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It's insane how I can't even get ONE girlfriend

FACEandLMS

FACEandLMS

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Like not one girl on this earth likes me. I'm not asking for a groupie fanbase, just one 3/10+ girl.

With women who feel like they are ugly, there will always be some subset of guys who want them, either out of whiteknighting, "fetishistic" attraction, Juggernaut theory*, our gynocentric nature or desperation. E.g. a woman with autism will find guys willing to date her due to juggernaut theory:

"This woman has autism, which means not many men will want to date her, so she will be less likely to reject me".

The trouble is, a lot of other guys think the same thing which in turn makes the autistic woman as hard to get as any other, almost. Any flaw a woman has just makes her dating power stronger (Juggernaut theory, discussed on puahate back in the day. That site was nuclearpilled for its time).

On the other hand, any flaw a man has MAKES HIM MORE UNDATEABLE.

Because women are hiveminded (they all have iPhones over Android phones, all love shopping, etc) and all want Chad, there are few to none that like anything different. Men are attracted to lots of different types of women, women are mostly attracted to the same type of goodlooking, high-status Chad.

So this means getting ONE girl to think different and be attracted to me is a big ask.

/rambling
/waffling
 
juggernaut theory=?
 
I think the idea is that either multiple girls like you or no girl does. You can't only have one femoid attracted to you. Women share preferences so it should be more than one.
 
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Very relatable.
 
Not judging you and trying to discredit your inceldom but please tell me how dating that girl when you were younger felt like, how you met her, asked her out etc
 
CompleteFailure said:
Not judging you and trying to discredit your inceldom but please tell me how dating that girl when you were younger felt like, how you met her, asked her out etc
 
CompleteFailure said:
Not judging you and trying to discredit your inceldom but please tell me how dating that girl when you were younger felt like, how you met her, asked her out etc

All of my success with women (which was by doing 100s of approaches. Literally. And "success" is a relative term) came when I was younger, before Tinder and smartphones.
 
You just need to be kunfident bro.
 
Richard spencer said:
You just need to be kunfident bro.

Do I look confident now? I just took a shower?

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Framecel222 said:
dhMeAzK.gif


Very relatable.

dude, u will regret sitting here when u hit 24, get a fucking life, most of people would kill to be 19 again


FACEandLMS said:
All of my success with women (which was by doing 100s of approaches. Literally. And "success" is a relative term) came when I was younger, before Tinder and smartphones.

so u actually slayed before?
 
dr-problematic said:
dude, u will regret sitting here when u hit 24, get a fucking life, most of people would kill to be 19 again



so u actually slayed before?



Yes but I'm also 10 years older than everyone, approached 100s of girls, went to clubs sometimes twice a week, did sarging as a PUAfool, I have friends and a social circle, am somewhat normie-brained,  don't get anxiety from approaching women, have an interesting personality, decent "game" (game is mostly bluepill but there are guys on this forum who would fuck up with girls even if the girls liked their looks), etc.

I'm basically a chadlite without the most important part: THE FACE. Most guys here need to take a benzo or xanax in order to reduce the anxiety of asking for more ketchup at mcDonalds.
 
FACEandLMS said:
Yes but I'm also 10 years older than everyone, approached 100s of girls, went to clubs sometimes twice a week, did sarging as a PUAfool, I have friends and a social circle, am somewhat normie-brained,  don't get anxiety from approaching women, have an interesting personality, decent "game" (game is mostly bluepill but there are guys on this forum who would fuck up with girls even if the girls liked their looks), etc.

I'm basically a chadlite without the most important part: THE FACE. Most guys here need to take a benzo or xanax in order to reduce the anxiety of asking for more ketchup at mcDonalds.


lol @ flaming me for getting 2 dates dude, have some decency.

so u arent even virgin, and nah we are 3 years apart, thats nothing if we both are in our 20s.

shit this forum is more fake than Nicki Minaj ass.
 
I thought you had a girlfriend, years ago?
 
