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Might sound like a dumb question, but is it possible?

I was pretty NT before my social anxiety started (used to play football and sports and had friends etc and was pretty good with girls) but then suddenly, when i was 12, my social anxiety started. It was all downhill from there

So, is it even possible to overcome this? And even if i do, will normans be able to tell i am not "quite like them" and reject me anyways?
 
No, it isn't possible.

It's the three pillars of blackpill. Height, face, and NT. It is blackpill because this stuff (realistically speaking) cannot be fixed or adequately made up for.
 
i have not seen it happen nor heard of it happening. I dont see it becoming possible. Its a lot more profitable for big pharma companies too keep people addicted to their meds rather than to cure them of their ailments.
 
I dont think you can learn to be charismatic and very likeable but certainly you can become more normal and break social anxiety if you spend enough time in social situations with positive reinforcement.
 
If you're a girl yes. If not, then you're fucked
 
No, it isn't possible.

It's the three pillars of blackpill. Height, face, and NT. It is blackpill because this stuff (realistically speaking) cannot be fixed or adequately made up for.
Brutal. Rope, where?:feelshaha:
 
If you're a girl yes. If not, then you're fucked
Wdym? Girls are also biological organisms, i think the same rules would apply to them. If thats what youre trying to say
 
I dont think you can learn to be charismatic and very likeable but certainly you can become more normal and break social anxiety if you spend enough time in social situations with positive reinforcement.
That sounds like the dream tbh ngl. Wish i could motivate myself to leave my house, too bad i get a nervous breakdown every time i go outside:cryfeels::cryfeels:

Plus my chronic pain is effing me up. Actually, im gonna make a thread abt that , l8r:feelsaww:
 
Yes I've seen it happen don't listen to these people here never give up
 
No. I spent over a decade of my life trying to become NT so I could fit in, make friends, and get a gf. Well, guess what? All that really changed is that I can sometimes make eye contact when I talk to people now, and can kinda sorta tell when someone is being sarcastic. That's it. That's what over a decade of my sweat, blood and tears got me. :feelsUgh:

Don't bother trying to become NT. You're either born with it, or not. Any effort spent trying to become NT is effort spent in vain.
 
That sounds like the dream tbh ngl. Wish i could motivate myself to leave my house, too bad i get a nervous breakdown every time i go outside:cryfeels::cryfeels:

Plus my chronic pain is effing me up. Actually, im gonna make a thread abt that , l8r:feelsaww:
It worked for my brother, he worked with various people over a span of 3 months and his behaviour changed dramatically and fit in good, for me didnt work well i more relaxed around people but still cant fit in good, we both have social anxiety and had tough life
 
That sounds like the dream tbh ngl. Wish i could motivate myself to leave my house, too bad i get a nervous breakdown every time i go outside:cryfeels::cryfeels:

Plus my chronic pain is effing me up. Actually, im gonna make a thread abt that , l8r:feelsaww:
I will literally donate you my entire bitcoin wallet if you can find one (1) high school girl in the United States who doesn't have a single friend or harem of simps. Girls have social luxury from the moment they're born, no matter what
 
If anything, it will get worse over time
 
Might sound like a dumb question, but is it possible?

I was pretty NT before my social anxiety started (used to play football and sports and had friends etc and was pretty good with girls) but then suddenly, when i was 12, my social anxiety started. It was all downhill from there

So, is it even possible to overcome this? And even if i do, will normans be able to tell i am not "quite like them" and reject me anyways?
You can but it also depends on the reason WHY you aren‘t NT. You have to find the reason what makes you non nt and fix. Psychological issues are fixable. But there is ofcourse no guarantee. In your case a psychologist could help, because you used to be NT.
No, it isn't possible.

It's the three pillars of blackpill. Height, face, and NT. It is blackpill because this stuff (realistically speaking) cannot be fixed or adequately made up for.
Wrong. You can change your psyche. So you can become NT. But bones you can‘t change
 
No, it isn't possible.

It's the three pillars of blackpill. Height, face, and NT. It is blackpill because this stuff (realistically speaking) cannot be fixed or adequately made up for.

Correct.
 
If you have to ask this question, it's already over.
 
forcing yourself to be NT , if you arent

is like going against yourself for no reason


Imagine if people wherent judgemental , you wouldnt even care about being nt in the slightest
 
forcing yourself to be NT , if you arent

is like going against yourself for no reason


Imagine if people wherent judgemental , you wouldnt even care about being nt in the slightest
Well, i wouldnt say its "for no reason", theres a very good reason behind it, which is, being accepted by your peers.
 
