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SuicideFuel Its daunting to think how much of our lives have been wasted (WARNING Extreme complex suifuel ITT)

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takERisks

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Just think, let's say you could have started having girlfriends at 13, how many days would have passed.

I'm 18 now, so that's over 1700 days, think of all the sunny afternoons that have passed where foids and better looking males would have been having sex and intimacy and just general relationships while you were breathing but not living. Let's say foids spent 90% of this time being sexually successful and chads and chadlites 60-80ish. Meanwhile, for 100% of this time, I have been lonely and bullied and never had a GF
 
Even if the stats were better this would be sui fuel
 
Just think, let's say you could have started having girlfriends at 13, how many days would have passed.

I'm 18 now, so that's over 1700 days, think of all the sunny afternoons that have passed where foids and better looking males would have been having sex and intimacy and just general relationships while you were breathing but not living. Let's say foids spent 90% of this time being sexually successful and chads and chadlites 60-80ish. Meanwhile, for 100% of this time, I have been lonely and bullied and never had a GF
These kinds of calculations used to drive me insane. They still do but not as much.
 
Even if the stats were better this would be sui fuel
This is pure fucking fuel, my brain shouldn't have even allowed me to think of this. Wonder what @Rightful anger would think
 
lol i've thought about that since the age of 11-12, since that's the age most people start being sexually active, at least in my area. me being a 20 year old virgin here is so extremely odd to the point that i seriously think being a leper with HIV would be more socially acceptable.
 
I stopped caring about this like 5 years ago.
 
I stopped caring about this like 5 years ago.
I mean the past is the past and it doesn't really matter right now but the thing is it will just keep happening. So when you're 30 the comparison to a chads lifespan will be ridiculous
 
You think waay too much about it
Best you think about it as little as possible
It's not like suicide is gonna get you back those lost years
 
I mean the past is the past and it doesn't really matter right now but the thing is it will just keep happening. So when you're 30 the comparison to a chads lifespan will be ridiculous

While Chad was fucking sluts, I was busy studying the blade.
 
I used to think like that, but looking at the past in those terms is both pointless and makes no sense. It's not that I didn't choose to take a different path, it's that I took the only one available to me. The years weren't wasted if the life I wanted was never mine to have.
 
I really think its a subjective matter. I used to think similarly to you, but have come to the conclusion that even though some aspects of my life are shittier than others, some aspects are actually better. I have used this time to read books, practice piano, explore, jogging etc...
The amount of books, movies and shows I have consumed is more than some do in their entire lifespan.
 
It's not that I didn't choose to take a different path, it's that I took the only one available to me. The years weren't wasted if the life I wanted was never mine to have.
This. But also, getting around having fun isn't necessarily the best use of one's time. Your past has given you a unique, and possibly valuable perspective.
 
I'm 21 now, too old to experience or feel anything anymore. I've stopped thinking about these things when I was about 16.
 
just think more positively bro
 
I stoped using Facebook because of that.

ALL FOIDS I KNEW ARE MARRIED...ETC.

I see with FC what my life could have been.

But since I am an escortcel I tell you one thing:

I will never have a foid stealing everything on a divorce or only having a granny to fuck.
 
wait till you hit urs 20s. then your 30s.. it gets worse tbh
 
I really think its a subjective matter. I used to think similarly to you, but have come to the conclusion that even though some aspects of my life are shittier than others, some aspects are actually better. I have used this time to read books, practice piano, explore, jogging etc...
The amount of books, movies and shows I have consumed is more than some do in their entire lifespan.
It is true. I can't lie I have been pretty happy in this time with my copes like anime, league of legends, nice food. But it would have been far far better if I was a foid or at least chadlite
 
i wasted my entire life
 
If you break it down into minutes, seconds etc becomes even more depressing.

The silver lining, if there is one, is that we as humans become tired of things. As time passes, we become used to foods, video games, new hardware, and so on, so the same must hold true for women and relationships. The first 100 days with relationships/sex are probably way batter than the rest. You only get to have your first 100 days once in life, no matter how late you get them.
 
If you break it down into minutes, seconds etc becomes even more depressing.

The silver lining, if there is one, is that we as humans become tired of things. As time passes, we become used to foods, video games, new hardware, and so on, so the same must hold true for women and relationships. The first 100 days with relationships/sex are probably way batter than the rest. You only get to have your first 100 days once in life, no matter how late you get them.
If that's true, you just made me feel a lot better
 
You are 18 and we don't know the severity of your flaws. Get off this forum, come back when you are over 22 and still a virgin. There should be an age limit on this forum. We don't want young naive kids to obsess over their flaws and develop an inferiority complex.
 
You are 18 and we don't know the severity of your flaws. Get off this forum, come back when you are over 22 and still a virgin. There should be an age limit on this forum. We don't want young naive kids to obsess over their flaws and develop an inferiority complex.
Maycel telling m to get off JFL, you probably just joined for the fad
 
Just think, let's say you could have started having girlfriends at 13, how many days would have passed.

I'm 18 now, so that's over 1700 days, think of all the sunny afternoons that have passed where foids and better looking males would have been having sex and intimacy and just general relationships while you were breathing but not living. Let's say foids spent 90% of this time being sexually successful and chads and chadlites 60-80ish. Meanwhile, for 100% of this time, I have been lonely and bullied and never had a GF
T-thanks
 
there is a point of view that celibacy has an evolutionary cause basis which is to learn stuff , in that, at young age, whatever that means, you are married to your studies. Now correct me if I am wrong but does not the world contain lots more stuff to learn ... so .... hence .... it would make sense that more time is needed to learn some stuff ... maybe .... 18 is young ... theres plenty of time unless we get nuked or something .... chill out
 
there is a point of view that celibacy has an evolutionary cause basis which is to learn stuff , in that, at young age, whatever that means, you are married to your studies. Now correct me if I am wrong but does not the world contain lots more stuff to learn ... so .... hence .... it would make sense that more time is needed to learn some stuff ... maybe .... 18 is young ... theres plenty of time unless we get nuked or something .... chill out
Cope tbh
 
there is a point of view that celibacy has an evolutionary cause basis which is to learn stuff , in that, at young age, whatever that means, you are married to your studies. Now correct me if I am wrong but does not the world contain lots more stuff to learn ... so .... hence .... it would make sense that more time is needed to learn some stuff ... maybe .... 18 is young ... theres plenty of time unless we get nuked or something .... chill out

Atomic cope. There is only 3 time periods that you should get a girlfriend/have sexual relationships by or else you will be extremely psychologically damaged most likely forever. Around 14-16, this is most likely ideal and you get to experience teenage love at maybe it's purest. 17-19 (17 is when most normies lose their virginity according to stats however I expect normies lie and the number is a little higher) in some scenarios depending on the person this age also be ideal. 20-22, in my opinion the last time period you can lose your virginity/have first real relationship and still have a good life. These are the mid/end of college years and these are the ages for men which women consider the hottest (Think highschool girls saying they like older guys these are the guys they are referring to) Most heart throbs are around this age. If you don't lose your virginity before you turn 23 years old it is most likely over.
 

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