Any man who complains about his life or just things in general is an incel according to normalfags. Normalfags despise men who complain and vent about things on the internet. Low value men (sexually unattractive) are supposed to be good quiet little goyim who work, pay taxes and respect women. The moment you complain about your place in society you're an incel, you aren't working hard enough, you're not trying hard enough, you have a bad personality, you're entitled, you're a terrorist etc.
Normgroids are extremely sensitive to complaints about women even if it's not sexual in nature. Any criticism of women gets you labeled as an incel.
People want sexually unattractive men to be asexual and subservient or at best submissive beta providers. The moment you become aware of your real situation you're labeled as an incel. It's just how it is. Men are never supposed to complain about their lives. We don't want to admit it, but "complaining" is the most feminine/beta behavioural trait there is.