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For those of you who don’t know, I have a new oneitis. I’ve let go of my high school oneitis. I met my new oneitis at the beach two years ago. She’s from a different state but visited my city because she’s friends with my cousins. I thought she was pretty cute, but I barely spoke to her because I was shy. Two years later, I found her Instagram and messaged her. We started chatting a little bit. At first we spoke about martialartsmaxxing because she told me at the beach that she had an interest in that. However, she told me that she had quit. The conversation wasn’t really going anywhere. I was the one leading the conversation and asking all the questions. She was just answering my questions out of politeness. She was obviously not interested so I stopped writing to her. However, a few weeks later she posted a photo on her story. She was on vacation in another state. I told her I had been in that state too. So we started talking about our experiences. This time, it felt like a good conversation. She actually asked me questions this time. It was a nice conversation. Anyway, we aren’t chatting at the moment. I’m just waiting for the right moment to message her again. Probably when she posts something interesting on her profile. I will act slowly. I truly believe this girl could be my future wife. I just have to be patient. I won’t rush anything. I will talk to her from time to time and get to know her slowly. And maybe next year, I will ask her if she wants to visit my city again and hang out with me. I’ve learned alot after getting rejected by my high school oneitis. My biggest mistake with my high school oneitis was how desperate I was. I kept double-texting her and acting like a cuck. I’m not gonna make the same mistakes again. I will succeed this time. And even if I don’t succeed, I will atleast try to become friends with her.
