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Hypocrisy Is the fact that you have gotten laid in the past proof that you cannot be incel?

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Not talking about getting laid 15 years ago, of course, but if you have been laid in the past 3 years for example, are you incel or just a LARPer?
 
If youre celibate against will, incel. I would say 1 year tho and no girlfriend ever, or you could be doing PUA/online to get sum.

People gotta realize that some women will fuck a man just to destroy him. There be female rapists. The girlfriend thing is the real fucking prize. Escorting too is loveless sex. It literally just destroys your psyche more than no sex if you have a high degree if social awareness and know where you stand. Men are sensitive creatures. Well, incels are.
 
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Going through a dryspell doesnt make you incel.
 
No because :

- Tinder didn't exist before.

- And it may be that something fundamental in your looks changed about you, i'm not talking about the age pill that's just normal aging. But let's say you were NW and could attract girls then at 18, now at 21 of age you are bald, it can mean you went two to three points lower in looks ! You are a different person so obviously you can be incel while you weren't.
 
Anyone who has gotten laid ever is not an incel imo. I dont care how long it's been since you last fucked, try never having gotten laid period.
 
Who would not have sex for 3 years just so they can hang out on a forum for a bunch of sexually frustrated losers?
 
I am so against this, people who pay for it are still fucking incels like us, get over it. If you had easy access to prostitutes or escorts and if you had money you could do it too. We shouldn't point a finger to escortcels....
 
I'm fine with people who have had sex before posting here, after all bragging is against the rules anyway.

However people who've had sex and virgins live in completely different dimensions tbh. it's not comparable at all.
 
I agree that the worst thing is to have never gotten laid.
But there is something uniquely awful about having had sex a couple times decades ago in my youth and then spending all that time since then desperately trying to get back to that place and knowing I never will. A dry spell can last years and then be cured. A dry spell that lasts 22 years is 'your reality'.
 
What's the difference between someone who got diagnosed with cancer yesterday and someone who had it for 5 years.

They both have the same disease but they're at different stages.. some get lucky. Some don't, and Some go in and out of remission for their whole lives.

Shit thread kill yourself
 
I agree that the worst thing is to have never gotten laid.
But there is something uniquely awful about having had sex a couple times decades ago in my youth and then spending all that time since then desperately trying to get back to that place and knowing I never will. A dry spell can last years and then be cured. A dry spell that lasts 22 years is 'your reality'.

My thought is that if you have gotten laid in the recent past, it might be proof that you are capable of getting laid and are in reality a volcel who gave up
 
Dr. Norwood can do a lot of damage in 3 years. Tinder and Instagram can do a lot of damage to sexual marketplace in 3 years as well.
 
What does Incel mean?
Incel means Involuntary Celibate, a person who, if you take the term literally, can't have sex despite wanting to. In practice this means having no possibility of finding a partner to get validation, love, or acceptance from, due to unattractiveness, insecurities, or mental illness.

I would say everybody has the possibility to fuck a escort today, so having sex is from the table.

In practice this means having no possibility of finding a partner

Thats the point where i think its important.
Too say: virgin=incel
is stupid becouse we alredy have the word virgin for it, why we need a new word? are we reddit-feminists?
Too say: no sex=incel
is stupid because if you have money you can have sex in a realationship or paid sex
But to say you are a incel if you dont have to possibility to find a partner is ok, or is there a word for it?
 
I am so against this, people who pay for it are still fucking incels like us, get over it. If you had easy access to prostitutes or escorts and if you had money you could do it too. We shouldn't point a finger to escortcels....
 
Anyone who has ever had a woman willingly have sex with them without having to pay for it can't be an incel imo. If you were disfigured in an accident or something (as a male obviously) and can't get laid any more I guess I feel sympathy for you but you at least got to experience some kind of acceptance unlike a true incel.
 
What does Incel mean?
Incel means Involuntary Celibate, a person who, if you take the term literally, can't have sex despite wanting to. In practice this means having no possibility of finding a partner to get validation, love, or acceptance from, due to unattractiveness, insecurities, or mental illness.

