They truly believe we are all anti social shut-ins who never leave the house when in truth they couldn't be more wrong. Many of us have friends in real life as well as jobs. A lot of guys here are even friends with women. Personally, I used to have more female friends when I was a leftist than male friends. Some of those friendships lasted for years. My inceldom is not due to personality, but appearance. I have never been called weird or creepy by women but I have been called ugly by them. I have seen women choosing cheaters over me just because they were better looking. Personality counts next to nothing in courtship. It truly is a white lie, if you will, perpetrated by people who wanted others to feel good. In Christian societies we tend to try to spare other people's feelings instead of nuking them with the harsh and cold truth. The ideas we discuss here aren't new. I have seen them mentioned by Neitzche, Schaupenhauer and countless other authors some of them going back to thousand of years. Beauty has always been praised over the centuries. I am yet to find some poet praising personality. I know we live in a world where everybody wants to be happy and to feel good, however,there are some of us who weren't destined to make it. Normans can't deal with this truth.
