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Blackpill It gets HARDER to get a girlfriend AFTER high school

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Incels and bluepillers alike believe that girls reach peak shallowness during adolescence when they're in their prime, which is why so many of you believe in the popular trope about high school being hell for unattractive guys. But during my high school years I observed a trend which is speaks absolutely contrary to this massive cope and simply cannot be ignored since the last time my low-tier normie classmates actually dated was in high school, after that they just drifted into celibacy in their 20s. Their fb timelines died, and now only occasional shitposts about vidya appear coupled with awkward indoor selfies.

Bluepillers will admit that it's harder to date in college, but they argue that it is only because women aren't as "naive" in their 20s as they were in their teens — implying many young girls got played since they went for LOOKS exclusively — but once they re-enter the dating scene matured and experienced; they start seeking other qualities than looks in men, which is, frankly, complete horseshit and a interlude to the personality argument. Rather the complete opposite will happen as girls will ghost their high-school sweetheart once a whole new horizon of possibilities opens in college; the small-town crush she had becomes obsolete as she is now exposed to slayers from across the nation. The blackpill of the matter is that you had your best chance of ascension in high school, when hormones were raging and a genuine curiosity for sexuality made a girl be down for experimentation with guys closer to her looks-wise.

tl;dr: you've peaked in high school, you just didn't noticed it.
 
Rassimov said:
Incels and bluepillers alike believe that girls reach peak shallowness during adolescence when they're in their prime, which is why so many of you believe in the popular trope about high school being hell for unattractive guys.
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Never really seen this much here, I always hear that high school girls have lower standards/social-circle maxxing and NTmaxxing can help you in high school. I think many here
 
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I graduate in 5 months. Fuuuuuck it never even began :feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope:
 
Rassimov said:
Incels and bluepillers alike believe that girls reach peak shallowness during adolescence when they're in their prime, which is why so many of you believe in the popular trope about high school being hell for unattractive guys. But during my high school years I observed a trend which is speaks absolutely contrary to this massive cope and simply cannot be ignored since the last time my low-tier normie classmates actually dated was in high school, after that they just drifted into celibacy in their 20s. Their fb timelines died, and now only occasional shitposts about vidya appear coupled with awkward indoor selfies.

Bluepillers will admit that it's harder to date in college, but they argue that it is only because women aren't as "naive" in their 20s as they were in their teens — implying many young girls got played since they went for LOOKS exclusively — but once they re-enter the dating scene matured and experienced; they start seeking other qualities than looks in men, which is, frankly, complete horseshit and a interlude to the personality argument. Rather the complete opposite will happen as girls will ghost their high-school sweetheart once a whole new horizon of possibilities opens in college; the small-town crush she had becomes obsolete as she is now exposed to slayers from across the nation. The blackpill of the matter is that you had your best chance of ascension in high school, when hormones were raging and a genuine curiosity for sexuality made a girl be down for experimentation with guys closer to her looks-wise.

tl;dr: you've peaked in high school, you just didn't noticed it.
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nothing to disagree with here. remember that story I told before about the guy who got a kiss simply because he was visiting with family? the other family's daughter got bored and told him he should just kiss her. lol even high school is kind of late for that thing to happen, you already need some kind of advantage or "trick" to make you stand out and get ahead.
 
Time to go back to hs
 
turbocuckcel_7000 said:
nothing to disagree with here. remember that story I told before about the guy who got a kiss simply because he was visiting with family? the other family's daughter got bored and told him he should just kiss her. lol even high school is kind of late for that thing to happen, you already need some kind of advantage or "trick" to make you stand out and get ahead.
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I've read that story of yours, and I claim that having such experiences is crucial for your nt levels. But high school still occuplys that space between adulthood and juvenile craziness. I went to a rural school in Europe, kids would sneak out and have maekout sessions behind the cafeteria just for shits and giggles. Comparing those years to your 30s dating scene full of cynical post-wall roasties with lists of 300+ deal breakers is truly infuriating.
 
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If you fail to get teen love you probably never will
 
Highschool zoomercels can't even begin to fathom how over it is during adulthood. Your contact with females will be reduced to cashier interactions.
 
78980n said:
Never really seen this much here, I always hear that high school girls have lower standards/social-circle maxxing and NTmaxxing can help you in high school. I think many here
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Being stuffed in a room with 20+ people with raging hormones for 8 hours a day significantly enhances your chances for a romantic encounter. If that didn't work, tinder never will.
 
