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Serious Is self hatred/loathing rational?!

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I hate myself with passion but sometimes i would try to rationalize this feeling. I mean i never been a bad or evil person, but i'm inferior and have been treated worse than shit since the day i was able to speak and walk on two legs. I mean what could i have done with my inferior genetics, my circumstances and the way this world has treated me?! It's literally impossible not to be extremely suicidal in my situation, but still why should i hate myself the way i do?! I don't really know but most likely it's a way to project all my pain and torment on myself since that's the only thing i can do when i'm absolutely powerless. I can't do shit to anyone but myself and i paradoxically see myself as the reason why i suffered so much even though it's not my fault at the same time. I keep thinking how good my life would have been if i had been at least normal like 99% of people my age, but still the main reason why all this shit happened in the first place is because this world is a massive pile of dogshit that should be destroyed
 
Yeah, its honestly my fault how things have become how they are. Can't really blame and therefore hate any one else. So yes, I hate my black ass
 
Yes, but do it in a fashion where you are maxing. Every second not maxing is technically LDAR.
 
Yeah, its honestly my fault how things have become how they are. Can't really blame and therefore hate any one else. So yes, I hate my black ass
If your actions somehow resulted in your bad life circumstances then yeah it's kinda justified and logical to hate yourself, but idk how is it rational to hate oneself due to something like genetics that can never be changed or controlled

I would say the most accurate way to describe this dilemma is to say "i hate my own body" or "i hate my life" rather than "i hate myself"
Yes, but do it in a fashion where you are maxing. Every second not maxing is technically LDAR.
Sometimes maxxing would just not work since there's absolutely no way that you could better your life, it's simply not possible. Trying in circumstances like these would prove not only to be futile, but it also has the potential to lead you to a worse place than your already terrible one

Sometimes it's either you accept nonstop suffering and everlasting excruciating pain or you simply literally give up on your life and end it
 
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I have given up hating. I repress all my anger.

I feel only sadness and I live in between lies and truth. A plane where everything is relative and madness reigns.
 
depends on your actions. the inner critic is mostly controlled by parental verbal interaction during teens.
 
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Yes when we are treated as subhuman by society, of course we are going to self-loathe.
 
Hating others is better.
This

Self loathing turns you into a cuck, but focusing it on the people responsible turns you based
 

You missed an opportunity here, what could've become a really 'cool' racist joke has ended up making you look gay. How in the hell did you think posting a man speaking about gay scat porn would look? Thought you'd have more of a cult hero? Even the racist jokes are gay now wtf happened to America, the racism was at least funny then. This is just gay man, you are gay.

But @BrokenMan I think the guy has a point. I shouldn't be here. I can't relate to most of you racist kiddies.
 
I don't get angry anymore. it's either reasonably upset or slightly annoyed
 
Self hatred is always directed towards things you cannot change. Is it "rational" to hate yourself for being ugly? Short? Mentally handicapped? Fuck no.

If you do terrible things and hate yourself for them, sure, you may have a point, but assholes don't hate themselves, they think they're better than you.
 
Dont hate yourself, its impossible to succeed if all the odds are against you. Remember that people who say everyone deserve love also hate us and say we are no entitled to love.
 
It's irrational, but I cannot stop it. Eeach time I see myself in the mirror, self hate comes out.
 
No, it's completely irrational.

I don't advise being a hateful person, but if you're going to hate, it's much healthier and more rational to hate those who are more privileged than you than to hate yourself.
 
There is no reason to hate yourself when yuou had nothing to do with your situation, Everything happened due to cause and effects.
 

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