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Its funny how some people tell us that sex isnt that important or not important at all when they themselves cant live without it

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"Sex isnt that important", says the woman who doesnt know what inceldom is.
"You dont need sex, focus on other things", says the bluepilled retard who cant stop pleasing himself because he needs sex.
"Bro, focus on other things first", says the good looking guy who is not sexually frustrated at all and for whom it is just easy talk.

People (especially women) have the nerves to tell men who dont get anything for years how they are supposed to feel about their most basic psychological need (Love and Belonginess) being not fullfilled.

Whenever someone comes to tells me how sex isnt the only thing in life but the person is a woman or bluepilled guy i feel rage. They just ignore your feelings and tell you how you are supposed to think according to them.
 
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I'm just coping. Being obsessed about sex all the time is not better either
 
Games are better.
Drugs are better.
Food is better.

Plenty of things better than using a wet hole for your peepee.

In fact if I had the choice to be supplied top drugs or top food daily for the rest of my life I would rather pick that than getting sex with a hot girl daily for the rest of my life.
 
Plenty of things better than using a wet hole for your peepee.
Depends. Sex in the sense of just ramming your dick into a hole isn't important. What is important is to be in a relationship in a foid who makes you feel valued and boosts your testosterone level and status. You may call BS on Maslow's hierarchy of needs but I think he had a good point by representing love/belonging and self-esteem as a base upon which self-actualization lies. My self-esteem is shit so I have no motivation to self-actualize.
 
lol, women use sex to get through high school and college, but they'll tell you why it's ok to wait until you get married in your 30s or 40s
 
Depends. Sex in the sense of just ramming your dick into a hole isn't important. What is important is to be in a relationship in a foid who makes you feel valued and boosts your testosterone level and status. You may call BS on Maslow's hierarchy of needs but I think he had a good point by representing love/belonging and self-esteem as a base upon which self-actualization lies. My self-esteem is shit so I have no motivation to self-actualize.
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Depends. Sex in the sense of just ramming your dick into a hole isn't important. What is important is to be in a relationship in a foid who makes you feel valued and boosts your testosterone level and status. You may call BS on Maslow's hierarchy of needs but I think he had a good point by representing love/belonging and self-esteem as a base upon which self-actualization lies. My self-esteem is shit so I have no motivation to self-actualize.
You are giga bluepilled if you think roasties of now can provide love and belonging lmao. They want to be fucked hard.

If you want a dumb creature to "love" you (in exchange for materials and services) that's your problem.

Imagine getting self-esteem from a foid and not from within. :feelshaha:
 
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You are giga bluepilled if you think roasties of now can provide love and belonging lmao. They want to be fucked hard.

If you want a dumb creature to "love" you (in exchange for materials and services) that's your problem.

Imagine getting self-esteem from a foid and not from within. :feelshaha:
I don't mean the romantic love BS you see in Hollywood movies. I mean the rush of being desired by a foid. And a roastie is what the bluepilled normie gets by betabuxxing; I'm talking about what Chadlite+ gets as early as in his teens. Also, being respected and taken seriously by normies instead of being made fun of by them feels nice.

Self-esteem coming from within is a cope normies tell us because they don't want to admit they're treating us like shit. Your confidence is literally a reflection of what the outside world showers you with. That's why if a person with low confidence goes to a therapist, it's the therapist's job to treat them with compassion - over time, this gets ingrained into the person's mind.
 
I don't mean the romantic love BS you see in Hollywood movies. I mean the rush of being desired by a foid. And a roastie is what the bluepilled normie gets by betabuxxing; I'm talking about what Chadlite+ gets as early as in his teens. Also, being respected and taken seriously by normies instead of being made fun of by them feels nice.

Self-esteem coming from within is a cope normies tell us because they don't want to admit they're treating us like shit. Your confidence is literally a reflection of what the outside world showers you with. That's why if a person with low confidence goes to a therapist, it's the therapist's job to treat them with compassion - over time, this gets ingrained into the person's mind.
What a bluepilled drivel :feelskek: It's like I'm speaking to IT directly. :bluepill::feelskek:
 
When foids don't get sex it's men being fatphobic. It's not because they think sex is not necessary but because they are disgusted by the very imagination of ugly men actually being happy about anything.

