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https://robertlindsay.wordpress.com/2012/05/03/interesting-post-on-incels/
This bloggers claims to have sympathies with us incels but himself is not incel . But he writes
He pointed out that towards the end of the piece I said that there seemed to be many men who get few to no positive signals from women at all, ever. The author agreed and said this was the problem of the incel. So incels are essentially invisible to women.
He points out that it is hard to flirt with a woman who is not giving out any positive signals to start with. Since the incel never seems to get much interest from women, he is not able to fine tune his radar to figure out whether a woman is flirting with him or not.
As the incel’s radar is not working, he stumbles badly when an opportunity arises, assuming it ever does in the first place. The incel basically ends up broadcasting his sexual inadequacy for all to see, and this makes the problem even worse. This causes a vicious cycle for the incel that only worsens with time.
Poor attractiveness -> inability to read signals, if they even come at all -> psychological damage, low self-esteem, self-reinforcing and worsening vicious circle.
what are your thoughts on this?
This bloggers claims to have sympathies with us incels but himself is not incel . But he writes
He pointed out that towards the end of the piece I said that there seemed to be many men who get few to no positive signals from women at all, ever. The author agreed and said this was the problem of the incel. So incels are essentially invisible to women.
He points out that it is hard to flirt with a woman who is not giving out any positive signals to start with. Since the incel never seems to get much interest from women, he is not able to fine tune his radar to figure out whether a woman is flirting with him or not.
As the incel’s radar is not working, he stumbles badly when an opportunity arises, assuming it ever does in the first place. The incel basically ends up broadcasting his sexual inadequacy for all to see, and this makes the problem even worse. This causes a vicious cycle for the incel that only worsens with time.
Poor attractiveness -> inability to read signals, if they even come at all -> psychological damage, low self-esteem, self-reinforcing and worsening vicious circle.
what are your thoughts on this?