NekoStance said:
I thought you had a girlfriend, years ago?
lol and he flamed others for getting dates, not even sex but dates, how fucking pathetic people here are.

morons pretend to be incels left and right and then turns out they had girlfriends and fucked chicks daily.

fucking unreal, i think these guys deserve to be banned, its a fucking disgrace, like seombody spit in ur face.
 
dr-problematic said:
lol and he flamed others for getting dates, not even sex but dates, how fucking pathetic people here are.

morons pretend to be incels left and right and then turns out they had girlfriends and fucked chicks daily.

fucking unreal, i think these guys deserve to be banned, its a fucking disgrace, like seombody spit in ur face.

How many single mums did you approach before Tinder was invented? You are comparing apples and oranges. I've approached way more women than you and am uglier than you. If anything, I prove how spoilt most 22 yos on this forum are. I've done 100s of approaches. I also am attracted to chubby women.

BTW I get 0 Tinder messages.
 
dr-problematic said:
lol @ flaming me for getting 2 dates dude, have some decency.

so u arent even virgin, and nah we are 3 years apart, thats nothing if we both are in our 20s.

shit this forum is more fake than Nicki Minaj ass.

Your both fakecels in my eyes, This is why i only listen to Truecels.
 
NekoStance said:
I thought you had a girlfriend, years ago?

He had a 4/10 girlfriend around what age he was at the time. 

He is fairly unattractive, about a 3/10, so "luck theory" or "just be first theory" was at play. It was probably a lot easier before the explosion of social media and feminism.
 
What is your rating number? Also it's ridiculous how difficult it is to score a 3.
 
FACEandLMS said:
How many single mums did you approach before Tinder was invented? You are comparing apples and oranges. I've approached way more women than you and am uglier than you. If anything, I prove how spoilt most 22 yos on this forum are. I've done 100s of approaches. I also am attracted to chubby women.

BTW I get 0 Tinder messages.

its rage enducing and ridiculous to see you create such bullshit threads. you literally wont ever relate to virgins in their late 20s, you dont know how it feels to be attraction and sex deprived. you fucked and had girlfriends, you have friends, you are a norman, there's nothing left to discuss here, you arent relevant to this forum.


Virginp0wers said:
Your both fakecels in my eyes, This is why i only listen to Truecels.

im the only truecel here along side with @existentialhack. cuz even rio huzaki had girlfriend before. 

sucks ass to realize u r bottom genetics of bottom genetics pool.
 
dr-problematic said:
its rage enducing and ridiculous to see you create such bullshit threads. you literally wont ever relate to virgins in their late 20s, you dont know how it feels to be attraction and sex deprived. you fucked and had girlfriends, you have friends, you are a norman, there's nothing left to discuss here, you arent relevant to this forum.



im the only truecel here along side with @existentialhack. cuz even rio huzaki had girlfriend before. 

sucks ass to realize u r bottom genetics of bottom genetics pool.



Why do people keep saying I had girlfriends?
 
dr-problematic said:
its rage enducing and ridiculous to see you create such bullshit threads. you literally wont ever relate to virgins in their late 20s, you dont know how it feels to be attraction and sex deprived. you fucked and had girlfriends, you have friends, you are a norman, there's nothing left to discuss here, you arent relevant to this forum.



im the only truecel here along side with @existentialhack. cuz even rio huzaki had girlfriend before. 

sucks ass to realize u r bottom genetics of bottom genetics pool.



LOL @ you calling yourself an Truecel when youve been on 2 dates and you tell other incels to get a life. Truecels have never even touched a girl let alone been on a date with one. Your not a truecel.
 
Sub8Hate said:
What is your rating number? Also it's ridiculous how difficult it is to score a 3.

Google "lookism Invisible," it's the first result on google images.
 
Virginp0wers said:
LOL @ you calling yourself an Truecel when youve been on 2 dates and you tell other incels to get a life. Truecels have never even touched a girl let alone been on a date with one. Your not a truecel.

i havent touched them, i just been on dates with them, and was rejected hard.
 
dr-problematic said:
i havent touched them, i just been on dates with them, and was rejected hard.

Rejected so hard they decided to go on a second date  :heh: The reason you didn't get a third date or get laid is because YOU DIDN'T TOUCH THEM. How hard is it to understand? Girls are not going to go on a billion dates with a guy if he doesn't escalate at all, they have better things to do an other options. If they go on a second date with you, they 100% would get physical with you (at least a kiss). You fucked up and now you're trying to pretend you're as worse off as a truecels on here.You're 100% a volcel.