I would say everybody has the possibility to fuck a escort today, so having sex is from the table.

In practice this means having no possibility of finding a partner

Thats the point where i think its important.
Too say: virgin=incel
is stupid becouse we alredy have the word virgin for it, why we need a new word? are we reddit-feminists?
Too say: no sex=incel
is stupid because if you have money you can have sex in a realationship or paid sex
But to say you are a incel if you dont have to possibility to find a partner is ok, or is there a word for it?

If it is the inability to find a partner which defines what an incel is, then women can be incel also because they may get sex freely but are not able to get the partner they want.
Or if you're saying that incel is someone who cannot get a partner no matter how low their standards, this is also ridiculous. I'm sure most people here could get 500 lbs ham beasts if they really wanted to
(Inb4 banned for saying such blasphemy)
 
Or if you're saying that incel is someone who cannot get a partner no matter how low their standards, this is also ridiculous. I'm sure most people here could get 500 lbs ham beasts if they really wanted to
(Inb4 banned for saying such blasphemy)
having no possibility of finding a partner to get validation, love, or acceptance from,
I would say you can be a incel and have standards but everyone can decide the standard for himself.
I think if someone wants a 6/10 its his choice its about to get happy with a person not about get something.
 
yes. that by definition makes you not an incel asides from escorts.
 
Anyone who has gotten laid ever is not an incel imo. I dont care how long it's been since you last fucked, try never having gotten laid period.
 
Incels are by definition virgins. If you are not a virgin LOL @ trying to larp as an incel, try lookism or something
 
I agree that the worst thing is to have never gotten laid.
But there is something uniquely awful about having had sex a couple times decades ago in my youth and then spending all that time since then desperately trying to get back to that place and knowing I never will. A dry spell can last years and then be cured. A dry spell that lasts 22 years is 'your reality'.
exactly! been 20 YEARS for me, its game OVER
 
The only acceptable exceptions IMO are escortcels, paying for sex isn't nearly the same thing as having it with someone without paying. (Granted I can't even fucking get that, thanks Americucked).

Hell, i'll even be generous and say those who haven't gotten laid for like two years are "incel" (They aren't, but whatever).

But there's multiple users in this site who have had sex and have had relationships within the past year or two, and whom some are even under 18. JFL.
 
Going through a dryspell doesnt make you incel.

Depending on your age I'd say like 5+ years
Who would not have sex for 3 years just so they can hang out on a forum for a bunch of sexually frustrated losers?
The only acceptable exceptions IMO are escortcels, paying for sex isn't nearly the same thing as having it with someone without paying. (Granted I can't even fucking get that, thanks Americucked).

Hell, i'll even be generous and say those who haven't gotten laid for like two years are "incel" (They aren't, but whatever).

But there's multiple users in this site who have had sex and have had relationships within the past year or two, and whom some are even under 18. JFL.
I am so against this, people who pay for it are still fucking incels like us, get over it. If you had easy access to prostitutes or escorts and if you had money you could do it too. We shouldn't point a finger to escortcels....
If you haven’t been laid in 10+ years you’re an incel

Judging by the responses I'd say inbetween 3-5 years.

However an Incel is still an Incel EVEN after getting a "one off alone" looks matched woman. A oneitis one could say to settle down with. When that oneitis leaves him. He's finished.

A Normie would be able to get multiple looks matched women.

A Chad to Giga Chad can have anyone he wants.
 
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Incels are by definition virgins. If you are not a virgin LOL @ trying to larp as an incel, try lookism or something

I lost my virginity to an escort.
That means, I'm a normie now. :cool:
 
I lost my virginity to an escort.
That means, I'm a normie now. :cool:
Let them say whatever they want, i wont ever be against escortcels, i undertant why they pay for sex . It's their choise, also it's everyone choise to be a virgin or non virgin incel.
 
i haven't had sex in 5 years and i consider myself incel. I'm not the truest truecel, but I'm not normal person either.
 

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