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Is Minecraft a good game to make online connections/friends?

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I know of some people who make online friends/connections via online gaming. Is Minecraft good for this?
 
Yes you can become friends with @SteveMinecratf
 
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No. You're better off making friends here. Minecraft servers will be full of children.
 
No. You're better off making friends here. Minecraft servers will be full of children.
How do I make friends here? Ideally friends that live in the American southwest whom I could meet in person?
 
Do you own a PC? There are better games through which you could make friends, and PC typically has a more incel-aligned userbase (more men, more isolated people, more adults).
 
How do I make friends here? Ideally friends that live in the American southwest whom I could meet in person?
Meet in person? I really doubt most people here or online in general would do that. If you want irl friends you're going to have to go out and meet people
 
How do I make friends here? Ideally friends that live in the American southwest whom I could meet in person?
Maybe try PMing people who you relate with. Maybe try joining the Discord server or something. I don't know if you are likely to meet up with people you meet online, though. Most people you meet would probably live ages away as well. If you are fixated on in person meet-ups, your best bet would be to try and interact in the real world.
 
Do you own a PC? There are better games through which you could make friends, and PC typically has a more incel-aligned userbase (more men, more isolated people, more adults).
I don’t have a PC. I need money and can’t find a job anywhere.
 
If you are fixated on in person meet-ups, your best bet would be to try and interact in the real world.
Yes I know. But that’s just not possible right now. But I’ll continue moving towards that.

I know of some people I know who have made IRL friends through gaming.
 
Do you live in a town or a city?
Latino community. I shared nothing in common with them at all. I already tried connecting with them but nothing comes out of it. I’m very different to them.
 
A small town situated a two hour drive east of San Diego, California.
How small? Do you have grocery stores, fast food places, etc.? Is it mostly local businesses? Personally, I'd recommend getting a job that requires minimal contact with your coworkers and is mostly solitary if possible (shelf stocking, night shift jobs).
 
How small? Do you have grocery stores, fast food places, etc.? Is it mostly local businesses? Personally, I'd recommend getting a job that requires minimal contact with your coworkers and is mostly solitary if possible (shelf stocking, night shift jobs).
That’s the problem. I can’t find a job anywhere. There’s almost nothing here at all. I’ve been desperately applying to dozens of jobs lately.
 
That’s the problem. I can’t find a job anywhere. There’s almost nothing here at all. I’ve been desperately applying to dozens of jobs lately.
How old are you and what does you resume look like? Most entry level jobs I've applied to have had a minimal interview process, so the resume is the most important thing. I'd put anything even slightly of note on there (school awards, extracurricular stuff, etc.).

It's also a lot harder to get into casual, low-level positions if you are old unless its requirements can't be met by most young teenagers (eg. driving, night shifts, etc.).
 
How old are you and what does you resume look like? Most entry level jobs I've applied to have had a minimal interview process, so the resume is the most important thing. I'd put anything even slightly of note on there (school awards, extracurricular stuff, etc.).

It's also a lot harder to get into casual, low-level positions if you are old unless its requirements can't be met by most young teenagers (eg. driving, night shifts, etc.).
I’m 25. I have very little work experience due to Asperger’s and brain damage. But the issue isn’t really getting a job but that there aren’t any in my area. They only hire relatives and close friends. I’m not the only one in this predicament.
 
I’m 25. I have very little work experience due to Asperger’s and brain damage. But the issue isn’t really getting a job but that there aren’t any in my area. They only hire relatives and close friends. I’m not the only one in this predicament.
Brain damage?
Also, that sounds pretty hopeless. I'd recommend just giving your resume to literally everywhere that accepts it and hope for the best, unless you are able/willing to purse further education or training.
 
I’m 25. I have very little work experience due to Asperger’s and brain damage. But the issue isn’t really getting a job but that there aren’t any in my area. They only hire relatives and close friends. I’m not the only one in this predicament.
If you have Aspergers then the deal is done, dont even try to fit in with normies. You will never be accepted by them
 
Brain damage?
Also, that sounds pretty hopeless.
Yes. It’s very brutal to have. I’m always very very emotional over anything. I can’t regulate my emotions.
I'd recommend just giving your resume to literally everywhere that accepts it and hope for the best, unless you are able/willing to purse further education or training.
Yes. That’s exactly what I’m doing
 
Yes. It’s very brutal to have. I’m always very very emotional over anything. I can’t regulate my emotions.
How did you sustain this brain damage?
 
How did you sustain this brain damage?
Childhood vaccines (which also caused me Asperger’s), head struck severely twice as a child, bad childhood experiences, etc.
 
Childhood vaccines (which also caused me Asperger’s), head struck severely twice as a child, bad childhood experiences, etc.
Brutal. I used to intentionally slam my head into floor tiles as a toddler which I'm sure has caused some level of brain damage as I have a plethora of issues.
 
Brutal. I used to intentionally slam my head into floor tiles as a toddler which I'm sure has caused some level of brain damage as I have a plethora of issues.
Damn.

I’m actually a very disciplined, well-organized, and orderly person with high intellect, and even I struggle with my condition.

Having this is very brutal, especially when seeing so many women younger than me who excel in what are naturally masculine areas, like better driving than me, not crying or getting too emotional while I can’t regulate myself, being able to understand common sense, etc.

My prefrontal cortex is the region of my brain that is damaged. It’s basically what makes men more logical/rational (which I am very much), and also less emotional and impulsive (which I definitely am not).
 

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