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SuicideFuel It's hard to cope

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I feel like I'm constantly reminded every now and then, and I can't ignore it. I feel my only two options are probably to rope or just accept it, but doing either is more difficult than continuing in the hopes of finding someone.

It's similar to walking down a path when someone kicks you to your knees from behind. You continue walking, but they keep doing it, making it harder and more painful each time until eventually they break it and you have no way to keep going.


Until you die, it's a never-ending cycle of coping, falling, and then falling again. The more you cope, the further you fall. I'm curious how you oldcels manage to cope after all these years, because eventually it will hit you like a truck and leave you lying even more broken than before.

I guess I need to find an actual good cope or find someway to actually do something instead of LDARing, sooner or later it's not gonna be possible to.
 
Ryover
 
I feel the same way. At my age all of the classic copes have worn themselves out. I can’t even enjoy alcohol any more. Feels like the only thing I can turn to at this point is hard drugs like pain killers or heroin.
 
You are 19 right? Do you think you are forever doomed, like you are ugly or short etc.?

It is brutal indeed. One day you have to work and can't ldar unless you geet neetbux.
I will have to work inevitably. I am preparing myself for that.

Being an adult seems rough but I guess there is no other way.

I wouldnt feel this damaged if I had a normal childhood and upbringing.
Teen love would have fixed us all
 
I feel you. I am 29 years old, and get treated badly. No gf and it will never happen. I feel like I'm in prison.
 
I feel like I'm constantly reminded every now and then, and I can't ignore it. I feel my only two options are probably to rope or just accept it, but doing either is more difficult than continuing in the hopes of finding someone.

It's similar to walking down a path when someone kicks you to your knees from behind. You continue walking, but they keep doing it, making it harder and more painful each time until eventually they break it and you have no way to keep going.


Until you die, it's a never-ending cycle of coping, falling, and then falling again. The more you cope, the further you fall. I'm curious how you oldcels manage to cope after all these years, because eventually it will hit you like a truck and leave you lying even more broken than before.

I guess I need to find an actual good cope or find someway to actually do something instead of LDARing, sooner or later it's not gonna be possible to.

glutty
 
You are 19 right? Do you think you are forever doomed, like you are ugly or short etc.?
short 5'4 kek
It is brutal indeed. One day you have to work and can't ldar unless you geet neetbux.
I will have to work inevitably. I am preparing myself for that.
yeah i can't get neetbuxx it isn't sustainable at all, I did work before but i can't say it was an enjoyable experience.
Being an adult seems rough but I guess there is no other way.

I wouldnt feel this damaged if I had a normal childhood and upbringing.
Teen love would have fixed us all
Teenlovepill but still a teenager, I'm turning 20 in a month anyway.
 
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short 5'4 kek

yeah i can't get neetbuxx it isn't sustainable at all, I did work before but i can't say it was an enjoyable experience.

Teenlovepill but still a teenager, I'm turning in a month anyway.
this is your last chance to date women in their late teens and early twenties, do with this information what you will
 
this is your last chance to date women in their late teens and early twenties, do with this information what you will
You think they'd ascend with a dude who's 5'4? I look younger than i am as well kek no way I'd get anything on dating apps tbh.
 
You think they'd ascend with a dude who's 5'4? I look younger than i am as well kek no way I'd get anything on dating apps tbh.
just saying i am entering late 30s and even an ugly younger woman would rather eat a pile of dogshit than touch me, that's how the world works now

honestly my advice would be to try seeing if a cousin or classmate or literally anyone wants to hang out, that was the only thing that ever got me out of the house aside from work and work-related stuff
 
just saying i am entering late 30s and even an ugly younger woman would rather eat a pile of dogshit than touch me, that's how the world works now

honestly my advice would be to try seeing if a cousin or classmate or literally anyone wants to hang out, that was the only thing that ever got me out of the house aside from work and work-related stuff
I see, i could try but then again I am a NEET so classmates are out of the question pretty much i have to walk around and find people to talk to tbh.
 

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