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Ive been cold approaching + where I have been

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tldr after I got banned for something I thought fuck logging into this forum only to rot my brain chasing dopamine hits with spam, while getting psyop'd by this forum, which this forum, is in fact, a giant psyop.

Why else do you think certain powers (its not jews believe it or not, more likely Freemasons/Jesuits, not that it matters at this point, I can't be asked to spend my days seething at some elusive group of people who may or may not be screwing me over; at the end of the day its aspergers and poor looks + the fact that humans are all flawed and capable/guilty of the same bad things).




For one reason or the other I decided to engage with people more. My mindset shifted from doing so with the hope of not having negative interactions, to fully expecting and embracing negative interactions and dealing with them as and if they came.



I've been approaching couples asking how they met, to which the response was always via friends or work. One woman thought I was gay, and a few thought I was weird and strange presumably due to the fact a stranger is asking them such questions, but nothing too negative. Its a learning experience and in theory I should be getting stronger and more pain resistant.

I wanted to approach this woman I vaguely knew from school, but stalled too much and she walked away before I could make my move.

I wear suit trousers know and dress shirts like @Dr. Autismo , and soon plan to have my haircut like this:


AUG172312 - DOCTOR WHO COMP HIST HC VOL 56 5TH DOCTOR STORIES - Previews  World


I went to some club/bar in my local city where shitty jazz music was playing, and everyone was just sitting there on their phones playing games, or with partners or family or shit like that.

I infiltrated some normie group but the music was too loud to properly converse, and they were talking about uni, jobs and shit like that, which for me is awkward, cause I am basically a neet with no life, just a drifter + speech issues.

I was talking to a woman who told me she only dates tall guys, and I asked how tall, and she said 6'2 (she was 5'11). I left after around 1 hour.




There is more but nothing that interesting and I am too lazy to write more or proof read this shit

@Pancakecel
 
Wish I was that low inhib. Negative reinforcement and shutting myself in over the years has left me completely unable to interact in social situations with random people. Learning about the BP just left me more paranoid than before.
 
Wish I was that low inhib. Negative reinforcement and shutting myself in over the years has left me completely unable to interact in social situations with random people. Learning about the BP just left me more paranoid than before.
 
this is where I am heading

Rejected, everytime, 100%, sure, some girls gave me their instagram, many made an effort to be nice and all, but at the end of the day all of them rejected me... either by telling me "no, sorry", or ghosting me on insta.

I feel frustated as hell, I have almost no enjoyment in talking to girls, and I still have aproach anxiety even tho it's orders of magnitude lower than what I used to have. I still aproach sometimes even though I don't really believe it will ever work. I also enjoy aproaching in night clubs because I can get phisically close to them while I'm talking (and grab some ass).
The single best thing that cold aproaching gave me is the low inhibition, now I don't care as much anymore, I do watever I want, and I am not the weak beta I used to be, and to be honest that's the reason I still do it ocasionally and recomend everyone to do the same.

I'm way more social than I used to be but I don't have more friends, just more people I say "Hi" to. It's sad, I thought after overcoming social anxiety I would ascend to a new level but I guess that couldn't be further from the truth.
 
It's a waste of time trying to fit in when you're a sperg, it causes more harm than good. You'll never be a normie no matter how hard you try.
 
tldr after I got banned for something I thought fuck logging into this forum only to rot my brain chasing dopamine hits with spam, while getting psyop'd by this forum, which this forum, is in fact, a giant psyop.

Why else do you think certain powers (its not jews believe it or not, more likely Freemasons/Jesuits, not that it matters at this point, I can't be asked to spend my days seething at some elusive group of people who may or may not be screwing me over; at the end of the day its aspergers and poor looks + the fact that humans are all flawed and capable/guilty of the same bad things).




For one reason or the other I decided to engage with people more. My mindset shifted from doing so with the hope of not having negative interactions, to fully expecting and embracing negative interactions and dealing with them as and if they came.



I've been approaching couples asking how they met, to which the response was always via friends or work. One woman thought I was gay, and a few thought I was weird and strange presumably due to the fact a stranger is asking them such questions, but nothing too negative. Its a learning experience and in theory I should be getting stronger and more pain resistant.

I wanted to approach this woman I vaguely knew from school, but stalled too much and she walked away before I could make my move.

I wear suit trousers know and dress shirts like @Dr. Autismo , and soon plan to have my haircut like this:


AUG172312 - DOCTOR WHO COMP HIST HC VOL 56 5TH DOCTOR STORIES - Previews  World


I went to some club/bar in my local city where shitty jazz music was playing, and everyone was just sitting there on their phones playing games, or with partners or family or shit like that.

I infiltrated some normie group but the music was too loud to properly converse, and they were talking about uni, jobs and shit like that, which for me is awkward, cause I am basically a neet with no life, just a drifter + speech issues.

I was talking to a woman who told me she only dates tall guys, and I asked how tall, and she said 6'2 (she was 5'11). I left after around 1 hour.




There is more but nothing that interesting and I am too lazy to write more or proof read this shit

@Pancakecel
Interesting, so you mingled with the normfags. Will you continue doing that kinda stuff, or have you seen/ heard enough, from the experience
 
No, Im just getting started
Fair enough, I have too many bad experiences with normfags that I feel quite anxious/ on the defensive when I have to be around them, but if they're willing to chat with you then why not.
 
Slayer. Keep it going.
High inhib is a death sentence.
 
Cold approaching is only fun when you already know you will be rejected
 
I wear suit trousers know and dress shirts like @Dr. Autismo , and soon plan to have my haircut like this:
i'm planning on getting some pairs of black chinos off ebay on the 28th and throwing away my black suit trousers.

black suit trousers look too formal, especially when worn with my hoodie and t shirt.
chinos look formal, but casual at the same time, i never liked jeans tbh.
 
Fuck bro u take some substance for that low inhib?
 
i'm planning on getting some pairs of black chinos off ebay on the 28th and throwing away my black suit trousers.

black suit trousers look too formal, especially when worn with my hoodie and t shirt.
chinos look formal, but casual at the same time, i never liked jeans tbh.
I got some corduroy trousers
 

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