I've been crying or at the edge of crying at least several weeks now

[AutisticMonstrosity]

I've known since being a child (7 years old at the latest) that I probably won't ever have consensual, non-paid sex and have children, given my face. But now it is finally sinking in with full force, when the time is really running out (even though I never had a chance in the first place, so time running out should not be relevant). And I saw some months ago one photo of me when I was 14 or 15; I looked much better in that photo than I look now (truecel-tier still back then of course).

I've been trying to go to an escort over a year now to lose virginity, I've checked during this time every day what's available that day. But, I just can't do it. The whole point of sex is being desired by the other participant, at least for me.

 

[Glast]

That's just how it is for us man. It's a test to see how much we can take before we can't.

 

[Deleted member 30198]

That's just how it is for us man. It's a test to see how much we can take before we can't.

theres no test. we werent designed to be like this, we just had no luck and thus we're doomed to live like cockroaches for the rest of our existence.

trying to reason with the randomness of reality is a bluepiller trait. we simply had no luck, thats it. theres no divine test, theres no reward at the end of our suffering, theres no justice, theres nothing for anyone here. the world doesnt owe you a gf, and you dont owe the world a single shit. we're governed by our own fear of being caught by the government and other institutions who would take our freedom if we stepped out of the lines they traced for us. simply putting, we're slaves.

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

I was going to feel bad but then I remember you hate Islam.

 

[AutisticMonstrosity]

I was going to feel bad but then I remember you hate Islam.

Because it creates more incels here when the islamic men are very active in the casual sex and dating markets while islamic women (which exist here in much less numbers, because most muslims here are recent asylum seeker migrants so mostly men and family reunification has been made impossible if not already co-habited for several years before coming here) are reserved only for islamic men (and in many cases actually the religion is only the pretext, an Arab can be quite irreligious, drink alcohol, not pray, not fast, but still get Muslim woman while much more devoted native European convert can't get muslim woman) and do not partake in the said market, thus the effective sex ratio is even worse than the statistics show.

And it is bad that islam allows up to 4 wives per man. Should be the other way round: women should be allowed 1-4 husbands and men always only one. That would lessen the problem of excess lonely men.

I think both islam and christianity are for stupid people that can't think things themselves.

 

[cucksaar]

Go to escorts a couple of times before making up your mind about it. You can’t know what it’s like until you’ve done it.

 

[Glast]

theres no test. we werent designed to be like this, we just had no luck and thus we're doomed to live like cockroaches for the rest of our existence.

trying to reason with the randomness of reality is a bluepiller trait. we simply had no luck, thats it. theres no divine test, theres no reward at the end of our suffering, theres no justice, theres nothing for anyone here. the world doesnt owe you a gf, and you dont owe the world a single shit. we're governed by our own fear of being caught by the government and other institutions who would take our freedom if we stepped out of the lines they traced for us. simply putting, we're slaves.

I never said this is pre-designed. It's just like you said: that's how things are.

You lose the genetic lottery and this is how your life turns out, doomed to suffer until you can't take it and rope. I'm not trying to reason with it, that's just how it is.

 

[SlutLiberationFront]

I recommend you to soon travel to a country where the most casual sex happens. In many places, foreigners are highly desirable and "exotic", even if they don't look that good. You could read about Cape Dagne and some stories about that place and try your luck, if that's too extreme, then just go to some more "normal" but still casually active place for sex.
Well, I will stay in my place. My room is my universe.

 

[Camos95]

I've known since being a child (7 years old at the latest) that I probably won't ever have consensual, non-paid sex and have children, given my face. But now it is finally sinking in with full force, when the time is really running out (even though I never had a chance in the first place, so time running out should not be relevant). And I saw some months ago one photo of me when I was 14 or 15; I looked much better in that photo than I look now (truecel-tier still back then of course).

I've been trying to go to an escort over a year now to lose virginity, I've checked during this time every day what's available that day. But, I just can't do it. The whole point of sex is being desired by the other participant, at least for me.

Back in the days I believed that when I got older I could get young girls 17-20 when I was that age, now that I'm 27 it really sunk that the only thing close to a chance was back then, since I have gotten fatter, balder and stupider and betabuxxing doesn't works I'm probably the or the second most wealthy guy in my social circle, only one with a car and an apartment to his name and I still can't get shit and If I could it would be just for the money, so it's better to hire an escort.

 

[Mystic]

theres no test. we werent designed to be like this, we just had no luck and thus we're doomed to live like cockroaches for the rest of our existence.

trying to reason with the randomness of reality is a bluepiller trait. we simply had no luck, thats it. theres no divine test, theres no reward at the end of our suffering, theres no justice, theres nothing for anyone here. the world doesnt owe you a gf, and you dont owe the world a single shit. we're governed by our own fear of being caught by the government and other institutions who would take our freedom if we stepped out of the lines they traced for us. simply putting, WE'RE SLAVES.

 

[foosballcel]

I recommend you to soon travel to a country where the most casual sex happens. In many places, foreigners are highly desirable and "exotic", even if they don't look that good. You could read about Cape Dagne and some stories about that place and try your luck, if that's too extreme, then just go to some more "normal" but still casually active place for sex.
Well, I will stay in my place. My room is my universe.

yeah OP. ever consider locationmaxxing?

