I have a series of stories about another incel friend. We recently got into the discussion: is it possible to stop being an incel? I'm pretty sure not, at least not in most cases.
This man got a girlfriend, and yes, he is a 4/10. It turns out that the bitch constantly throws in his face how horrible he is, she has already shown him pictures of handsome men and said that if she were in bed with them she would be so wet that the guy would think she pissed herself, she has already said that if she had the opportunity to spend a day with a certain TikTok celebrity, she would trade everything they could build (house, children, car) to have sex with the TikToker for a day. She said more things, but I think one of the worst things she did was introduce him to her friends and let them see how ugly he was compared to her own boyfriends. He knows that his relationship is nothing more than a simulacrum, he is nothing that the girl likes, she looks at men who don't even resemble him by an inch of skin. He knows he's still incel.
More than one thing brought you here and being ugly was just the first of them, but it triggered many things. Even if for some bad reason you get a girlfriend (who certainly doesn't like you), this relationship will have a series of problems that keep you away from a normal life. If you stop being obese and have very successful plastic surgery, for example, the idea that your genetically inferior feet are contaminating the soil will never leave your thoughts. Most of us will never go through processes that make us beautiful or socially digestible and even if we did, it wouldn't do any good.
Even if you manage to be loved, you will never be liked and admired. You will have a simulacrum, not a relationship.
This man got a girlfriend, and yes, he is a 4/10. It turns out that the bitch constantly throws in his face how horrible he is, she has already shown him pictures of handsome men and said that if she were in bed with them she would be so wet that the guy would think she pissed herself, she has already said that if she had the opportunity to spend a day with a certain TikTok celebrity, she would trade everything they could build (house, children, car) to have sex with the TikToker for a day. She said more things, but I think one of the worst things she did was introduce him to her friends and let them see how ugly he was compared to her own boyfriends. He knows that his relationship is nothing more than a simulacrum, he is nothing that the girl likes, she looks at men who don't even resemble him by an inch of skin. He knows he's still incel.
More than one thing brought you here and being ugly was just the first of them, but it triggered many things. Even if for some bad reason you get a girlfriend (who certainly doesn't like you), this relationship will have a series of problems that keep you away from a normal life. If you stop being obese and have very successful plastic surgery, for example, the idea that your genetically inferior feet are contaminating the soil will never leave your thoughts. Most of us will never go through processes that make us beautiful or socially digestible and even if we did, it wouldn't do any good.
Even if you manage to be loved, you will never be liked and admired. You will have a simulacrum, not a relationship.
