, I can buy what I want. Only shitty thing is I can’t look at teens anymore at school and the FOMO from all my missed experiences.

 

[PolnischeKartoffel]

I have literally zero good memories from these years

 

[gattsu]

Nigger teenagehoodmogging 99% of the site jfl

 

[Hoppipolla]

Possibly it might have helped me a lot if there was always a sixth form equivalent I was attending as an adult too. Not work but somewhere that you just went. Maybe like church once was, idk.

Possibly that would have done it for me. As then even if all my old friends changed... I'd have a really simple, accessible way to meet new people and move on.

 

[TooSomething]

Hm. At 18 I was on my gap year before I went away to uni.

I was working somewhere small and partying a LOT with my old friends network from school and sixth form. Going to see bands, etc etc.

I swear you don't even sound like an incel.

 

[Hoppipolla]

Maybe if I'd somehow had it in me to clearly and consistently focus on very sociable employment I'd have been OK. Always aimed for that over and over again.

Edit -- To be fair though smaller jobs tend to be way easier to find.

Edit again -- Maybe supermarkets and stuff? (I'm writing my thought process here now lol)

I swear you don't even sound like an incel.

Having a good social life always helps I think. If I could sort this out maybe I'd do better romantically also ^_^

 

[SlayerSlayer]

They were so fun! So social and stuff. So much in life felt so much easier than now.

The main reason I can think of is that teenagers are so fun and sociable (on average) compared to adults IMO. So everything just flowed.

Plus you feel like you belong because you're part of a family, school / sixth form, etc. You never just drift.

I remember saying to my best mate when I turned 21 that I felt like my life was over.

I guess it makes sense. No direction anymore, I was away at uni so my friends network wasn't there anymore, everyone moving away, everyone changing, etc. Can't live with family. The whole infrastructure of your life falls apart and best case scenario you build something that's totally different because the lifestyle is totally different.

As an adult you don't have that built-in sense of community, belonging, support, etc. It's like you have to work 5x as hard to get a fraction of the amount in return.

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I think my teens were the worst time in my life, constant bullying and sexual frustration, what is wrong with you? This is a fakecel take

 

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I think my teens were the worst time in my life, constant bullying and sexual frustration, what is wrong with you? This is a fakecel take

 

[Hoppipolla]

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I think my teens were the worst time in my life, constant bullying and sexual frustration, what is wrong with you? This is a fakecel take

You know what's weird? The part of the playground we used to hang out in at school (ages 11-15) was nicknamed "Geek's Corner". lol

We were the outcasts! But we still had our group and we had a lot of fun. And I met lots of new people outside of that group via people from that group.

Then all that broke down at sixth form and everyone just hung out together in the common room as I recall.

 

[SlayerSlayer]

You know what's weird? The part of the playground we used to hang out in at school (ages 11-15) was nicknamed "Geek's Corner". lol

We were the outcasts! But we still had our group and we had a lot of fun. And I met lots of new people outside of that group via people from that group.

Then all that broke down at sixth form and everyone just hung out together in the common room as I recall.

I HAD NO FRIENDS JUST BULLIES THAT GAVE ME TITTY TWISTERS AND PUSHED ME OVER INTO A TRASH CAN

 

[Sex-Starved Beast]

I can't believe what I'm reading.

They were so fun! So social and stuff. So much in life felt so much easier than now.

The main reason I can think of is that teenagers are so fun and sociable (on average) compared to adults IMO. So everything just flowed.

Plus you feel like you belong because you're part of a family, school / sixth form, etc. You never just drift.

This is ridicolous. I was expecting a line that would reveal this to be a joke thread, but you are being serious? Nothing has ever flowed in my life, never. It can be summed up perfectly by the football player 4chan copypasta. If anything, my teens were worse than the present, because at least now I have more experience and I can handle my situation better, because nothing just flows for me.

I was working somewhere small and partying a LOT

Working and partying at 18 instead of being an outcast? Insane.

Uni was fun at least at first.

Uni fun?? The only people who find university fun are the outgoing ones who enjoy being in a class full of normies and foids and can socialize with them.
This whole thread seems absurd if it comes from an incel.

 

[Hoppipolla]

I HAD NO FRIENDS JUST BULLIES THAT GAVE ME TITTY TWISTERS AND PUSHED ME OVER INTO A TRASH CAN

Maybe you went to a harsher school than me? My school involved passing a (moderate difficulty) test to get into, so it wasn't especially rough.

@Sex-Starved Beast Hm. Same question as above? lol

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

I remember saying to my best mate when I turned 21 that I felt like my life was over.

Lmao
I wish I were 21 again. Or 25.

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

Interesting. Well I'm 18 rn and it isn't fun.

These kids...

 

[Onyx]

These kids...

What's the problem?

 

[Hoppipolla]

What's the problem?

u r too young. come back when you're more bitter and jaded. lol

 

[Pancakecel]

My teens were depressing, I'd go back to being between 8 to 12 yo, if I could. Mainly because I was not self aware, and so had little to no worries, or negative thoughts/ feelings.

 

[Spiteful Mutant]

Never got to experience any of that, personally.

Sometimes I wonder how things would have turned out if I had been able to connect with others when I was a teenager.