I am not trying to be mean to you or attack you. Being volcel is MUCH MUCH BETTER than being truecel. It's not a fucking competition about who is the most subhuman and who can't get laid, go outside and get laid already. Truecels on here would GIVE ANYTHING to be a volcel, trust me.
 
CopingGymcel said:
Rejected so hard they decided to go on a second date  :heh: The reason you didn't get a third date or get laid is because YOU DIDN'T TOUCH THEM. How hard is it to understand? Girls are not going to go on a billion dates with a guy if he doesn't escalate at all, they have better things to do an other options. If they go on a second date with you, they 100% would get physical with you (at least a kiss). You fucked up and now you're trying to pretend you're as worse off as a truecels on here.You're 100% a volcel.

I am not trying to be mean to you or attack you. Being volcel is MUCH MUCH BETTER than being truecel. It's not a fucking competition about who is the most subhuman and who can't get laid, go outside and get laid already. Truecels on here would GIVE ANYTHING to be a volcel, trust me.

its not only about my face aesthetics man, thats the thing, i am the most genetically cursed here, i have too many underlying genetical health ilnesses that result in social death sentence.
 
dr-problematic said:
its not only about my face aesthetics man, thats the thing, i am the most genetically cursed here, i have too many underlying genetical health ilnesses that result in social death sentence.

You went on a second girl, i.e girls find you attractive. You may not be the most attractive guy out there, but you're obviously good looking enough for some women. Escalate next time and then keep whining and calling yourself truecel if they keep rejecting your advances, until then you're just speculating. You have no idea if they rejected you if you never gave them the option. Not going on a third date is not being rejected, trying to kiss a girl and her turning away or her saying no to a first date, that's rejection.
 
Seriously thoo woo diss?!?!?!?!?!

https://www.google.nl/search?q=lookism+invisible&client=ms-android-samsung&source=android-browser&dcr=0&prmd=ivn&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwi3zJjxrIzYAhWCDuwKHaXiB4YQ_AUICSgB&biw=412&bih=718&dpr=2.63#imgrc=vnqZ_lpvtbXJXM:
 
dr-problematic said:
dude, u will regret sitting here when u hit 24, get a fucking life, most of people would kill to be 19 again

Lol I can't get a life though.
 
In a sexually free society, it's the norm for men in the lower 30% of attractiveness to be incel.
 
CopingGymcel said:
NekoStance said:
I thought you had a girlfriend, years ago?
He had a 4/10 girlfriend around what age he was at the time.
He is fairly unattractive, about a 3/10, so "luck theory" or "just be first theory" was at play. It was probably a lot easier before the explosion of social media and feminism.
Why does he always complain about having a long midface when he doesn’t? If he saw my midface he’d thank god day and night that he doesn’t have the same midface as mine. The only thing that really makes him look “goofy” is his close set eyes, long philtrum and bone structure. He’s a 4/10, not 3/10. He can just move out to the US and start a porn career since he’s black and probably has a big dick.
 
There is a huge difference between never having a girlfriend and having "only" one girlfriend so far. It's much bigger than the difference between having one girlfriend or having five girlfriends.
Because if you had one, it establishes that you have at least the bare minimum of what it takes for a woman to find you attractive. If you never had a gf, you don't know that.
If one girl liked you, chances are an another one will. And the longer you go without a girl, the greater the chance that no girl ever will like you.
 
Just lol at even trying. Chasing after cunts in this day and age is a waste of time unless you actually have them looking after you every time you leave your house.
 
CopingGymcel said:
You went on a second girl, i.e girls find you attractive. You may not be the most attractive guy out there, but you're obviously good looking enough for some women. Escalate next time and then keep whining and calling yourself truecel if they keep rejecting your advances, until then you're just speculating. You have no idea if they rejected you if you never gave them the option. Not going on a third date is not being rejected, trying to kiss a girl and her turning away or her saying no to a first date, that's rejection.