If you are genuinely autistic then you probably can't fix the fact that you are obsessed with trains and or planes or whatever, but you can probably become high functioning in the sense that you can handle socializing.

I've seen a theory that told that people on the spectrum have far more glutamate signaling than neurotypical people. Makes sense, because comorbidity of autism and epilepsy is common, around 30%, and epilepsy is caused by high glutamate/low gaba.
 
If anything, it will get worse over time
I cant imagine being worse off than i am now, but yeah, if i learned anything in life is that you can always go lower :feelstastyman:
 
If you are genuinely autistic then you probably can't fix the fact that you are obsessed with trains and or planes or whatever, but you can probably become high functioning in the sense that you can handle socializing.

I've seen a theory that told that people on the spectrum have far more glutamate signaling than neurotypical people. Makes sense, because comorbidity of autism and epilepsy is common, around 30%, and epilepsy is caused by high glutamate/low gaba.
Interesting.

And no, im not on the spectrum, im just socially anxious. Which is a kind of a death sentence
 
And no, im not on the spectrum, im just socially anxious. Which is a kind of a death sentence
Check this thread I made, it might be of use.

 
Check this thread I made, it might be of use.

Ok:smonk:
 
I was pretty NT before my social anxiety started (used to play football and sports and had friends etc and was pretty good with girls) but then suddenly, when i was 12, my social anxiety started. It was all downhill from there
same, and the bullying made it worse :feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope:
 
Might sound like a dumb question, but is it possible?

I was pretty NT before my social anxiety started (used to play football and sports and had friends etc and was pretty good with girls) but then suddenly, when i was 12, my social anxiety started. It was all downhill from there

So, is it even possible to overcome this? And even if i do, will normans be able to tell i am not "quite like them" and reject me anyways?
It's possible to overcome social anxiety, but becoming neurotypical requires a neurotypical brain. In other words, you're either born neurotypical or not. The best you can do is shape your neurodivergent behavior so it matches the behavior of your neurotypical peers.
 
Yes you can become NT, but once you do become NT you have to keep being NT (having constant stimulation from people, life, etc) or else you'll just fall right back to your old self.

No. I spent over a decade of my life trying to become NT so I could fit in, make friends, and get a gf. Well, guess what? All that really changed is that I can sometimes make eye contact when I talk to people now, and can kinda sorta tell when someone is being sarcastic. That's it. That's what over a decade of my sweat, blood and tears got me. :feelsUgh:

Don't bother trying to become NT. You're either born with it, or not. Any effort spent trying to become NT is effort spent in vain.
Lol i became NT in a few days just by talking to people, going outside, and learning how to live.

i have not seen it happen nor heard of it happening. I dont see it becoming possible. Its a lot more profitable for big pharma companies too keep people addicted to their meds rather than to cure them of their ailments.
It is possible. I did it myself. Not NT at the moment though. (Fell right back into non NT by staying in my room) I experienced ego death too.
 
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Might sound like a dumb question, but is it possible?

I was pretty NT before my social anxiety started (used to play football and sports and had friends etc and was pretty good with girls) but then suddenly, when i was 12, my social anxiety started. It was all downhill from there

So, is it even possible to overcome this? And even if i do, will normans be able to tell i am not "quite like them" and reject me anyways?
In a way yes
 
I was pretty NT before my social anxiety started (used to play football and sports and had friends etc and was pretty good with girls) but then suddenly, when i was 12, my social anxiety started. It was all downhill from there
Same
 
Lol i became NT in a few days just by talking to people, going outside, and learning how to live.
Is this a bad joke, or are you an actual retard? :feelsugh: Either way, it's in poor taste, and on a level equivalent to anything coming out of a soy's mouth. :soy: You don't just "become NT" anymore than you can just "become attractive" or "become tall." If you're NT, you were always NT. Maybe NT with some sort of other, minor psychological hangup, but it sure as fuck wasn't autism.

Don't be a moron in my presence. I have zero tolerance for stupidity.
 
No, there's no cure for autism. Simply having social anxiety like some posters ITT think is the same as not being NT can be medicated, but there's not even any medication for autism. The only way to have unpaid sex as an autist is by being good looking, or by being normie looking and building a social circle of awkward "nerdy" people while still young and then fucking one of the ugly foids in that social circle. The latter happens but isn't even common, as shown by the autism virginity stats
 
Yes you can become NT, but once you do become NT you have to keep being NT (having constant stimulation from people, life, etc) or else you'll just fall right back to your old self.