 

[Emba]

Because it creates more incels here when the islamic men are very active in the casual sex and dating markets while islamic women (which exist here in much less numbers, because most muslims here are recent asylum seeker migrants so mostly men and family reunification has been made impossible if not already co-habited for several years before coming here) are reserved only for islamic men (and in many cases actually the religion is only the pretext, an Arab can be quite irreligious, drink alcohol, not pray, not fast, but still get Muslim woman while much more devoted native European convert can't get muslim woman) and do not partake in the said market, thus the effective sex ratio is even worse than the statistics show.

And it is bad that islam allows up to 4 wives per man. Should be the other way round: women should be allowed 1-4 husbands and men always only one. That would lessen the problem of excess lonely men.

I think both islam and christianity are for stupid people that can't think things themselves.

That's an interesting idea

 

[zangano1]

Over for you

 

[AutisticMonstrosity]

Go to escorts a couple of times before making up your mind about it. You can’t know what it’s like until you’ve done it.

Says a guy who does not do it himself...

yeah OP. ever consider locationmaxxing?

Every day of the past several years. But, I don't know how to pull if off. I am autistic, I can't even get a job in my own country.

I recommend you to soon travel to a country where the most casual sex happens. In many places, foreigners are highly desirable and "exotic", even if they don't look that good. You could read about Cape Dagne and some stories about that place and try your luck, if that's too extreme, then just go to some more "normal" but still casually active place for sex.
Well, I will stay in my place. My room is my universe.

I live in a country "where the most casual sex happens", that's the problem! In those places women have zero reasons to have sex with below average men.

I can't get any likes or matches from different countries, except very few in Thailand and Philippines.

 

[Linesnap99]

I can relate.

 

[AutisticMonstrosity]

Cape Dagne

Where is this place? Google Maps does not find it.

 

[SlutLiberationFront]

I can't get any likes or matches from different countries, except very few in Thailand and Philippines.

Get the fuck out of online dating dude, it is a dead end. You must locationmaxx in real life. Get the fuck in a plane and go do Cape Dagne or some other ultra extreme sexually liberal place. It is normal to see people fucking there in the middle of the beach and on the street. That's just as open as sex can possibly be. If that is too much, go to other places where people were able to locationmaxx and get countless fucks with underworld foids. If I could, I would do it.

Where is this place? Google Maps does not find it.

It's Cap d'Agde actually. Decided to look it up, I just had faint memories of reading about it on the internet randomly.

 

[AutisticMonstrosity]

You must locationmaxx in real life.

How this differs from faking location? Its_over gets all his girls online in Thailand, Russia etc. I can go to bars, but I think apps are more efficient. Much more meetings than in bars and nightclubs. And I need thousands of women to even (possibly) to get one match.

It's Cap d'Agde actually.

Cap d'Agde - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

"A local tourist tax is charged per person, per day."

What the fuck?!

Why would any woman there fuck me?

 

[SlutLiberationFront]

How this differs from faking location? Its_over gets all his girls online in Thailand, Russia etc. I can go to bars, but I think apps are more efficient. Much more meetings than in bars and nightclubs. And I need thousands of women to even (possibly) to get one match.

Cap d'Agde - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

"A local tourist tax is charged per person, per day."

What the fuck?!

Why would any woman there fuck me?

Locationmaxx in real life is far more efficient than online. Online dating is a dead end dude, no matter where. Locationmaxxing is meant to be done in real life.

 

[AutisticMonstrosity]

Locationmaxx in real life is far more efficient than online. Online dating is a dead end dude, no matter where. Locationmaxxing is meant to be done in real life.

You have no arguments and answers!

Saying Y is X does not make it be.

How can I get women in other locations if I can't get women interested in me online in that location? And in real life I am autistic, which is not obvious looking just at photos in Tinder-style apps and text-messaging. How many women can I get to look at me in a typical night out compared to swiping thousands of women in apps?

 

[SlutLiberationFront]

You have no arguments and answers!

Saying Y is X does not make it be.

How can I get women in other locations if I can't get women interested in me online in that location? And in real life I am autistic, which is not obvious looking just at photos in Tinder-style apps and text-messaging. How many women can I get to look at me in a typical night out compared to swiping thousands of women in apps?

Online dating is vastly made for attractive people only. Your looks is the first thing they can notice about you, texting won't help much. They can't know your tone of voice, your gesture, body language, etc. If you want to locationmaxx, you have to do it in real life. Online is mostly a dead end for the majority of people. I don't recommend it.

 

[AutisticMonstrosity]

They can't know your tone of voice, your gesture, body language

...and that benefits me. On all those three I get zero points, because autism. I have even less chances in real life. Even if I got a match by looks, my autism would ruin the first date and drive away the woman.

 

[SlutLiberationFront]

...and that benefits me. On all those three I get zero points, because autism. I have even less chances in real life. Even if I got a match by looks, my autism would ruin the first date and drive away the woman.

So why do you even try online knowing that will happen in real life if you get to meet with a women you met online? Unless you are planning to tell her everything about how you act and somehow make her aware of what you actually are, which the chances for, are close to 0, women are vile.

 

[Deleted member 24016]

Same