It's not Oofy Doofy, these men often get toilets through their personalities that shine in ways other than being modernised civilised men.
It's true that your social circle, or lack of, is the biggest predictor in your relationship status. Unless you are legit Chad, finding a partner as a social outcast is literally impossible even if you are just average looking. So yes, the NTpill might be one of the most brutal pills of all. If you're neurodivergent, you will likely have less friends or none at all, and this will make you an even bigger red flag.
However, being NT is mostly genetic and the NTpill is just another aspect of the blackpill. Not everything is directly related to your looks, but almost everything is related to your genetics.
I think that a better definition of the Blackpill is that it's all genetics, looks are important but the moment you get off Tinder then looks aren't nearly as important as many Blackpillers make it seem, people like Wheat Waffles and Gerbert Johnson actually understand this. Looks are still important, but the thresholds are MUCH lower because other things can shine through. I've made a few posts before about how a man who is literally missing a jaw could still find a wife, and the average 5'2 man still finds like 6 sex partners.
Lookspills are important but less important outside of swiping dating apps, even the most popular Twitch streamers and TikTokers are often Normie and Sub-5 men (Vaush couldn't get a Tinder match to save his mother's life). I think that a lot of early incels have done the Blackpill a major disservice by exclusively making it about looks and dismissing everything PUA's said... To be fair PUA techniques will only help you pick up a narcissistic psychopathic clubbing slut who will cheat on you in an instant, but it does still work on SOME toilets.
If a toilet fell in love with you because you were there during a turbulent time in her life, because she shared some experiences she can never re-create with someone else, because you were her first, or something like that then looks are less important.
But non-NT men typically end up with non-NT toilets, not always, but people tend to mate assortively. If you're not NT you're more likely to be Neurotic and Neurotic toilets are THE ONLY toilets (together with Disagreeable toilets) who do shit tests, who dump over minor incidents, who always doubt their love and doubt your love.
This is why I want to talk to ex-incels, I want to know what kind of relationships they get into and if the juice is worth the squeeze.