But no one ever wanted to hang around me, so...

 

[Spiteful Mutant]

partying a LOT with my old friends

Is that so? Mogs the shit out of me, nigga.

 

[Hoppipolla]

Never got to experience any of that, personally.

Sometimes I wonder how things would have turned out if I had been able to connect with others when I was a teenager.

But no one ever wanted to hang around me, so...

Hm. Did you not have a similar layout to the playground at your school where different groups congregated in different areas? There was the area for people who liked tech/gaming, an area for those who liked music, one for football, etc.

I was in the tech and gaming bit, lol. We were very welcoming to people. I can't speak for the other groups but the music guys seemed very friendly too. We used to go over there occasionally.

 

[Spiteful Mutant]

Hm. Did you not have a similar layout to the playground at your school where different groups congregated in different areas? There was the area for people who liked tech/gaming, an area for those who liked music, one for football, etc.

I was in the tech and gaming bit, lol. We were very welcoming to people. I can't speak for the other groups but the music guys seemed very friendly too. We used to go over there occasionally.

My high school didn't have a playground. It was a decrepit shithole packed full of normies and ghetto blacks, spics and wiggers who I, being the weird loner autist I am, had no chance of ever being able to be friends with. There were a few outcast/nerd groups around but I didn't fit in with them either.

Studymaxxing alone was my only choice then which ultimately led me nowhere, and I only stayed on campus for about two years. Maybe I could've had a chance if I had stayed put for the last two years of high school, but who knows.

 

[Hoppipolla]

My high school didn't have a playground. It was a decrepit shithole packed full of normies and ghetto blacks, spics and wiggers who I, being the weird loner autist I am, had no chance of ever being able to be friends with. There were a few outcast/nerd groups around but I didn't fit in with them either.

Studymaxxing alone was my only choice then which ultimately led me nowhere, and I only stayed on campus for about two years. Maybe I could've had a chance if I had stayed put for the last two years of high school, but who knows.

I do remember there were some kids who just stayed in the library. That was the only "group" that I was aware of that might have included people who didn't fit into the main ones I said. I remember this girl who was always over there. I think that was by choice though I don't think she was like a reject from our group or anything!

Did you just not feel similar enough to the "outcast/nerd" groups to fit in there either? We used to play video games and stuff so much lol

 

[Spiteful Mutant]

I do remember there were some kids who just stayed in the library. That was the only "group" that I was aware of that might have included people who didn't fit into the main ones I said. I remember this girl who was always over there. I think that was by choice though I don't think she was like a reject from our group or anything!

Did you just not feel similar enough to the "outcast/nerd" groups to fit in there either? We used to play video games and stuff so much lol

No. I was almost always brushed aside by even the people who I should have theoretically been able to make acquaintance with.

Everyone already had their seemingly pre established friend groups, and it was impossible for me to break into any of them.

I did hang out in the library during lunch, though, just scrolling my phone or watching videos, mostly towards the end of 10th grade when I knew it was truly over for me socially. Then I disappeared after enrolling into a collegiate program. Couldn't connect with anyone there, either.

 

[Onyx]

u r too young. come back when you're more bitter and jaded. lol

I'm basically 19 now. Literally every girl has already had sex multiple times, not that it even matters cause I had no chance with them. But I have spent these past years just in my room. Every Friday night just a walk of shame back home whilst normies and foids go out to fuck lmaoooo.

 

[VanGobbel]

i remember when i would enjoy gaming so much cant even cope with that anymore

 

[ANTAGONIST]

Mogs me. I was completely by myself during my teens.

 

[ANTAGONIST]

were so fun! So social and stuff. So much in life felt so much easier than now.

 

[ANTAGONIST]

I'm 19 now. Literally every girl has already had sex multiple times, not that it even matters cause I had no chance with them.

 

[ANTAGONIST]

My childhood sucked ass, I had no privacy and was poor

Same. I had to live in the same room with my sister and all the rooms were connected and the doors were open

 

[ANTAGONIST]

my teens sucked

While the foid teens sucked

 

[Brainy]

i never was a teenager

 

[deleted dude]

Hm. At 18 I was on my gap year before I went away to uni.

I was working somewhere small and partying a LOT with my old friends network from school and sixth form. Going to see bands, etc etc.

mogger

 

[anotherwastedlife]

While the foid teens sucked

Yep they did

 

[superpsycho]

WHAT THE FUCK

They were so fun! So social and stuff. So much in life felt so much easier than now.

The main reason I can think of is that teenagers are so fun and sociable (on average) compared to adults IMO. So everything just flowed.

Plus you feel like you belong because you're part of a family, school / sixth form, etc. You never just drift.

Hm. At 18 I was on my gap year before I went away to uni.

I was working somewhere small and partying a LOT with my old friends network from school and sixth form. Going to see bands, etc etc.

HOLY FUCKING

SOCIALCHADS.IS

NOTHING EVER JUST “FLOWED” FOR ME
IVE NEVER FELT A SENSE OF BELONGING
I NEVER HAD A FRIEND IN MY ENTIRE LIFE AND I NEVER HAD THE MENTAL CAPABILITY TO ATTEND PARTIES

its all so tiresome

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

u r too young. come back when you're more bitter and jaded. lol