Serious It DOES make sense for inceldom to destroy your life

[Pikacel]

When you lack social validation or sexual validation you will start to question what’s wrong with you, am I ugly am I autistic etc etc

This shifts focus from the typical studycelling > careermaxxing to ‘I need to find friends’ ‘I need to looksmaxx and get surgeries’ and if you can’t fix your issues you’ll end up a complete basketcase. Desperate for things to change, always stressed due to wasted life, completely lost sight of goals, maladaptive daydreaming

You must understand that you’re MEANT to have friends and get girls. It’s a basic need and milestone

Everyone wants to get ‘married’ someday, people want a friend group and 90% of people have that

This monastic celibate life we live is abnormal and involuntary. We WANT to be normal, we WANT to have sex, we WANT friends.

 

[OverLoner]

I think it's fair but I don't expect people to hand it to me. Friends is not too hard. As for girls I think I'm kinda screwed.

 

[Pikacel]

I think it's fair but I don't expect people to hand it to me. Friends is not too hard. As for girls I think I'm kinda screwed.

Well we usually try and fail. Or assume it’s hopeless

 

[soft]

Add to that the social ostracism and exclusion - "He has no gf or friends so there must be something wrong with him. Let's talk behind his back and spread rumors to ruin his reputation even further!"
Obviously in the adult world you need social networks, even more than actual competences. Life is not a single player game, you won't make it far if you try to go solo. Or at least that's been my experience so far.

 

[Shark]

This monastic celibate life we live is abnormal and involuntary. We WANT to be normal, we WANT to have sex, we WANT friends.

Truth nuke

 

[plastic chewer]

'Careermaxxing' without a friend group in a structurally derelict society is close to impossible, however much effort you exert

In order to exert effort for a prolonged period of time without immediate feedback, a strong social or structural support system is necessary

 

[Pikacel]

Add to that the social ostracism and exclusion - "He has no gf or friends so there must be something wrong with him. Let's talk behind his back and spread rumors to ruin his reputation even further!"
Obviously in the adult world you need social networks, even more than actual competences. Life is not a single player game, you won't make it far if you try to go solo. Or at least that's been my experience so far.

Yep this is what I mean by inceldom is not normal

Normal people don’t want to associate with people who aren’t normal. Including normal recruiters or employers

 

[Cuckoja]

For friendships irl i dont care much, because i cant connect with normies. If i had a brocel in same town, i would love to hangout.

But not having a woman and everything that comes with that is devastating to a man. Automatically takes away the will to live and to try harder in life.

 

[Violet loner]

When you lack social validation or sexual validation you will start to question what’s wrong with you, am I ugly am I autistic etc etc

This shifts focus from the typical studycelling > careermaxxing to ‘I need to find friends’ ‘I need to looksmaxx and get surgeries’ and if you can’t fix your issues you’ll end up a complete basketcase. Desperate for things to change, always stressed due to wasted life, completely lost sight of goals, maladaptive daydreaming

You must understand that you’re MEANT to have friends and get girls. It’s a basic need and milestone

Everyone wants to get ‘married’ someday, people want a friend group and 90% of people have that

This monastic celibate life we live is abnormal and involuntary. We WANT to be normal, we WANT to have sex, we WANT friends.

Damn, true enough. I also can't get any friends. Instead if study i tried to find gf and friends. But i failed miserably and my nental health was on edge, therdore i failed exams and couldn't study properly

 

[Pikacel]

Damn, true enough. I also can't get any friends. Instead if study i tried to find gf and friends. But i failed miserably and my nental health was on edge, therdore i failed exams and couldn't study properly

Constant failure kills drive

 

[bluetonguedskink]

For friendships irl i dont care much, because i cant connect with normies.

Agreed, the lack of women is the real issue

 

[Violet loner]

Constant failure kills drive

It's also kills your mind

 

[a deleteduser #]

When you lack social validation or sexual validation you will start to question what’s wrong with you, am I ugly am I autistic etc etc

This shifts focus from the typical studycelling > careermaxxing to ‘I need to find friends’ ‘I need to looksmaxx and get surgeries’ and if you can’t fix your issues you’ll end up a complete basketcase. Desperate for things to change, always stressed due to wasted life, completely lost sight of goals, maladaptive daydreaming

You must understand that you’re MEANT to have friends and get girls. It’s a basic need and milestone

Everyone wants to get ‘married’ someday, people want a friend group and 90% of people have that

This monastic celibate life we live is abnormal and involuntary. We WANT to be normal, we WANT to have sex, we WANT friends.

This is how I feel everyday, I need fucking plastic surgery rn.

I'm damn ugly, everything related to social interactions feels pointless to me, what would I talk to a bunch of fuckers that are gonna treat me like shit obviously based on how I look?

...and don't make me start with the women, I avoid them for obvious reasons.

Depression, anxiety, PTSD are turning me into an autistic hollow shell.

I don't have a single friend in the world, I'm too fucking poor for plastic surgery fuck everything and everyone.

 

[LostSoulUK]

Ye loneliness is the root of our problems which stems from childhood. This is a profound loneliness that only we resonate with, its absolutely soul destroying to face the day ahead in this perilous existence.

 

[autisticsoy]

Being an incel can just destroy one's ambition due to the fact that we face an actual possibility to be alone that for near all of us sadly will be true. Having friends and or a gf will give one new energy to do what they which to do. Very rarely are there people that can function well being 100 percent alone with no friends no gf nothing. Most incels are not these people.

 

[Pikacel]

Being an incel can just destroy one's ambition due to the fact that we face an actual possibility to be alone that for near all of us sadly will be true. Having friends and or a gf will give one new energy to do what they which to do. Very rarely are there people that can function well being 100 percent alone with no friends no gf nothing. Most incels are not these people.

Imagine being the last pick in sports class

Having no group during assignments or labs

Nobody wanting to chill with you

And this being the norm for your whole childhood and adolescent life. You learn to adapt to this, via daydreaming, LDARing in your room and doodling instead of studying. You end up becoming ‘special’

 

[autisticsoy]

Imagine being the last pick in sports class

Having no group during assignments or labs

Nobody wanting to chill with you

And this being the norm for your whole childhood and adolescent life. You learn to adapt to this, via daydreaming, LDARing in your room and doodling instead of studying. You end up becoming ‘special’

its a harsh life that many wouldnt or will not fully understand.

 

[sirlancelot]

For friendships irl i dont care much, because i cant connect with normies. If i had a brocel in same town, i would love to hangout

 

[EcstasyCel]

Feminists and their AI god are gaslighting incels into believing they had more of a worth in a feminist society where they would simply be abandoned to fend for themselves with ZERO support.

Even going to war is preferable to this nonsense.