Discussion Isn't "loneliness" a kinda inaccurate word to use in the the context of inceldom?

[Mainländer]

I mean, if you describe your inceldom problem as "loneliness", it makes it sound as if you just need some friends or human interaction. That would legitimize the usual advice normies and foids give us, such as "just have a good personality", "just put yourself out there", "find a hobby", "go to therapy", etc.

I think the world "frustration" is better. Sexual and romantic frustration, feeling an intense desire for sex and romance but being unable to get it.

 

[Ropemaxx]

It could be sexual/romantic lonliness. I don't care if you have millions of friends, if you never get sex or are in a relationship, you are gonna feel lonely, because you are missing out on a vital experience

 

[Deleted member 22907]

It could be sexual/romantic lonliness. I don't care if you have millions of friends, if you never get sex or are in a relationship, you are gonna feel lonely.

The most brutal blackpill isn't the sad autistic loner. It's the careermaxed, statusmaxxed super social ugly dude who can't get laid.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

I mean, if you describe your inceldom problem as "loneliness", it makes it sound as if you just need some friends or human interaction. That would legitimize the usual advice normies and foids give us, such as "just have a good personality", "just put yourself out there", "find a hobby", "go to therapy", etc.

I think the world "frustration" is better. Sexual and romantic frustration, feeling an intense desire for sex and romance but being unable to get it.

The reason I hate that word and avoid using it is because in the balkans it's a common insult to throw at unsuccessful men (and rarely women) to suggest that their behavior comes from being unfulfilled sexually, literally just calling them frustrated or 'that frustrated guy over there' or 'why you acting up so much, you frustrated or something', literally ever since the early 2000s.
Yes, the culture is exactly as crass and direct as it sounds.

JFC It's literally "have sex, incel" and we've had it since forever.

 

[Mainländer]

It could be sexual/romantic loneliness. I don't care if you have millions of friends, if you never get sex or are in a relationship, you are gonna feel lonely.

But does that word really fit in that context? People will say shit like "relationships aren't about sex, getting your peepee wet is not what will solve your loneliness". Also point out that people who sleep around can still feel lonely.

 

[Ropemaxx]

The most brutal blackpill isn't the sad autistic loner. It's the careermaxed, statusmaxxed super social ugly dude who can't get laid.

spot on bro

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[Deleted member 6214]

But I have no friends or human interaction. And it's because I'm ugly

 

[Deleted member 20434]

But I have no friends or human interaction. And it's because I'm ugly

this.

And because of it my mental health is declining day by day.

 

[Ropemaxx]

But does that word really fit in that context? People will say shit like "relationships aren't about sex, getting your peepee wet is not what will solve your loneliness". Also point out that people who sleep around can still feel lonely.

But I have no friends or human interaction. And it's because I'm ugly

Like i said, friends won't make you not feel lonely if you sleep in an empty bed for the rest of your life

 

[Mainländer]

The most brutal blackpill isn't the sad autistic loner. It's the careermaxed, statusmaxxed super social ugly dude who can't get laid.

Yes. Being ugly is much worse than being shy and autistic. There's even a charm to being a mentalcel, I can easily picture a girl getting interested and trying to fix you, being patient with you and making the moves herself.

 

[HonkHonkHonk]

I think the world "frustration" is better. Sexual and romantic frustration, feeling an intense desire for sex and romance but being unable to get it.

yeah It's more about romantic frustration with me. If I wanted to lose my v-card I could just pay a prostitue.
But the fact that no money in the world can buy me love or real attraction from foids is what really stings.

 

[Mainländer]

But I have no friends or human interaction. And it's because I'm ugly

I agree that ugliness gets in the way of having friends and a social life as well, but to a much lesser degree than it gets in the way of getting sex and romance, especially with truly desirable girls. Friendships are always non-exclusive and a person doesn't need to feel physically attracted to you to be your friend.