I bet they don't even like to see us smile and wish we were in pain
 
All you have to do is to turn on the television or radio and hear people bitching about how they've been on a dry spell for three whole weeks or whatever. Deadbedroomers moaning about how they only have sex once a month, and everybody agrees that the relationship is pretty much over unless something drastic happens. Yeap, totally not important at all.
 
if someone tries to tell me something like that IRL i swear i'll pull a blade on their bitch ass :ahegao:
 
they can't go a week of their lives without sex without complaining and they say that. if they truly believe in their bullshit they wouldn't have sex for at least 20 years.
 
sex and relationships aren't important at all inkel :soy: that's why like 90% songs on the radio is about it and that's why normies were committing suicide after two weeks in quarantine during early 'rona era :fuk:
 
Food isn't important to someone who has never known what it is to truly go without food. Money doesn't matter to someone who is wealthy, a person who has never had money be limiter in terms of their options in life. To understand the human tendency to dismiss what we already possess as unimportant, you also have to understand the true nature of both pleasure and so-called positive value.

Have you noticed how food tends to taste so much better after even just a few days without it, or how water feels so good to drink after a day of hard work? On the other hand if one eats a consistently healthy amount, eliminating the gnawing hunger has less of a noticeable impact on them. If you compulsively overeat then you can only expect to at best alleviate some boredom, or to distract yourself from some other undesirable thing which is bothering you. My point is that what you're perceiving to be pleasurable isn't actually creating something positive, it's either reducing or eliminating an imposed need. It's a reduction in negative utility being perceived as the creation of positive utility, but ultimately there is no form of the latter which is independent from preexisting deprivation.

Another way to look at it is that we can clearly see a house to be a good thing, It provides shelter and warmth to the humans who inhabit it. But does a house continue being good if nobody exists to benefit from it's presence? I would say no, since there is nobody who has problems and needs which could be resolved by the house.

Now I'll get back to the topic of this thread. When people tell you that sex is unimportant, they usually aren't trying to lie to you. Because usually the people who make such claims don't know what it is to go an excessively long time with unfulfilled sexual desires, or to go without even much physical contact with other humans. To them sex maybe seems like a slight positive, a nice way to pass the time or to relieve a bit for stress caused by daily life. I'd wager that some don't even perceive sex as a positive at all, that it likely exists as just a neutral for some people, a totally given part of life, the presence of which brings no relief since it's so commonly had and expected.

To people such as this, the urgency which is common to so many of us isn't present at all, it's not something which they're perceiving. Sex doesn't matter to people who have a mostly or entirely fulfilled need for sex. The funny thing is, I've found that my own fixation with sex and my endless hunger for it mostly vanished after escortcelling a few times. I can only assume that it will eventually return, but for now I don't think about it so much, and it doesn't really bother me. My lack of good past experiences or positive responses from others has usurped sex as some of the primary things which bother my conscious mind. Which makes sense, since I have no immediate physical needs which require my attention.

The truth is we are need machines which will never be truly satisfied, pleasure is a measured reduction in negative utility, and people usually can't see a thing as valuable if they already possess it because they have no deprivation to relieve. If you see a depressed person in a first world country and you wonder why they're depressed because they don't have to fear starvation, then you're making a similar mistake. People who have all physical needs met kill themselves all the time, showing us that the presence of otherwise satisfied needs doesn't reduce the suffering one feels from unsatisfied needs, in fact it seems to do exactly the opposite.

Our existence is a mistake.
 
"Sex isnt that important", says the woman who doesnt know what inceldom is.
"You dont need sex, focus on other things", says the bluepilled retard who cant stop pleasing himself because he needs sex.
"Bro, focus on other things first", says the good looking guy who is not sexually frustrated at all and for whom it is just easy talk.

People (especially women) have the nerves to tell men who dont get anything for years how they are supposed to feel about their most basic psychological need (Love and Belonginess) being not fullfilled.

Whenever someone comes to tells me how sex isnt the only thing in life but the person is a woman or bluepilled guy i feel rage. They just ignore your feelings and tell you how you are supposed to think according to them.
They want to silent us.
 
I hear a lot of "Sex is overrated bro"

:lul::lul:
 
Games are better.
Drugs are better.
Food is better.

Plenty of things better than using a wet hole for your peepee.

In fact if I had the choice to be supplied top drugs or top food daily for the rest of my life I would rather pick that than getting sex with a hot girl daily for the rest of my life.
Tbh but games are better if you're winning and food if it's really good
 

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