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Theory It’s not just women that did us dirty in life. Most of us don’t have any friends either, so other men refusing to be friends with us is a factor too

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Think about it. Sure, being deprived of love and sex from a woman is your primary suffering.

But there is more we are deprived of socially than just that. We are deprived of even having some decent male friends we can do fun activities with and just chill and hang out with.

You’re a liar if you say you’ve never fantasized about having some good friends too. You get sick of doing everything alone, especially activities that you’re meant to be doing with a friend.

I know we love to say women are to blame for everything, but normie men are also to blame for our suffering. I’ve put in a ridiculous amount of effort into making friends over the years. No jestermaxxing or other BS but I genuinely tried (and still try), to be very outgoing, make the first move in starting conversations, and carrying the conversations but it never amounts to anything.

Normies just always seem to have friends and there is no room for any more. They haven’t put in 1/10 the effort I have into making friends but have so much more results.

You can’t blame me and say I’m a shy autist who never talks to anyone because that isn’t the case. I don’t even feel like I’m a super autistic guy sometimes but I just can’t make friends.

And it’s only natural to feel immense disdain from normies as a whole when not one of them reciprocates your efforts to befriend them.
 
Yeah all my peers hated me i was bullied badly by other guys i hate normies in general
 
You’re a liar if you say you’ve never fantasized about having some good friends too. You get sick of doing everything alone, especially activities that you’re meant to be doing with a friend.
Easier to mask the fact you don't want any male friends but everyone wants a good pal or two.
 
Easier to mask the fact you don't want any male friends but everyone wants a good pal or two.
True, I still feel way more need to have a gf than male friends, but that doesn’t mean having friends isn’t a huge aspect of life we are deprived of too
 
Yeah all my peers hated me i was bullied badly by other guys i hate normies in general
Same, I was always excluded no matter what I did to make friends or socialize. So fucking brutal and I’m sick of foids and normies telling us to PuT OuRselVeS oUt tHerE! It doesn’t work and most of us have tried this a lot already
 
Think about it. Sure, being deprived of love and sex from a woman is your primary suffering.

But there is more we are deprived of socially than just that. We are deprived of even having some decent male friends we can do fun activities with and just chill and hang out with.

You’re a liar if you say you’ve never fantasized about having some good friends too. You get sick of doing everything alone, especially activities that you’re meant to be doing with a friend.

I know we love to say women are to blame for everything, but normie men are also to blame for our suffering. I’ve put in a ridiculous amount of effort into making friends over the years. No jestermaxxing or other BS but I genuinely tried (and still try), to be very outgoing, make the first move in starting conversations, and carrying the conversations but it never amounts to anything.

Normies just always seem to have friends and there is no room for any more. They haven’t put in 1/10 the effort I have into making friends but have so much more results.

You can’t blame me and say I’m a shy autist who never talks to anyone because that isn’t the case. I don’t even feel like I’m a super autistic guy sometimes but I just can’t make friends.

And it’s only natural to feel immense disdain from normies as a whole when not one of them reciprocates your efforts to befriend them.
well yeah i hate male normoids more than femoids anyway
 
Same, I was always excluded no matter what I did to make friends or socialize. So fucking brutal and I’m sick of foids and normies telling us to PuT OuRselVeS oUt tHerE! It doesn’t work and most of us have tried this a lot already
Yep "Putting yourself out there" is a humiliation ritual as a Sub5 Autist
 
Yep "Putting yourself out there" is a humiliation ritual as a Sub5 Autist
I sometimes wish I never tried so hard in life as I got nothing to show for it except more mental scars
 
who the fuck wants male friends? I only want to spend time with a FEMALE
 
I had lots of friends in my teens but as an adult... people seem very distant so I guess it's led to me becoming distant too.

I tend to get on far better with people under 25 and even more so under 20.

On average anyway, but of course there are always at least some people from all age groups that I get on with.
 
Think about it. Sure, being deprived of love and sex from a woman is your primary suffering.

