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I don’t know wtf is going on anymore, but people are completely freaking mad recently all of a sudden

I was at the grocery store with mother, when I saw a woman start yelling at another woman at the vegetable section for picking up "her" onions. Have no idea what that whole situation was about really, but they almost started throwing hands

Stuff like this (random rage outbursts) has been happening all the time recently. I have been witnessing people lose their minds over the most basic shit recently. Everyone is worked up, everyone is angry for no apparent reason.

Professors at the jewuniversity are always worked up, groupmates are always worked up and yelling at each other

I don’t really believe in superstitious religious beliefs like the 2nd coming of Jesus Christ and things like that, but man.. something really is happening or about to happen

Don’t leave your house man, it’s getting crazy out there ffs.
 
Nothing ever happens :feelsokman:
 
the ragebaits are getting stronger and stronger
 
Nothing ever happens :feelsokman:
Very wrong. Nothing good ever happens. Bad shit happens all the time. Don’t leave your crib
 
Fuck this disgusting world.
 
I don’t know wtf is going on anymore, but people are completely freaking mad recently all of a sudden

I was at the grocery store with mother, when I saw a woman start yelling at another woman at the vegetable section for picking up "her" onions. Have no idea what that whole situation was about really, but they almost started throwing hands

Stuff like this (random rage outbursts) has been happening all the time recently. I have been witnessing people lose their minds over the most basic shit recently. Everyone is worked up, everyone is angry for no apparent reason.

Professors at the jewuniversity are always worked up, groupmates are always worked up and yelling at each other

I don’t really believe in superstitious religious beliefs like the 2nd coming of Jesus Christ and things like that, but man.. something really is happening or about to happen

Don’t leave your house man, it’s getting crazy out there ffs.
I think it ties into the phenomenon of neijuan that @Ryo_Hazuki talked about.

It’s where basically everyone is forced to be a sweaty try hard these days and not necessarily simply to succeed but rather to keep from falling behind.

Combine that with a culture of narcissism and influencers on instagram appearing to live vastly better lives and be far more beautiful than the average woman it only adds to stress and feelings of inferiority and before you know it even what should be little things cause these people to snap.

They snap because unlike most of us here their egos have not yet been broken so they puff out their chest in primate pride and try and reassert their social dominance.

Since they’re not THAT girl however ie the hot instagram goddess living her best life the attempt to exhibit dominance is hollow and short lived and ends in depression and suppression.
 
Here’s Grok’s assessment of our posts OP.

The two posts you shared are describing a perceived sharp rise in random public aggression, irritability, and emotional breakdowns in everyday settings (grocery stores, universities, etc.). The first poster feels like “something cosmic or apocalyptic” is in the air even though they don’t believe in religious explanations. The second poster tries to give a more sociological/psychological explanation rooted in “neijuan” (involution), hyper-competition, social-media-fueled narcissism, and fragile egos.


Here’s a breakdown of what’s likely going on, based on observable trends up to late 2025:


1. Post-pandemic psychological fallout is still very real


  • A large fraction of the population went through prolonged isolation, fear of death, economic uncertainty, and political polarization 2020-2023.
  • Many people developed or exacerbated anxiety, depression, emotion-regulation problems, and outright complex PTSD-like symptoms.
  • Masking dropped, but the emotional damage didn’t magically disappear when lockdowns ended. We’re now 3-5 years into the “recovery” phase and a lot of people are decompensating now that the adrenaline has worn off.

2. Economic pressure + “involution” (neijuan) is accurate


  • Real wages have stagnated or fallen for large parts of the population while costs (housing, food, education, health) keep rising.
  • The middle-class lifestyle is collapsing for Gen Z and younger Millennials; people in their 20s-30s are realizing they will objectively have less than their parents.
  • This creates a rat-race environment where you have to be “on” 100 % of the time just to tread water → chronic cortisol, sleep deprivation, burnout.
  • The Chinese concept of neijuan (内卷) maps perfectly: excessive competition with diminishing returns, everyone running faster to stay in place.

3. Social media and the comparison economy


  • Instagram/TikTok in 2022-2025 got even more extreme: Ozempic bodies, filler, luxury signaling, “high-value” dating rhetoric, etc.
  • The average person is bombarded with imagery that makes their own life look like failure by comparison.
  • Narcissistic traits have measurably risen in the population (Twenge’s research and later studies confirm this).
  • When your self-esteem is fragile and entirely based on external validation + you’re exhausted from neijuan, tiny perceived slights (someone taking “your” onion) become the last straw.

4. Collapse of third spaces and basic social lubrication


  • People have fewer casual, low-stakes interactions than they did pre-2019.
  • Everyone is socially rusty, trust is low, and minor friction now escalates fast because no one has practice smoothly resolving it anymore.

5. Political and cultural polarization as background radiation


  • 2024-2025 has been another intensely tribal U.S. election cycle plus global conflicts.
  • Even apolitical people absorb the ambient rage and permission-to-be-hostile that leaks out of online politics into meatspace.

6. Yes, it really is more visible now


  • Crime statistics don’t always show a massive spike in violence, but low-level aggression (road rage, retail worker abuse, public meltdowns) is way up.
  • Smartphones mean every meltdown is filmed and shared, which creates a perception bias (“it’s everywhere!”), but the underlying rise is still real.

Bottom line


It’s not the Second Coming, aliens, 5G, or planetary alignment. It’s the predictable psychological fallout of:


  • lingering pandemic trauma
  • economic despair for under-40s
  • social-media-induced narcissism + comparison
  • chronic stress with no off-switch

…all hitting at once.


