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Is LDARing better than going out to bars and getting rejected endlessly?

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is being humiliated better than LDARing?

or maybe you can be one of those coping guys who says "I just go out to have fun with bros, not to meet girls"

there are no good options for incels.
 
there's nothing better than being a NEET and LDARing
 
Ive gone to the bar by myself.
It wasnt fun.
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I like the idea of being a public nuisance, but it is a lot of work.
 
I guess try it once, before giving up...
 
unless you're planning on killing yourself i would ldar, unless you manage to make yourself good looking through surgery or other means the constant rejections will permanently damage your self esteem, so you're essentially digging yourself a deeper hole by leaving the house as an ugly man.
 
Bars aren't even fun tbh, overpriced alcohol, loud, barely any room to dance, wannabe tough guy bouncers giving you shit, failed normies trying to start fights, etc.
 
both is lose - lose

Honestly, the only thing worth doing is looksmaxing then trying to find a woman abroad which is what I´m doing.
 
No question.

These environments are absolutely loathsome. Anyone that would claim to enjoy it is either coping, Chad, or a deeply stupid fuck (not mutually exclusive, of course). Even assuming success were possible, I don't know whether it'd be worth it (or for me, even possible) to engage in the tango of the debilitated just to get heaved on and infected with herpes over the course of 5 minutes of effectively anonymous sex with an inebriated hole at the end of the night.
 
Yeah. I just play vidya all day at home.

WoW just had a free weekend. Its still a solid game. I can see why you never quit.

I won like 80% of my BGs. Did all the good players migrate to Horde or something?
 
Bars aren't even fun tbh, overpriced alcohol, loud, barely any room to dance, wannabe tough guy bouncers giving you shit, failed normies trying to start fights, etc.

going out alone = all the men there act nice to you because they feel so sorry and sad for you being a lonely loser
 
Yeah. I just play vidya all day at home.


WoW just had a free weekend. Its still a solid game. I can see why you never quit.

I won like 80% of my BGs. Did all the good players migrate to Horde or something?

im mianly pve but no must pvpers are still alliance, really depends on the bgs.

if your playing alterac valley 90% of the time horde will lose lol.
 
is being humiliated better than LDARing?
LDARing means you at least retain your base dignity. After tripple-digit number of rejections, I suspect that a person isn't "alive" anymore, in the sense that they are a complete husk.
 
there are a few bars in some cities where you can genuinely enjoy yourself going alone, where you can talk to the other People going there or the bartender
 
LDARing can be peaceful if you do it right. As long as you kinda take care of yourself, and do limited trips out in public every few days so your brain doesn't get cabin fever. Even the Hikikomori (severe recluses of Japan) take short trips to convenient stores at night to get food and drinks.

Truth be told, everytime i try to come out of NEET & LDAR i end up regretting it. I try to convince myself that maybe everything's not as bad as my mind says it is, then i'm reminded, it's not only as bad, it's WORSE.
 
LDAR works until you go insane because you're getting older or you see someone who has something you want
 
is this even a question?
 
Much better. LDAR can even be enjoyable if you have the right copes at your disposal.

It's very very rare that going to a bar as an incel is enjoyable. Maybe if you have amazing friends, but I am doubtful.
 
LDARing means you at least retain your base dignity. After tripple-digit number of rejections, I suspect that a person isn't "alive" anymore, in the sense that they are a complete husk.

This. That's why I laugh at people here who insist on approaching. Very very low IQ to keep doing the same thing when it obviously doesn't work.
 
going out alone = all the men there act nice to you because they feel so sorry and sad for you being a lonely loser
So true, and the experience doesn't get any better with friends. You're just there sipping on overpriced pisswater with them and pointing out fake-up maxxed goblins to talk to.
 

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