We don't live in a Natural world at least not anymore, you see foids are able to use their gifts (neoteny, charisma charm etc..) to their advantage we don't get that as we had to use our power in more discreet ways in other words if we try to manuplate the system we have to not get caught and that is a very luck based thing especially when you consider the advancement in the surveillance technology in our age add to that the dominating sense of morality of liberalism human rights individual rights etc... foids will always be precieved as victims and weak innocent beings in need of protection extra rights additionaly the communication technology that peaked in the age of the internet have exacerbated the hypergamy so what we get is a state protected technologically supported hypergamy so it's not really natures fault that we are like that, it is frankly our fault since we came up with these things and now we have to fix it somehow without going back to more primitive ways.