Rassimov said:
Being stuffed in a room with 20+ people with raging hormones for 8 hours a day significantly enhances your chances for a sexual encounter.
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Hmm, I guess so.
 
Common knowledge. High school is the absolute easiest time by far, if you failed even then it's over.
College is your last chance but that door is closing fast.
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Highschool zoomercels can't even begin to fathom how over it is during adulthood. Your contact with females will be reduced to cashier interactions.
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I also heard about these theory that when girls are in their teen years they are shallow and dumb and just want the chad but as they get older and become adult they change and seek more decent men...I am old enough, i've been trough many and i can testify that the theory is bullshit. Women remain the same, actually they even get worse with age.
 
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Highschool zoomercels can't even begin to fathom how over it is during adulthood. Your contact with females will be reduced to cashier interactions.
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This. Most of my interactions with women are business like anyway.
 
never began for me since everyone at my high school hated ne
 
ionlycopenow said:
Common knowledge. High school is the absolute easiest time by far, if you failed even then it's over.
College is your last chance but that door is closing fast.
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I agree, after i finished college i felt like i just ended up in a desert. The change of getting to know any women is close to 0, there is just no place where to do this. If you haven't got into a relationship in school / college - it is over
 
turbocuckcel_7000 said:
nothing to disagree with here. remember that story I told before about the guy who got a kiss simply because he was visiting with family? the other family's daughter got bored and told him he should just kiss her. lol even high school is kind of late for that thing to happen, you already need some kind of advantage or "trick" to make you stand out and get ahead.
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99% of people get fatter and balder after high school

there is nothing that gets easier that I can think of
 
Yvan said:
I agree, after i finished college i felt like i just ended up in a desert. The change of getting to know any women is close to 0, there is just no place where to do this. If you haven't got into a relationship in school / college - it is over
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Also, most happily married couples met in early high school
mylifeistrash said:
99% of people get fatter and balder after high school

there is nothing that gets easier that I can think of
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The second they leave they get the beer belly and stop going to the gym

Ironically, it's only the incels who put in effort in their appearance via gymcelling after
 
High school is definitely peak time for most normies. Was 7ish years ago for me but I can remember even 5-6/10 males with looksmaxxed gfs.

Might be different in certain countries and it certainly is very far from the norm in the UK but a lot of girls are still sweet at that age, or at least can appear so. Obviously they're all Chadsexual but many of them will at least get like a "starter" bf to keep up with their classmates.

Of course, as others have pointed out, by the time college comes along this changes completely. All goes right out the fucking window, falls 37 stories, the dead body of young love splattered and washed away by the tidal wave of Chads in uni. It's kind of like showing a kid Disney World after he's only seen his local funfair. Good luck competing with THAT.
 
Gymcelled said:
This. Most of my interactions with women are business like anyway.
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well i have a few female colleagues at work but the interaction is minimal. They are all married so it is game over. They also found out that i am incel and they treat me like i am some of freak...Seriously...i hate this world
 
I never believed this and in fact, in one of your threads I said it is after high school holes go wild because it is in high school when they realise their power in dating game and then apply it in college/uni.
 
Saddam said:
High school is definitely peak time for most normies. Was 7ish years ago for me but I can remember even 5-6/10 males with looksmaxxed gfs.

Might be different in certain countries and it certainly is very far from the norm in the UK but a lot of girls are still sweet at that age, or at least can appear so. Obviously they're all Chadsexual but many of them will at least get like a "starter" bf to keep up with their classmates.

Of course, as others have pointed out, by the time college comes along this changes completely. All goes right out the fucking window, falls 37 stories, the dead body of young love splattered and washed away by the tidal wave of Chads in uni. It's kind of like showing a kid Disney World after he's only seen his local funfair. Good luck competing with THAT.
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Ive been there, in university it is almost impossible for the average guy to compete with the chads, you simply have no change
 
I wonder why hollywood movies try to brainwash people into thinking college is the best and easiest time to ascend.
 
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mylifeistrash said:
99% of people get fatter and balder after high school

there is nothing that gets easier that I can think of
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On the other hand should it increase your chances exponentially if you don't go fat or bald?


Romello Gaghan 2 said:
I wonder why hollywood movies try to brainwash people into thinking college is the best and easiest time to ascend.
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It mislead me completely, I betted my whole youth on college years that then never came.
 
