TLDR: I'm almost 23, virgin, never laid, no girlfriend, basically no friends, probably ugly, no one seems to like me. Despite my best efforts, I fear I'm moving to the dark side of inceldom, primarily because of the evidence presented to me. eg Tinder experiments and the like, where "Chads" can basically get away with saying anything and constantly get laid based only on looks, as well as studies of how much better good-looking people have it in life. I don't hate anyone, and I don't want anyone to die or anything crazy like that. I also am not for forced marriages or any of that nonsense. I just feel I've discovered the unfortunate truths about the world for a guy like me. I don't want to live this way, but I'm starting to see no way out. I need serious help saving myself... I started with the TLDR because it's pretty long, but I think this hits the major points...
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Over the last few weeks, I've done an unfortunate amount of research into the whole incel world. Chads, Staceys, you name it. While I'm not familar with all of their antics, there's one thing that bothers me most. I can't necessarily disprove any of their ideas... See I've always been a man of logic. If someone made a claim that sounded like bullshit, I'd do my best to call it out. And yet, all of it makes so much sense to me... I wouldn't call myself an "incel" as far as the movement goes. But I would definitely say I'm "involuntarily celibate" in so far as that terminology goes. I would say I'm more like the people at ForeverAlone. Having trouble socializing due to social anxiety, generalized anxiety, hell possibly even autism, who knows..? The observations below don't come from hatred, but rather that I feel I've discovered the "unfortunate truths" about our world. It's more of a feeling of jealousy than hatred...
Some examples: That "Chad" being forward and aggressive is him being confident. The same conduct from a below-avere guys will come off as creepy, not because the conduct is any different, but because he's not attractive. Same with cat-calling. I have no doubt that the best looking men can cross the line. And while much of the evidence is anecdotal, I'd note that these things are backed up with science as well. Hell, you should see what the guys on the Tinder reddit get away with saying. If I walked up to a girl and said those things, I'd be pepper sprayed and arrested.
I would also point to experiments like that "Atomic Black Pill" where a dude posed as a male model who was basically a child rapist and had girls chasing him like crazy, basically justifying what he had done. Do you really think with my face, people would "feel sorry" for me if I had raped a 14 year old? No! Nor should they! And remember That Jeremy Meeks dude? Another dude on
bodybuilding.com did a similar experiment. All the idiots over there blasted him for it, yet he was able to prove his point time and time again. I was recently thinking of joining Tinder when I realized I wouldn't get any matches anyway, so what's the point? It'd only make me feel worse...
Now I know this is just more anecdotes, but my mom was in every way an average-looking woman. She had many quality guys chasing her over the years despite there being nothing particularly special about her. My dad on the other hand? I think most of the incels would call him a "low-tier Chad". He was a drug addict, alcoholic, struggled to hold a job, stole from my mom and beat her on several occasions. And yet she was with him, on and off for almost 20 years. Why? He was probably the best she felt she could ever get, despite droves of guys that would have treated her like royalty. Guys who actually did something with their lives. Oh, not to mention he had a big dick. A trait I unfortunately did not inherit...
