It's impossible to not be miserable

[deleted fren]

I've been miserable since I was a child. I've never really been that happy. Primarily, because I've been bullied and targeted since I was younger. It used to be me for my voice, but as I grew older the focus started to shift towards my looks. I understood that I was ugly. Even when I was a young teenager I understood that a woman would never want me sexually. No matter how much I've tried to cope I've never been able to be happy. Now that I'll have to get a job next year or (college. I'll do online if I have to)
I'm only going to become more miserable. It's impossible not to be miserable when you're treated so negatively. When you have to see more attractive men with girls. I just feel anger and sadness.

 

[deleted fren]

This idea that you can control your happiness is ridiculous. Your happiness is subconscious. As is your depression. Your brain is reacting to how you're treated.

 

[AdolfRizzler]

in my case it s impossible to not to be miserable, that s why many men that are in cases like mine gave up

 

[deleted fren]

in my case it s impossible to not to be miserable, that s why many men that are in cases like mine gave up

I wonder if a study was conducted on ugly and short men, how high the suicide rates would be.

 

[Leon98]

I’ve also been miserable my entire life.

 

[Cuckoja]

My main source of misery was always bad/abusive life at home. Second reason, never being able to form any friendship and always felling less than others. These things never went away.

 

[deleted fren]

I’ve also been miserable my entire life.

Yep.

My main source of misery was always bad/abusive life at home. Second reason, never being able to form any friendship and always felling less than others. These things never went away.

Exactly. Being socially isolated and despised will make you hate life. It's not rocket science.

 

[AdolfRizzler]

I wonder if a study was conducted on ugly and short men, how high the suicide rates would be.

there was some studies on short men (i think it was based only on height, not looks), and short men were comitted suicide two times higher than tall men
We found a twofold higher risk of suicide in short men than tall men. The associations do not appear to be attrib- utable to socioeconomic confounding or prenatal influ- ences on growth

https://psychiatryonline.org/doi/pdf/10.1176/appi.ajp.162.7.1373

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/comments/11ljvol/oc_small_men_are_at_greater_risk_of_suicide_even/


now look at this first comment on reddit which proves the blackpill!

,,Yep. My dad said that once he realized he wasn’t going to grow past 5’ 7’’ and that he had begun balding at 17, he wanted to die. He didn’t attempt suicide but he passively let life pass him by, never making any plans long term until he met my mom. Then he had a family to take care of but he’s said that insecurity never left"

not only ur gonna commit suicide because everyone around u treats u bad, but also ur most likely to be a virgin incel for ur entire life and if u don t have a gf or ur alone ur once again more likely to commit suicide

 

[MiSKiRaT]

I don't have any happy memories at all

 

[Caichan]

i try to avoid misery with distractions but it all comes crashing down on nights, particularly sunday nights

 

[deleted fren]

there was some studies on short men (i think it was based only on height, not looks), and short men were comitted suicide two times higher than tall men
We found a twofold higher risk of suicide in short men than tall men. The associations do not appear to be attrib- utable to socioeconomic confounding or prenatal influ- ences on growth

https://psychiatryonline.org/doi/pdf/10.1176/appi.ajp.162.7.1373

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/comments/11ljvol/oc_small_men_are_at_greater_risk_of_suicide_even/


now look at this first comment on reddit which proves the blackpill!

Yep. My dad said that once he realized he wasn’t going to grow past 5’ 7’’ and that he had begun balding at 17, he wanted to die. He didn’t attempt suicide but he passively let life pass him by, never making any plans long term until he met my mom. Then he had a family to take care of but he’s said that insecurity never left.

not only ur gonna commit suicide because everyone around u treats u bad, but also ur most likely to be a virgin incel for ur entire life and if u don t have a gf or ur alone ur once again more likely to commit suicide

Absolutely brutal.

 

[deleted fren]

i try to avoid misery with distractions but it all comes crashing down on nights, particularly sunday nights

It's hard not to think about everything you've been through and everything you've seen.

I don't have any happy memories at all

Same.

 

[AdolfRizzler]

I don't have any happy memories at all

same

 

[Poopless One]

 

[Clockwork]

Once I started to notice my unhappiness and couldn't stop thinking about it, I haven't been the same ever since. When I talked to normie acquaintances and asked them what to do, they told me that they don't really think about happiness or unhappiness and just live their lives. I realized there and then that NPC behavior doesn't work anymore once you notice how miserable you are.