Rassimov said:
On the other hand should it increase your chances exponentially if you don't go fat or bald?
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Women don't lower their standards for what they find hot, lmao
 
its over if you didnt have high school sweetheart
 
Dating apps, jobs, college, travel and older men become available after high school to women.
 
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Highschool zoomercels can't even begin to fathom how over it is during adulthood. Your contact with females will be reduced to cashier interactions.
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very brutal and also very true. Last time when i was receiving change from female cashier she brushed her hand against mine for 0,084 seconds. I really cherished the moment.
 
Rassimov said:
Incels and bluepillers alike believe that girls reach peak shallowness during adolescence when they're in their prime, which is why so many of you believe in the popular trope about high school being hell for unattractive guys. But during my high school years I observed a trend which is speaks absolutely contrary to this massive cope and simply cannot be ignored since the last time my low-tier normie classmates actually dated was in high school, after that they just drifted into celibacy in their 20s. Their fb timelines died, and now only occasional shitposts about vidya appear coupled with awkward indoor selfies.

Bluepillers will admit that it's harder to date in college, but they argue that it is only because women aren't as "naive" in their 20s as they were in their teens — implying many young girls got played since they went for LOOKS exclusively — but once they re-enter the dating scene matured and experienced; they start seeking other qualities than looks in men, which is, frankly, complete horseshit and a interlude to the personality argument. Rather the complete opposite will happen as girls will ghost their high-school sweetheart once a whole new horizon of possibilities opens in college; the small-town crush she had becomes obsolete as she is now exposed to slayers from across the nation. The blackpill of the matter is that you had your best chance of ascension in high school, when hormones were raging and a genuine curiosity for sexuality made a girl be down for experimentation with guys closer to her looks-wise.

tl;dr: you've peaked in high school, you just didn't noticed it.
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One huge dose of pinpoint brutal truth right there, thanks man.
 
Saddam said:
High school is definitely peak time for most normies. Was 7ish years ago for me but I can remember even 5-6/10 males with looksmaxxed gfs.

Might be different in certain countries and it certainly is very far from the norm in the UK but a lot of girls are still sweet at that age, or at least can appear so. Obviously they're all Chadsexual but many of them will at least get like a "starter" bf to keep up with their classmates.

Of course, as others have pointed out, by the time college comes along this changes completely. All goes right out the fucking window, falls 37 stories, the dead body of young love splattered and washed away by the tidal wave of Chads in uni. It's kind of like showing a kid Disney World after he's only seen his local funfair. Good luck competing with THAT.
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Interstellar size of Andromeda Galaxy IQ.
Foids are actually easier to lock in HS due to being less experienced with sexuality so some of them haven't seen an actual Chad with their own eyes. Once they get to know the real thing their IQ and rationalizing process goes to hell and their standards end up high there in the sky.
If you didn't get a gf in hs, it's over.
 
ItsOver4cel said:
Interstellar size of Andromeda Galaxy IQ.
Foids are actually easier to lock in HS due to being less experienced with sexuality so some of them haven't seen an actual Chad with their own eyes. Once they get to know the real thing their IQ and rationalizing process goes to hell and their standards end up high there in the sky.
If you didn't get a gf in hs, it's over.
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This is why if you don't ascend by 18, you are 100% truecel and there's no going back. 18 is around the time most people graduate high school.

See my earlier thread:
 
I fall into a rage of jealousy when I see some goofy looking highschooler walking around with a 7/10 ptp gf. Then I think about how hopelessly naive he is in his fortune, he thinks things are going to be like that forever lmao. He has no idea what is coming and the best possible play he can make is to knock her up fast because even though she will ultimately divorce his ugly ass in their very early 20s he can at least ensure his hopeless genes managed to mix with a hot girl's and propagate.

Otherwise she runs off to college and hops on the carousel while he is left there twiddling his thumbs. If he's lucky he might get some fat ethnic girl but if he's worse off he'll be pretty much off the market until he's old enough to make decent money and have a single mother give him a shot at paying for her spawn.
 
ItsOver4cel said:
Yeah it's 100% accurate tbh I remember every single one in my HS classroom got to have some degree of sexual experience b4 graduating except me and my 2 low tier normie friends
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I'm going to be a KHHV at my graduation :reeeeee::reeeeee::reeeeee::reeeeee::reeeeee::reeeeee::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope:
 
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