WHAT THE FUCK!? IS THERE ANYONE ON THIS WEBSITE WHOS ACTUALLY A TRUECEL BESIDES ME!? GODDAMN! NO KISS, NO SEX, NO SECOND DATES, NO GIRLFRIEND, NO INTIMATE TOUCHING, ETC. ETC.
 
FACEandLMS said:
Yes but I'm also 10 years older than everyone, approached 100s of girls, went to clubs sometimes twice a week, did sarging as a PUAfool, I have friends and a social circle, am somewhat normie-brained,  don't get anxiety from approaching women, have an interesting personality, decent "game" (game is mostly bluepill but there are guys on this forum who would fuck up with girls even if the girls liked their looks), etc.

I'm basically a chadlite without the most important part: THE FACE. Most guys here need to take a benzo or xanax in order to reduce the anxiety of asking for more ketchup at mcDonalds.



you don't meet girls through social circle ? all the guys that get 0 tinder matches but yet have a social circle seem to be able to get something.  

0 tinder matches and 0 social circle = suicide
 
FACEandLMS said:
Like not one girl on this earth likes me. I'm not asking for a groupie fanbase, just one 3/10+ girl.

With women who feel like they are ugly, there will always be some subset of guys who want them, either out of whiteknighting, "fetishistic" attraction, Juggernaut theory*, our gynocentric nature or desperation. E.g. a woman with autism will find guys willing to date her due to juggernaut theory:

"This woman has autism, which means not many men will want to date her, so she will be less likely to reject me".

The trouble is, a lot of other guys think the same thing which in turn makes the autistic woman as hard to get as any other, almost. Any flaw a woman has just makes her dating power stronger (Juggernaut theory, discussed on puahate back in the day. That site was nuclearpilled for its time).

On the other hand, any flaw a man has MAKES HIM MORE UNDATEABLE.

Because women are hiveminded (they all have iPhones over Android phones, all love shopping, etc) and all want Chad, there are few to none that like anything different. Men are attracted to lots of different types of women, women are mostly attracted to the same type of goodlooking, high-status Chad.

So this means getting ONE girl to think different and be attracted to me is a big ask.

/rambling
/waffling

You're black, right? Have you tried Tinder in Africa? Seriously. I tried it there and got some matches, probably half are scams but as a wealthier Western black guy you are higher status there.

Personally I am kind of over simping after women though.
 
Just SMH at all the incels trying to deny that other incels are suffering simply because they aren't "as incel" as them. "You're KV, you'll never know the pain of a KHHV like me!" Newsflash, they were KHHV before they were KV. Newsflash, suffering is subjective, they suffer just as much as you do, subjectively. This just in, the Emotional Pain Olympics called and they said that they don't exist. Read it here! Trying to push the opinion that anyone who hasn't gone through the exact same struggles as you can't suffer, feel worthless and alone, be deprived and desperate for human affection and attention... all of that is a pathetic cope and frankly makes you an asshole. Don't assume that your pain is by definition greater than anyone else's. You think that when someone like @FACEandLMS had a relationship and it inevitably broke up, that they thought to themselves, "Well, at least I got some validation at some point, I still feel good!" NO. Rejection from a relationship probably hurts even more than one from a disinterested Stacie. Getting dumped is like a girl trying you on like a shoe, and deciding, "Nah, I don't like this. Bye!" and moving on to the next Chad. Sure, a "truecel" KHHV was never picked up from the rack in the first place, but getting picked up and then tossed out all the same is probably just as terrible.

Try to have some empathy for your fellowcels. Your elitist rhetoric is exactly what Chad, Stacie, and Normans do to you. Why would you do it to a fellow incel from the other direction? Think hard.
 
blickpall said:
Just SMH at all the incels trying to deny that other incels are suffering simply because they aren't "as incel" as them. "You're KV, you'll never know the pain of a KHHV like me!" Newsflash, they were KHHV before they were KV. Newsflash, suffering is subjective, they suffer just as much as you do, subjectively. This just in, the Emotional Pain Olympics called and they said that they don't exist. Read it here! Trying to push the opinion that anyone who hasn't gone through the exact same struggles as you can't suffer, feel worthless and alone, be deprived and desperate for human affection and attention... all of that is a pathetic cope and frankly makes you an asshole. Don't assume that your pain is by definition greater than anyone else's. You think that when someone like @FACEandLMS had a relationship and it inevitably broke up, that they thought to themselves, "Well, at least I got some validation at some point, I still feel good!" NO. Rejection from a relationship probably hurts even more than one from a disinterested Stacie. Getting dumped is like a girl trying you on like a shoe, and deciding, "Nah, I don't like this. Bye!" and moving on to the next Chad. Sure, a "truecel" KHHV was never picked up from the rack in the first place, but getting picked up and then tossed out all the same is probably just as terrible.