 

[Runt171]

,,Yep. My dad said that once he realized he wasn’t going to grow past 5’ 7’’ and that he had begun balding at 17, he wanted to die. He didn’t attempt suicide but he passively let life pass him by, never making any plans long term until he met my mom. Then he had a family to take care of but he’s said that insecurity never left"

What a great guy to either pass that on to you or risk passing that onto

Im sure you love him very much

just realised that wasnt even about you but whatever

 

[Super Nigger Boy]

Never go to college it's death sentence for us inkwells

 

[deleted fren]

Once I started to notice my unhappiness and couldn't stop thinking about it, I haven't been the same ever since. When I talked to normie acquaintances and asked them what to do, they told me that they don't really think about happiness or unhappiness and just live their lives. I realized there and then that NPC behavior doesn't work anymore once you notice how miserable you are.

Never go to college it's death sentence for us inkwells

Humiliation ritual.

 

[St.Greypiller]

I've been miserable since I was a child. I've never really been that happy. Primarily, because I've been bullied and targeted since I was younger. It used to be me for my voice, but as I grew older the focus started to shift towards my looks. I understood that I was ugly. Even when I was a young teenager I understood that a woman would never want me sexually. No matter how much I've tried to cope I've never been able to be happy. Now that I'll have to get a job next year or (college. I'll do online if I have to)
I'm only going to become more miserable. It's impossible not to be miserable when you're treated so negatively. When you have to see more attractive men with girls. I just feel anger and sadness.

The rope is the only escape the cope is temporary

 

[deleted fren]

The rope is the only escape the cope is temporary

True.

 

[Grodd]

I forget what being happy feels like

 

[Real3li]

I genuinely always feel inferior to others because of how much my parents compare me
I always feel like I lack something
I'll never be good enough
I'll never be able to catch a break and be happy for a second there is always something to make me miserable and ruin my day

 

[lugubriouseanastar]

there is always something to make me miserable and ruin my day

 

[sub5ricemale]

The only thing that makes me happy is my copes, which include .is.

I don't really feel happy doing anything else.

I don't want to IMPROOOVE

 

[iblamemyself_0]

i relate to every word you uttered man, been miserable my whole life, treated like shit, even when i significantly ascended, the emptiness within my soul never got filled, this is my first year in college and trust me it gets worse from here, i have no dreams, no ambitions and no incentives to keep going whatsoever, im sick of this loneliness, im sick of my life and my own fucking reflection, it was never over thus it never even began

 

[Dead End]

I genuinely always feel inferior to others because of how much my parents compare me
I always feel like I lack something
I'll never be good enough
I'll never be able to catch a break and be happy for a second there is always something to make me miserable and ruin my day

Yeah, I always feel inferior as well, exactly the same as you described (though my parents don't compare me too frequently anymore).

More importantly, I just don't feel happy at all, and I can't even envision an environment in which I would feel genuinely happy. Even if I was some chad sexhaver with a loving family and high-end job, I'd probably still feel miserable. Life just feels empty and I always feel so drained for no reason.

 

[deleted fren]

I forget what being happy feels like

Same

I genuinely always feel inferior to others because of how much my parents compare me
I always feel like I lack something
I'll never be good enough
I'll never be able to catch a break and be happy for a second there is always something to make me miserable and ruin my day

i relate to every word you uttered man, been miserable my whole life, treated like shit, even when i significantly ascended, the emptiness within my soul never got filled, this is my first year in college and trust me it gets worse from here, i have no dreams, no ambitions and no incentives to keep going whatsoever, im sick of this loneliness, im sick of my life and my own fucking reflection, it was never over thus it never even began

 

[sub5ricemale]

Yeah, I always feel inferior as well, exactly the same as you described (though my parents don't compare me too frequently anymore).

More importantly, I just don't feel happy at all, and I can't even envision an environment in which I would feel genuinely happy. Even if I was some chad sexhaver with a loving family and high-end job, I'd probably still feel miserable. Life just feels empty and I always feel so drained for no reason.

Even if I had a stacy GF, i'd still feel empty. I'm working for soyciety and have a foid who doesn't even love me

 

[Ambatukam Alone]

This idea that you can control your happiness is ridiculous. Your happiness is subconscious. As is your depression. Your brain is reacting to how you're treated.

Let's say you could control your attention to a high degree, wouldn't that make you able to focus less on the bad stuff, thereby making the experience less horrible?

 

[Shay]

As a kid I was bullied stressed and lonely like now, even more chronically targeted but I could say I was happy, happy enough to say life was minimally worth at least. Might sound stupid but best moments were playing nostalgic videogames in summer and playing with toys with epic storylines . Right now it's perpetual misery until I find more time and lift off stress to play with toys like once and manchildmaxx