But there is more we are deprived of socially than just that. We are deprived of even having some decent male friends we can do fun activities with and just chill and hang out with.

You’re a liar if you say you’ve never fantasized about having some good friends too. You get sick of doing everything alone, especially activities that you’re meant to be doing with a friend.

I know we love to say women are to blame for everything, but normie men are also to blame for our suffering. I’ve put in a ridiculous amount of effort into making friends over the years. No jestermaxxing or other BS but I genuinely tried (and still try), to be very outgoing, make the first move in starting conversations, and carrying the conversations but it never amounts to anything.

Normies just always seem to have friends and there is no room for any more. They haven’t put in 1/10 the effort I have into making friends but have so much more results.

You can’t blame me and say I’m a shy autist who never talks to anyone because that isn’t the case. I don’t even feel like I’m a super autistic guy sometimes but I just can’t make friends.

And it’s only natural to feel immense disdain from normies as a whole when not one of them reciprocates your efforts to befriend them.

Normie friendships seem to have started in their school days. They remain until adulthood. And there's room for no more :)
 
I don't think it's all too bad. I'd rather be alone than spend time with a "friend" that I have barely anything in common with.
 
who the fuck wants male friends? I only want to spend time with a FEMALE
Almost everyone wants friends of the same gender they are too. Normies especially have massive friend groups and they couldn’t stand life without male friends even if they had a gf.

I want a gf way more than friends, but having friends is important too
 
Whenever I went out of my way to befriend other people I was usually given the cold shoulder despite my best attempts at being friendly.
 
I don't think it's all too bad. I'd rather be alone than spend time with a "friend" that I have barely anything in common with.
That’s the point though, normies can easily make friends they have a lot in common with very easily, and we can’t.

We should be able to make friends with other similar people to us. I mean look how many there are on this forum. There’s a few people from here that I could easily be friends with irl but they are all too far away.

Anyone who claims to not want friends is coping just like anyone who says they don’t want a gf is coping
 
Whenever I went out of my way to befriend other people I was usually given the cold shoulder despite my best attempts at being friendly.
Same, that’s why it’s so brutal
 
I had lots of friends in my teens but as an adult... people seem very distant so I guess it's led to me becoming distant too.

I tend to get on far better with people under 25 and even more so under 20.

On average anyway, but of course there are always at least some people from all age groups that I get on with.
Interesting. I had zero friends whatsoever as a young teen. If I do happen to get alone easier with someone it’s always people way older than me. Like I can talk to 40 year old people way easier than 20 year olds. And older people than that too
 
anyone who says they don’t want a gf is coping
I want love, not a girlfriend. Which aren't mutually exclusive but is extremely unlikely. No one will love me and all a hypothetical relationship would do to me is fuck me up and waste my time, money, and sanity since it'd be loveless retardation that would only last a few months at best.
 
Normie friendships seem to have started in their school days. They remain until adulthood. And there's room for no more :)
Exactly this, which is so brutal. They already made enough friends to be satisfactory back when it was easier.

I think you’re pretty fucked when you leave high school as a friendless KHHV and are doomed to never have a decent social life
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All my friends either left me or weren't real friends to begin with.
 
I want love, not a girlfriend. Which aren't mutually exclusive but is extremely unlikely. No one will love me and all a hypothetical relationship would do to me is fuck me up and waste my time, money, and sanity since it'd be loveless retardation that would only last a few months at best.
Bro we’re not talking about female friends here lol. I’d never want female friends as that would be pointless since men and women can’t be just friends.

I’m only talking about male friends for the sake of this thread, which if you find decent ones, has absolutely nothing to do with love or that shit. They’d just be someone you could have fun hanging out with, nothing deep.

And as for the girlfriend side of things, I have far more desire for the sexual side of things than the romantic side. I’ve got a massive sex drive and coom 2-4 times a day. And I have fucked up fetishes that take up much of my sexual thoughts. I need to fulfill these desires far more than the romantic side of things.

