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Theory It’s not just women that did us dirty in life. Most of us don’t have any friends either, so other men refusing to be friends with us is a factor too

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Think about it. Sure, being deprived of love and sex from a woman is your primary suffering.

But there is more we are deprived of socially than just that. We are deprived of even having some decent male friends we can do fun activities with and just chill and hang out with.

You’re a liar if you say you’ve never fantasized about having some good friends too. You get sick of doing everything alone, especially activities that you’re meant to be doing with a friend.

I know we love to say women are to blame for everything, but normie men are also to blame for our suffering. I’ve put in a ridiculous amount of effort into making friends over the years. No jestermaxxing or other BS but I genuinely tried (and still try), to be very outgoing, make the first move in starting conversations, and carrying the conversations but it never amounts to anything.

Normies just always seem to have friends and there is no room for any more. They haven’t put in 1/10 the effort I have into making friends but have so much more results.

You can’t blame me and say I’m a shy autist who never talks to anyone because that isn’t the case. I don’t even feel like I’m a super autistic guy sometimes but I just can’t make friends.

And it’s only natural to feel immense disdain from normies as a whole when not one of them reciprocates your efforts to befriend them.
 
Yeah all my peers hated me i was bullied badly by other guys i hate normies in general
 
You’re a liar if you say you’ve never fantasized about having some good friends too. You get sick of doing everything alone, especially activities that you’re meant to be doing with a friend.
Easier to mask the fact you don't want any male friends but everyone wants a good pal or two.
 
Easier to mask the fact you don't want any male friends but everyone wants a good pal or two.
True, I still feel way more need to have a gf than male friends, but that doesn’t mean having friends isn’t a huge aspect of life we are deprived of too
 
Yeah all my peers hated me i was bullied badly by other guys i hate normies in general
Same, I was always excluded no matter what I did to make friends or socialize. So fucking brutal and I’m sick of foids and normies telling us to PuT OuRselVeS oUt tHerE! It doesn’t work and most of us have tried this a lot already
 
Think about it. Sure, being deprived of love and sex from a woman is your primary suffering.

But there is more we are deprived of socially than just that. We are deprived of even having some decent male friends we can do fun activities with and just chill and hang out with.

You’re a liar if you say you’ve never fantasized about having some good friends too. You get sick of doing everything alone, especially activities that you’re meant to be doing with a friend.

I know we love to say women are to blame for everything, but normie men are also to blame for our suffering. I’ve put in a ridiculous amount of effort into making friends over the years. No jestermaxxing or other BS but I genuinely tried (and still try), to be very outgoing, make the first move in starting conversations, and carrying the conversations but it never amounts to anything.

Normies just always seem to have friends and there is no room for any more. They haven’t put in 1/10 the effort I have into making friends but have so much more results.

You can’t blame me and say I’m a shy autist who never talks to anyone because that isn’t the case. I don’t even feel like I’m a super autistic guy sometimes but I just can’t make friends.

And it’s only natural to feel immense disdain from normies as a whole when not one of them reciprocates your efforts to befriend them.
well yeah i hate male normoids more than femoids anyway
 
Same, I was always excluded no matter what I did to make friends or socialize. So fucking brutal and I’m sick of foids and normies telling us to PuT OuRselVeS oUt tHerE! It doesn’t work and most of us have tried this a lot already
Yep "Putting yourself out there" is a humiliation ritual as a Sub5 Autist
 
Yep "Putting yourself out there" is a humiliation ritual as a Sub5 Autist
I sometimes wish I never tried so hard in life as I got nothing to show for it except more mental scars
 
who the fuck wants male friends? I only want to spend time with a FEMALE
 
I had lots of friends in my teens but as an adult... people seem very distant so I guess it's led to me becoming distant too.

I tend to get on far better with people under 25 and even more so under 20.

On average anyway, but of course there are always at least some people from all age groups that I get on with.
 
Think about it. Sure, being deprived of love and sex from a woman is your primary suffering.

But there is more we are deprived of socially than just that. We are deprived of even having some decent male friends we can do fun activities with and just chill and hang out with.

You’re a liar if you say you’ve never fantasized about having some good friends too. You get sick of doing everything alone, especially activities that you’re meant to be doing with a friend.

I know we love to say women are to blame for everything, but normie men are also to blame for our suffering. I’ve put in a ridiculous amount of effort into making friends over the years. No jestermaxxing or other BS but I genuinely tried (and still try), to be very outgoing, make the first move in starting conversations, and carrying the conversations but it never amounts to anything.

Normies just always seem to have friends and there is no room for any more. They haven’t put in 1/10 the effort I have into making friends but have so much more results.

You can’t blame me and say I’m a shy autist who never talks to anyone because that isn’t the case. I don’t even feel like I’m a super autistic guy sometimes but I just can’t make friends.

And it’s only natural to feel immense disdain from normies as a whole when not one of them reciprocates your efforts to befriend them.

