Serious It's difficult to imagine experiences which I've never had

[Deleted member 8353]

I want to feel a female's skin against mine so I can use that knowledge to further my mental imagery cope. I'm finding certain types of contact difficult to simulate within my mind, the idea of how something conceptually feels doesn't seem as visceral as experiences that I've actually had. When I imagine myself with a female it's hard for me to suspend my disbelief with anything that involves physical contact.

Is there a way around this? I'd like to be able to create my own false validation, but I can't do this as well if I don't know what it feels like. Or maybe I'm overthinking it, perhaps if I don't know how something feels, then it can feel like however I i wish. Apologies if this makes no sense, I'm about to fall asleep.

 

[Deleted member 15752]

When you fall asleep I hope you dream of such things that you cannot get.

 

[ManletHalfCurry]

Same if I have dream about sex, it just feels like I masturbating with my hand, because my mind has no other reference to go from.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

With dreams it's easier tbh, my brain just creates something for me, I don't have to consciously try.

 

[ManletHalfCurry]

When I imagine myself with a female it's hard for me to suspend my disbelief with anything that involves physical contact.

I am the same way, my mind simply cannot believe it, which is why I gave up attempting to fantasise.

I used to make my hand numb by sitting on it then touch my skin, in an attempt to get an idea what it is like for someone else to touch your body.

 

[Gengar]

Recently I dreamed touching women's boobs and I didn't feel anything JFL.

 

[anon]

I understand what you mean. I can't accurately imagine what being touched by a girl feels like, let alone sex or kissing. It's an alien concept to me, almost like trying to explain color to a blind person. I know it's warm and it probably feels good, I just can't imagine it and if I try to I'm not sure if it's accurate or not.
This is why I stopped watching porn, I just couldn't handle seeing people feel each other up, kiss etc. When I used to watch porn I desperately tried to imagine what it feels like to be the guy in the video. I'm tired of it.

For me, sexual dreams are quite uncomfortable and often bizarre. My brain can't simulate any of it accurately because I've never experienced it so weird shit happens in dreams.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

I understand what you mean. I can't accurately imagine what being touched by a girl feels like, let alone sex or kissing. It's an alien concept to me, almost like trying to explain color to a blind person. I know it's warm and it probably feels good, I just can't imagine it and if I try to I'm not sure if it's accurate or not.

Usually I just imagine a female's presence near me, as anything physical takes a lot of effort. I basically have to meld feelings that I do understand until I get a good estimate, it takes marginally longer, and ruins my concentration.

 

[Words2_live_bye]

I want to feel a female's skin against mine

 

[anon]

I've never actually had any meaningful skin to skin contact with a non-family member female, at least not after puberty.
I've held hands with girls before puberty because we were forced to at school, but I wasn't thinking about it sexually or romantically back then so it barely counts. Now that I think about it, haircuts, but everyone experiences that it's not romantic at all. It's nothing.

That's crazy when you think about it. There's so many women all over the place and I've never had physical contact of any kind with any of them.
It's something so basic that normal people don't even think about it, but to me it's uncharted territory.

 

[_wifebeater_]

Escortmaxx?

 

[anon]

Escortmaxx?

It's good enough for most men, but it can never replace real physical/romantic contact.
I know I sound like a bitch, but for me it's more about the feelings, validation and confidence I'd get from voluntary unpaid for genuine romantic contact with a girl. Of course I like sex, everyone sane does, but it's more than that for me.
I'm not obsessed with sex itself, I'm obsessed with any kind of genuine romantic contact. It's probably why I'll never escortcel, maybe when I'm 40 just to get it over with.

 

[blackcel]

Just escortcel already. Do it at least once to get your head out of the clouds. Women feel just the same as men, maybe a bit softer. Wanna know what a girl's ass feels like? Slap your own. Wanna know what boobs feel like? If you got a manboob, it pretty much feels the same.

Loving hugs and shit is nothing you aint anything you will get to experience as an incel, though. Your best bet there is to go full schizo cope and create a tulpa.

 

[Michael15651]

High doses of melatonin help when you head to bed.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

when i was around puberty i had a weird dream about kissing a femoid on the lips once, and the missing sensation was filled in with a weird burning, like hot peppers or garlic, that's all i felt. it was prophetic.

 

[Reimu Hakurei]

Just escortcel already. Do it at least once to get your head out of the clouds. Women feel just the same as men, maybe a bit softer. Wanna know what a girl's ass feels like? Slap your own. Wanna know what boobs feel like? If you got a manboob, it pretty much feels the same.

Loving hugs and shit is nothing you aint anything you will get to experience as an incel, though. Your best bet there is to go full schizo cope and create a tulpa.

How do you know that?

 

[Izayacel]

good iq tbh , very good post

 

[Hate_my_life]

Just escortcel already. Do it at least once to get your head out of the clouds. Women feel just the same as men, maybe a bit softer. Wanna know what a girl's ass feels like? Slap your own. Wanna know what boobs feel like? If you got a manboob, it pretty much feels the same.

Loving hugs and shit is nothing you aint anything you will get to experience as an incel, though. Your best bet there is to go full schizo cope and create a tulpa.

Knows how a girls ass feels like.

 

[blackcel]

How do you know that?

escortmaxxing

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

escortmaxxing

@escortcelmax

 

[Valiant Virgin]

I read somewhere that if you take heat a block of jelly on a radiator then put it in a toilet roll tube and go to town on it, that simulates the feeling of having sex.

I've never tried it, but it's probably worth a shot as I'll never get to experience the real thing.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

Loving hugs and shit is nothing you aint anything you will get to experience as an incel, though. Your best bet there is to go full schizo cope and create a tulpa.

I've considered this, but I don't know if it's possible for me to willfully sever myself like that, I'm not sure that I'd want to tbh. Wouldn't I already have to have information processing issues to create a separate piece of myself inside my head?

Then again what difference does it make at this point, trying probably couldn't hurt.

 

[Cuyen]

I see lucid dreams so often it brings joy but also dissapointment.

 

[Nothingness]

Just summon succubus bro