But still, I’d be coping if I said I don’t want some woman who is clingy to me and loves being around me, and just cuddles and that stuff
 
Bro we’re not talking about female friends here lol.
i'm not either, you just said about how anyone who doesn't want a gf is coping and i said i don't want one either
 
I gave up the chase. Choosing the wrong fren during this inflationary environment is risky. Continue to be a hermit for now.
 
i'm not either, you just said about how anyone who doesn't want a gf is coping and i said i don't want one either
So are you saying you don’t want a gf? Am I understanding that right?
 
So are you saying you don’t want a gf? Am I understanding that right?
 
Male friendship would be nice but I learned from a young age that it doesn't really exist. Certainly not like movies and such portray.

Even with Chad friend groups, once women get involved, they turn on each other. You can never really trust other men. At best, it's another guy to waste time with as long as you're both in similar situations.
 
I feel like I've only ever had one "real" friend my entire life and he's an annoying retard who would molest me if given the chance and I only tolerate him due to my own desperation for socialization and occasional gifts. everything else has just been people only tolerating me(and only temporarily) or feeling pity for me.
 
You’re a liar if you say you’ve never fantasized about having some good friends too. You get sick of doing everything alone, especially activities that you’re meant to be doing with a friend.
I used to be sad about that in high school, but not anymore. I am borderline antisocial and I hate everyone, I'm not really interested in making male friends unless they can introduce me to some single women. I don't have hobbies or activities that I want to do with other people, I've done everything alone all my life, I don't even know what I would do with friends.
 
Interesting. I had zero friends whatsoever as a young teen. If I do happen to get alone easier with someone it’s always people way older than me. Like I can talk to 40 year old people way easier than 20 year olds. And older people than that too

We're all wired differently I guess.

My understanding is that the brain is still developing until 25 which explains a lot of the wild behaviour teens engage in!

Then there's also wisdom and stuff which factors into it.
 
Having friends in real life is very important. They can also introduce you to women and jobs. It is clear that we are excluded for being ugly.
 
Think about it. Sure, being deprived of love and sex from a woman is your primary suffering.

But there is more we are deprived of socially than just that. We are deprived of even having some decent male friends we can do fun activities with and just chill and hang out with.

You’re a liar if you say you’ve never fantasized about having some good friends too. You get sick of doing everything alone, especially activities that you’re meant to be doing with a friend.

I know we love to say women are to blame for everything, but normie men are also to blame for our suffering. I’ve put in a ridiculous amount of effort into making friends over the years. No jestermaxxing or other BS but I genuinely tried (and still try), to be very outgoing, make the first move in starting conversations, and carrying the conversations but it never amounts to anything.

Normies just always seem to have friends and there is no room for any more. They haven’t put in 1/10 the effort I have into making friends but have so much more results.

You can’t blame me and say I’m a shy autist who never talks to anyone because that isn’t the case. I don’t even feel like I’m a super autistic guy sometimes but I just can’t make friends.

And it’s only natural to feel immense disdain from normies as a whole when not one of them reciprocates your efforts to befriend them.
I had a friend group in highschool but they started doing drugs and I sperged out and told them I wouldn't hang with them if they kept doing them so I got cut off lol. My parents told me I did the right thing lmao haven't had any friends since.
 
I'm actually much more upset at not having friends than I am at not having a woman at this point.

I just wish things could go back to how they were when I was a child, when I had friends and the days were full of joy
 
I'm actually much more upset at not having friends than I am at not having a woman at this point.
Really? That’s hard to believe tbh. So if I gave you a magic button to either get a good gf who won’t ever leave you or a friend group who won’t ever leave you, you’d pick the friends?
I just wish things could go back to how they were when I was a child, when I had friends and the days were full of joy
Same
 
I thought I made a male friend in high school when he invited me over to his house to help him with geometry. (I was the nerd in class good at math.) I thought we hit it off and had similar taste in music and he drove me back home in his truck and he bought me goyslop at McDonalds, but after that he never spoke to me again. Just ignored me when he passed me in the halls like I didn't exist.
 