Try to have some empathy for your fellowcels. Your elitist rhetoric is exactly what Chad, Stacie, and Normans do to you. Why would you do it to a fellow incel from the other direction? Think hard.

Thanks, brah. People here are so autistic that they see things in such binary form. No one has stopped to think: What could have been wrong with FACEandLMS' girlfriend? Was she a single mum? An amputee? A transgender? Nope. One of those is correct BTW. And of course, a 19 yo 6/10 KV who has never spoken to a woman is not more "incel" than a 2/10 30 yo guy who has approached around 300 women IRL and the odd one said yes in some form or another.

I wonder if anyone else has gotten on a plane to meet a girl. I know you travelled far to meet that New York Latina ho. I'm starting to think you may be a guy I can relate to on here. I wonder how many others here have gone to crazy lengths to try and get a gf. Most guys here are like: "No girls have approached me thus I'm incel".


BlackPillDealer said:
You're black, right? Have you tried Tinder in Africa? Seriously. I tried it there and got some matches, probably half are scams but as a wealthier Western black guy you are higher status there.

Personally I am kind of over simping after women though.

I've approached black girls locally and get nowhere. I could give it a shot but I don't see it making much difference. I'm dubious of getting scammed too.
 
FACEandLMS said:
All of my success with women (which was by doing 100s of approaches. Literally. And "success" is a relative term) came when I was younger, before Tinder and smartphones.

So dudes on the fence between normie and incel get bumped down to incel, because women's phones provide virtual access to Chad and infinite streams of dopamine via social media.
 
vargstrike said:
FACEandLMS said:
All of my success with women (which was by doing 100s of approaches. Literally. And "success" is a relative term) came when I was younger, before Tinder and smartphones.
So dudes on the fence between normie and incel get bumped down to incel, because women's phones provide virtual access to Chad and infinite streams of dopamine via social media.

One day I might share my story.
 
FACEandLMS said:
I wonder if anyone else has gotten on a plane to meet a girl. I know you travelled far to meet that New York Latina ho. I'm starting to think you may be a guy I can relate to on here. I wonder how many others here have gone to crazy lengths to try and get a gf. Most guys here are like: "No girls have approached me thus I'm incel".

That wasn't even the most I've gone through, not by a long shot. I used to have a fire that burned inside of me and pushed me to great lengths. As I said in that thread, I fully expected people to call me a fakecel just because I got to hang out with Stacie and Stacielites throughout my life and go on "dates," as if that does ANYTHING to relieve the lack of validation that you experience when you realize you've been an orbiter all along. The worst part is that I'm sure that I put in hundreds of hours of effort more than the same people that would have come out and slammed me for the pitiable amount of "success" I had, fighting against my increasingly high inhib, pushing past all of the previous failures... No two incels will have the same pain, the same story, the same struggle, so to demean others based on label is fucking bullshit and I will fight against it whenever it is unjustified. So yea, I'm on your side on this one unless something drastic comes up to change that. People need to stop being so fucking closed-minded.

PS: I do hope you share your story. Like I said in the thread that you referred to, I think that if every one of us poured all the pain out into a post, we would come to respect and understand each other far more and begin the process of uniting fully, despite the potential differences in "level" of inceldom.
 
FACEandLMS said:
I've approached black girls locally and get nowhere. I could give it a shot but I don't see it making much difference. I'm dubious of getting scammed too.

Western black women are mostly hoodrats though. They expect black men to be thugs who DGAF, so unless you are a tattooed low inhibition drug dealer rapper dude they won't be interested. In Africa it's a bit of a mix I think, some of them are hardcore Christians.
 

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