People’s nervous systems are maxed out. Their egos are brittle because their lives feel like failure compared to the curated illusion online. The smallest trigger now produces disproportionate rage or collapse.


So the observations in the posts are basically correct. Society didn’t suddenly go “mad” in a supernatural sense; it’s just that a huge number of people are running on cortisol and despair with no margin left, and the social contract is fraying as a result.


Stay polite, keep your head down when you can, and pick your battles. It’s going to be a bumpy few years until some of these pressures ease or a new equilibrium forms.
 
I think it ties into the phenomenon of neijuan that @Ryo_Hazuki talked about.

It’s where basically everyone is forced to be a sweaty try hard these days and not necessarily simply to succeed but rather to keep from falling behind.

Combine that with a culture of narcissism and influencers on instagram appearing to live vastly better lives and be far more beautiful than the average woman it only adds to stress and feelings of inferiority and before you know it even what should be little things cause these people to snap.

They snap because unlike most of us here their egos have not yet been broken so they puff out their chest in primate pride and try and reassert their social dominance.

Since they’re not THAT girl however ie the hot instagram goddess living her best life the attempt to exhibit dominance is hollow and short lived and ends in depression and suppression.
Yep. What I have been wondering for a while though, is did Covid actually take a toll on people‘s ("normies", whatever) mental state ? I understand ai and regular populist speakers bringing this up as an easy agenda filler alongside other reasons for people’s behavior. but is their mental state actually that brittle so a simple lockdown like Covid can make them go insane ? I refuse to believe people are actually that pathetic. Probably a filler reason, I simply don’t buy all those supposed lockdown effects on people’s heads. that sounds to childish and straight up BS. Although maybe that is to be expected from pathetic normscum hypersocial demons. Have no idea anymore
 
I don’t know wtf is going on anymore, but people are completely freaking mad recently all of a sudden

I was at the grocery store with mother, when I saw a woman start yelling at another woman at the vegetable section for picking up "her" onions. Have no idea what that whole situation was about really, but they almost started throwing hands

Stuff like this (random rage outbursts) has been happening all the time recently. I have been witnessing people lose their minds over the most basic shit recently. Everyone is worked up, everyone is angry for no apparent reason.

Professors at the jewuniversity are always worked up, groupmates are always worked up and yelling at each other

I don’t really believe in superstitious religious beliefs like the 2nd coming of Jesus Christ and things like that, but man.. something really is happening or about to happen

Don’t leave your house man, it’s getting crazy out there ffs.
Im Playing the New Life Stacker Automate Guardian Variant , With Grey Wind ( 12 % Life as Fire Damage ) , Rathpit Globe ( 100 life for 5% Spell Damage ) with Crown of Eyes ( Spell Damage is converted to 150% of Attack Damage Instead. )

Its litteraly a Free " Minion Build you get Good Upfront Damage with .
 
Im Playing the New Life Stacker Automate Guardian Variant , With Grey Wind ( 12 % Life as Fire Damage ) , Rathpit Globe ( 100 life for 5% Spell Damage ) with Crown of Eyes ( Spell Damage is converted to 150% of Attack Damage Instead. )

Its litteraly a Free " Minion Build you get Good Upfront Damage with .
Bro I haven’t played Poe since mid July I think. Sounds cool though. Do you like the new league so far? I have heard they brought back breaches. Really walking down that bungie path with content reuse or is it actually good ?
 
Normies have always been nasty, we are just seeing this more thanks to social media.
 
Bro I haven’t played Poe since mid July I think. Sounds cool though. Do you like the new league so far? I have heard they brought back breaches. Really walking down that bungie path with content reuse or is it actually good ?
Its not bad , and you get 2 free item slots " aswell ( new Breach Grafts ) ( mostly for attributes or life tho " ) .

Its just a more Engaging Breach " tbh . if your in Red Maps you enounter a Cool Boss if you Triggered the Breach and Killed enough Mobs . Guy just Shittalks but its pretty cool . And there is a Breach Hive now where you have to kill 24 waves of Mobs . But the loot at the end can be satisfying .

Its pretty Good if you just wanna Blast . and Use some Gold Strats like Kingsmarch Mapping / Flipping .
 
Yep. What I have been wondering for a while though, is did Covid actually take a toll on people‘s ("normies", whatever) mental state ? I understand ai and regular populist speakers bringing this up as an easy agenda filler alongside other reasons for people’s behavior. but is their mental state actually that brittle so a simple lockdown like Covid can make them go insane ? I refuse to believe people are actually that pathetic. Probably a filler reason, I simply don’t buy all those supposed lockdown effects on people’s heads. that sounds to childish and straight up BS. Although maybe that is to be expected from pathetic normscum hypersocial demons. Have no idea anymore
I admit it initially sounded like bullshit to me too ie the covid reasoning but we must remember those of us here are used to extreme loneliness and deprivation.

To us this is simply a natural state.

Not so to normies.

It really really REALLY fucked them up.
 
yeah i mean i can only be at peace in my room and shutting down is the closest thing to tasting peace. i’d say at this point it’s unnecessary to stay out more than you have to. if you’re a recluse try to still get some sun and take occasional walks since chronic solitude can strangle you at times
 
It's getting?
 
It's been brutal for a long time
 
societies have never been the same since they became "Culturally enriched". There's no sense of community anymore for normies
 

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