Normie friendships seem to have started in their school days. They remain until adulthood. And there's room for no more :)
 
I don't think it's all too bad. I'd rather be alone than spend time with a "friend" that I have barely anything in common with.
 
who the fuck wants male friends? I only want to spend time with a FEMALE
Almost everyone wants friends of the same gender they are too. Normies especially have massive friend groups and they couldn’t stand life without male friends even if they had a gf.

I want a gf way more than friends, but having friends is important too
 
Whenever I went out of my way to befriend other people I was usually given the cold shoulder despite my best attempts at being friendly.
 
I don't think it's all too bad. I'd rather be alone than spend time with a "friend" that I have barely anything in common with.
That’s the point though, normies can easily make friends they have a lot in common with very easily, and we can’t.

We should be able to make friends with other similar people to us. I mean look how many there are on this forum. There’s a few people from here that I could easily be friends with irl but they are all too far away.

Anyone who claims to not want friends is coping just like anyone who says they don’t want a gf is coping
 
Whenever I went out of my way to befriend other people I was usually given the cold shoulder despite my best attempts at being friendly.
Same, that’s why it’s so brutal
 
I had lots of friends in my teens but as an adult... people seem very distant so I guess it's led to me becoming distant too.

I tend to get on far better with people under 25 and even more so under 20.

On average anyway, but of course there are always at least some people from all age groups that I get on with.
Interesting. I had zero friends whatsoever as a young teen. If I do happen to get alone easier with someone it’s always people way older than me. Like I can talk to 40 year old people way easier than 20 year olds. And older people than that too
 
anyone who says they don’t want a gf is coping
I want love, not a girlfriend. Which aren't mutually exclusive but is extremely unlikely. No one will love me and all a hypothetical relationship would do to me is fuck me up and waste my time, money, and sanity since it'd be loveless retardation that would only last a few months at best.
 
Normie friendships seem to have started in their school days. They remain until adulthood. And there's room for no more :)
Exactly this, which is so brutal. They already made enough friends to be satisfactory back when it was easier.

I think you’re pretty fucked when you leave high school as a friendless KHHV and are doomed to never have a decent social life
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All my friends either left me or weren't real friends to begin with.
 
I want love, not a girlfriend. Which aren't mutually exclusive but is extremely unlikely. No one will love me and all a hypothetical relationship would do to me is fuck me up and waste my time, money, and sanity since it'd be loveless retardation that would only last a few months at best.
Bro we’re not talking about female friends here lol. I’d never want female friends as that would be pointless since men and women can’t be just friends.

I’m only talking about male friends for the sake of this thread, which if you find decent ones, has absolutely nothing to do with love or that shit. They’d just be someone you could have fun hanging out with, nothing deep.

And as for the girlfriend side of things, I have far more desire for the sexual side of things than the romantic side. I’ve got a massive sex drive and coom 2-4 times a day. And I have fucked up fetishes that take up much of my sexual thoughts. I need to fulfill these desires far more than the romantic side of things.

But still, I’d be coping if I said I don’t want some woman who is clingy to me and loves being around me, and just cuddles and that stuff
 
Bro we’re not talking about female friends here lol.
i'm not either, you just said about how anyone who doesn't want a gf is coping and i said i don't want one either
 
I gave up the chase. Choosing the wrong fren during this inflationary environment is risky. Continue to be a hermit for now.
 
i'm not either, you just said about how anyone who doesn't want a gf is coping and i said i don't want one either
So are you saying you don’t want a gf? Am I understanding that right?
 
So are you saying you don’t want a gf? Am I understanding that right?
 
Male friendship would be nice but I learned from a young age that it doesn't really exist. Certainly not like movies and such portray.

Even with Chad friend groups, once women get involved, they turn on each other. You can never really trust other men. At best, it's another guy to waste time with as long as you're both in similar situations.
 
I feel like I've only ever had one "real" friend my entire life and he's an annoying retard who would molest me if given the chance and I only tolerate him due to my own desperation for socialization and occasional gifts. everything else has just been people only tolerating me(and only temporarily) or feeling pity for me.
 
You’re a liar if you say you’ve never fantasized about having some good friends too. You get sick of doing everything alone, especially activities that you’re meant to be doing with a friend.
I used to be sad about that in high school, but not anymore. I am borderline antisocial and I hate everyone, I'm not really interested in making male friends unless they can introduce me to some single women. I don't have hobbies or activities that I want to do with other people, I've done everything alone all my life, I don't even know what I would do with friends.
 
Interesting. I had zero friends whatsoever as a young teen. If I do happen to get alone easier with someone it’s always people way older than me. Like I can talk to 40 year old people way easier than 20 year olds. And older people than that too

We're all wired differently I guess.

My understanding is that the brain is still developing until 25 which explains a lot of the wild behaviour teens engage in!

Then there's also wisdom and stuff which factors into it.
 

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