It’s only a matter of time before the new guy at work stops talking to me

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As the title says, it’s only a matter of time before the new guy who just started at my work a couple days ago sees that I’m the social outcast among my colleagues and stops talking to me

Being able to make new friends easily = fakecel
 
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I can make friends easily, just talk to them about stuff
 
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I find it pretty easy to make guy friends. Even though I don't care what they say and I wish people STFU, most people find it easy to talk about themselves.

Fucking normies :feelsUgh:
 
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well i got 1 friend, if my mother counts as one

joking i can't get a long with her either too foidy
 
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IncelCream said:
I can make friends easily, just talk to them about stuff
:soy::soy::soy::soy::soy: Yeah talk to them about stuff like feminism and foids and sex and relationships and marriage
 
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I think looks matter even if you want to make friends with someone.
Ugly="weirdo".
 
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Nukethisgayearth said:
:soy::soy::soy::soy::soy: Yeah talk to them about stuff like feminism and foids and sex and relationships and marriage
Male friends not female friends, like just talk about work or tech or something, like I can break the ice pretty easily
 
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Speed said:
I find it pretty easy to make guy friends. Even though I don't care what they say and I wish people STFU, most people find it easy to talk about themselves.

Fucking normies :feelsUgh:
Friendly isn't the same as friends. Friends grow closer together and do stuff as a group
 
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IncelCream said:
Male friends not female friends, like just talk about work or tech or something, like I can break the ice pretty easily
Jfl and then he mentions “oh yeah i’m going out with my girlfriend this weekend”
This is why i fucking hate conversing with normies
 
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I have two guys I properly consider friends but my work environment is too fast paced and demanding to have decent conversations where you get to know the other person.

I already talked about how shitty the 24/7 mask-wearing policy is for talking to people, plus a couple of the guys there know each other outside of work which makes it even harder to enter their social circle
 
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IncelCream said:
I can make friends easily, just talk to them about stuff

"Just be NT bro"
 
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I can easily fake being normal long enough to become friendly with coworkers. I usually stop trying once I realize they aren't nearly as fucked as I am. Feels usless to continue a friendship with someone who has nothing in common with you. The effort it takes to fake being well-adjusted and talkative is not worth it for me.
 
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I can easily fake being normal long enough to become friendly with coworkers.
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FourthWorlder said:
Parents forced me into speech therapy and other lame shit to normalize me. Only taught me how to respond properly to common npc dialogue. That's why it becomes harder to maintain the facade as the conversations become more personal. Hoping to have work friends as an incel is hopless
 
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IncelCream said:
I can make friends easily, just talk to them about stuff
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SayanimCel said:
As the title says, it’s only a matter of time before the new guy who just started at my work a couple days ago sees that I’m the social outcast among my colleagues and stops talking to me

Being able to make new friends easily = fakecel
I've had this happen to me before but it was me and another guy as new students. He quickly realized I wasn't a normalfaggot.
 
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SayanimCel said:
As the title says, it’s only a matter of time before the new guy who just started at my work a couple days ago sees that I’m the social outcast among my colleagues and stops talking to me

Being able to make new friends easily = fakecel
When a new guy comes they hang out With you until they realize you’rea loser shy outcast and they either ostracize you or bully you