Lol i became NT in a few days just by talking to people, going outside, and learning how to live.


It is possible. I did it myself. Not NT at the moment though. (Fell right back into non NT by staying in my room) I experienced ego death too.
Well here you go. You dont "become NT" and then un-become NT. (Me thinks).

I was also NT-acting, and foids fell for my spiel, but i ws extremely machivellian and calculating. My mentor diagnosed me with having dark triad personlity disorder (machiavellianism/narcissism/psychopathy). Idk if im a psychopath, but i may be, idk. Dont really feel empathy for others, and i feel like i am the only person in the univere
 
No, there's no cure for autism. Simply having social anxiety like some posters ITT think is the same as not being NT can be medicated, but there's not even any medication for autism. The only way to have unpaid sex as an autist is by being good looking, or by being normie looking and building a social circle of awkward "nerdy" people while still young and then fucking one of the ugly foids in that social circle. The latter happens but isn't even common, as shown by the autism virginity stats
Or you can do game. If youre autistic you can spam approach and maybe get lucky. Social skills is everything
 
If you "became NT" you most likely weren't non-NT in the first place
 
Might sound like a dumb question, but is it possible?

I was pretty NT before my social anxiety started (used to play football and sports and had friends etc and was pretty good with girls) but then suddenly, when i was 12, my social anxiety started. It was all downhill from there

So, is it even possible to overcome this? And even if i do, will normans be able to tell i am not "quite like them" and reject me anyways?
Yes it is possible through masking, ABA therapy, reading books and practicing social skills. I am autistic and I don't honor "autisticels" or "mentalcels".
 
I dont think you can learn to be charismatic and very likeable but certainly you can become more normal and break social anxiety if you spend enough time in social situations with positive reinforcement.
 
You can but it also depends on the reason WHY you aren‘t NT. You have to find the reason what makes you non nt and fix. Psychological issues are fixable. But there is ofcourse no guarantee. In your case a psychologist could help, because you used to be NT.

Wrong. You can change your psyche. So you can become NT. But bones you can‘t change
:bigbrain:
 
No. I spent over a decade of my life trying to become NT so I could fit in, make friends, and get a gf. Well, guess what? All that really changed is that I can sometimes make eye contact when I talk to people now, and can kinda sorta tell when someone is being sarcastic. That's it. That's what over a decade of my sweat, blood and tears got me. :feelsUgh:

Don't bother trying to become NT. You're either born with it, or not. Any effort spent trying to become NT is effort spent in vain.
Being NT means being an idiot. I also back in the days tried to be like them and I noticed I have higher IQ than them and understand more other shit than others. NT = avarage, NPC, jew belover
 
Being NT means being an idiot. I also back in the days tried to be like them and I noticed I have higher IQ than them and understand more other shit than others. NT = avarage, NPC, jew belover
Better to fit in and have a good, fulfillling social life than to be smart and an outcast, though. Ignorance is bliss, as they say, and I think there's some real wisdom in that.
 
NTness can be achieved through drugs.
 
I practiced my social skills while playing live poker and went from socially awkward/anxious to NT.

Cost me 10s of thousands of dollars and a much larger opportunity cost (if I had invested my time and money wisely) but it worked.
 
not really. its like trying to transition to a biological female. you are what you are. biological males can't be women, neurological autists can't be NT.
 
Better to fit in and have a good, fulfillling social life than to be smart and an outcast, though. Ignorance is bliss, as they say, and I think there's some real wisdom in that.
That's not in my case. I like bein an outcast. Plus since being a kid I had lots of fuckin questions about life, how it works, I needed to know because subcouciously I felt something ain't right. Normies don't ask question, at least not that many. Couldn't rest untill I knew what the fuck is happenin'. It seems like life is one big concentration camp
 
It's possible to overcome social anxiety, but becoming neurotypical requires a neurotypical brain. In other words, you're either born neurotypical or not. The best you can do is shape your neurodivergent behavior so it matches the behavior of your neurotypical peers.
Yep, this exactly. You can alter your behavior to the best of your ability but your brain will always be “wired” the same since there is no cure. For example, if you have autism, you may be able to act more on the NT side of things in regular situations. However, if something unexpected happens, you may resort back to your brain’s old ways and have an autistic freak out.

Like we always say here, there’s no overcoming genetics.
 

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