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MutismMadness
Greycel
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- Jun 5, 2023
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I'm wondering if someone can blackpill me on this. I need the cold hard truth.
Whenever I vented about my lack of a dating life, my family would make it seem like it's completely normal to have never even been on a date before in your 20s. And women online make it seem it's normal too. Too many times have I seen women say stuff like "Oh, it's perfectly fine. My boyfriend is 26 and I'm his first girlfriend. It didn't impact him at all that he first started dating at this age. ."
Are a lot of guys really having their first relationship at 24, 25, 26, etc, to the point where it's considered "normal?" I'm 21 and it bothers me severely and has me depressed that I missed out on teen love. And I whenever I vented online about it, I would get hit with the "you're so young!" card.
Is 21 really that young where it really shouldn't bother and I am just overreacting? I'm very depressed and have a social disabilty and have no clue what people in my age group do together so I would like to know if a majority of people who are 21+ are like me.
Whenever I vented about my lack of a dating life, my family would make it seem like it's completely normal to have never even been on a date before in your 20s. And women online make it seem it's normal too. Too many times have I seen women say stuff like "Oh, it's perfectly fine. My boyfriend is 26 and I'm his first girlfriend. It didn't impact him at all that he first started dating at this age. ."
Are a lot of guys really having their first relationship at 24, 25, 26, etc, to the point where it's considered "normal?" I'm 21 and it bothers me severely and has me depressed that I missed out on teen love. And I whenever I vented online about it, I would get hit with the "you're so young!" card.
Is 21 really that young where it really shouldn't bother and I am just overreacting? I'm very depressed and have a social disabilty and have no clue what people in my age group do together so I would like to know if a majority of people who are 21+ are like me.