I thought I made a male friend in high school when he invited me over to his house to help him with geometry. (I was the nerd in class good at math.) I thought we hit it off and had similar taste in music and he drove me back home in his truck and he bought me goyslop at McDonalds, but after that he never spoke to me again. Just ignored me when he passed me in the halls like I didn't exist.
Brutal shit man. Btw what kind of truck was it, I’m a car enthusiast
 
The time that I wanted a girlfriend the most badly was in 2017 when I was at my loneliest because of my lacking social life. Now that I am more socially content, I'm not looking for a girlfriend as badly. To many of you users who have no friends, if you really believe it's over, then I advise you just try to make friends. The desperation for a girlfriend arises from the clear deprivation of our need to socialize.
 
The time that I wanted a girlfriend the most badly was in 2017 when I was at my loneliest because of my lacking social life. Now that I am more socially content, I'm not looking for a girlfriend as badly. To many of you users who have no friends, if you really believe it's over, then I advise you just try to make friends. The desperation for a girlfriend arises from the clear deprivation of our need to socialize.
How did you make friends?
 
The time that I wanted a girlfriend the most badly was in 2017 when I was at my loneliest because of my lacking social life. Now that I am more socially content, I'm not looking for a girlfriend as badly. To many of you users who have no friends, if you really believe it's over, then I advise you just try to make friends. The desperation for a girlfriend arises from the clear deprivation of our need to socialize.
Being around just makes me feel lonelier than when I'm actually alone, I have nothing to talk about, don't want to hear about people with better and more interesting lives than me, don't give a shit whatever it is most people are into and I've been forced out of every group I tried being even mildly active in which further disincentives ever trying.
 
Think about it. Sure, being deprived of love and sex from a woman is your primary suffering.

If woman went without sex for the periods of time
men did

they would be losing their minds
it's easy to say, it's not a big deal to not have sex

when you have it alot


The human body, gets urges naturally
urges that cant really be put away
 
If woman went without sex for the periods of time
men did

they would be losing their minds
it's easy to say, it's not a big deal to not have sex

when you have it alot


The human body, gets urges naturally
urges that cant really be put away
Exactly, if women had our problems they would be doing insane shit and offing themselves like crazy
 
The time that I wanted a girlfriend the most badly was in 2017 when I was at my loneliest because of my lacking social life. Now that I am more socially content, I'm not looking for a girlfriend as badly. To many of you users who have no friends, if you really believe it's over, then I advise you just try to make friends. The desperation for a girlfriend arises from the clear deprivation of our need to socialize.
Truth, but sadly I can't even make friends. I've put such an insane amount of effort into trying to make friends over the years only for nothing to come of it that it was insanity to keep trying. I just gave up on a social life and try to cope with hobbies
 
How did you make friends?

I have no friends now. But I am socially satiated as I have enough social interactions. Since my mother died two years ago, it became my norm to just buy food outside every day since I don't cook. The little exchanges of words I get with food service workers when I buy food outside helps. My father also let his friend's family live with us so I get to talk to people at home now. I take part in these forums too, so that must help.

Being around just makes me feel lonelier than when I'm actually alone, I have nothing to talk about, don't want to hear about people with better and more interesting lives than me, don't give a shit whatever it is most people are into and I've been forced out of every group I tried being even mildly active in which further disincentives ever trying.

Maybe you just had bad friends. I used to hold onto these two lousy friends I had back then. When I finally cut off ties with them, I found I actually became much less lonely. We just have to find good-quality friends.
 
I have no friends now. But I am socially satiated as I have enough social interactions. Since my mother died two years ago, it became my norm to just buy food outside every day since I don't cook. The little exchanges of words I get with food service workers when I buy food outside helps. My father also let his friend's family live with us so I get to talk to people at home now. I take part in these forums too, so that must help.



Maybe you just had bad friends. I used to hold onto these two lousy friends I had back then. When I finally cut off ties with them, I found I actually became much less lonely. We just have to find good-quality friends.
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