LifeFuel Is it possible to be happy as an incel?

[TheProphetMuscle]

A few nights ago I watched the Movie Forest Gump. The guy was a total incel. He constantly got cucked by the girl he loved when she fucked every guy in front of him except himself. She eventually had pity sex with him when he was in his 30s or 40s. But yet he still lived a great life and made a bunch of achievements. I think maybe I can just train my mind to forget about foids and just focus on other things. I’m sure it’s possible. Why dwell over something that’s never gonna happen?

 

[Cuyen]

no

 

[Ritalincel]

Yes bro

 

[Demir]

Love and sex are basic human emotional needs. When you can't have them, you are emotionally fucked up, less or more, no matter what

 

[TheProphetMuscle]

Love and sex are basic human emotional needs. When you can't have them, you are emotionally fucked up, less or more, no matter what

Rubbing one out when I feel those temptations usually takes care of it

 

[Clock Tower]

I'll probably stop caring when I'm around 26-27 so yeah. Forrest Gump was a mentalcel though.

 

[TheProphetMuscle]

I'll probably stop caring when I'm around 26-27 so yeah. Forrest Gump was a mentalcel though.

A majority of ppl here are mentalcels

 

[Grotesque]

There's many things I'm happy about concerning my life, but in general, I will always be miserable because I have failed at the major goal of all humans.

 

[Deleted member 13060]

A majority of ppl here are mentalcels

But most are here because of their looks - at worst ugly/subhuman, at best less than average.

 

[Swiswis]

you can study a lot, improve your sport/games skill

then you workmax for a great salary and lifelevel

but if you stay virgin at 30 it's over

 

[bakadesu]

U cant be happy but u can be content with your life ( LDAR )

 

[Deleted member 14490]

No.

 

[Insomniac]

The ultimate goal of incels should be to become volcels.

That’s how to be happy.

 

[Septembercel]

I would say it’s possible,
If you are young you have many years ahead of you to try and ascend.

 

[Deleted member 1042]

If you have no sex drive. If you don't desire romance and intimacy.

 

[micropenis29]

Yes. It requires a trained mind but is possible.

Most of what leads to unhappiness is confusion within one's own mind about what is vs. what "should be."

 

[Deleted member 11318]

I can hardly imagine being happy in life as Incel. If I have my desired hairstyle and have done my nose surgery and still fail to find a GF, then I do not know what to do in life tbh. Maybe learn from Catholic priests and Buddhist monks how to control my sex drive and learn from them. Maybe I can someday become a Volcel, who knows.

 

[EyesAreSoCold]

Most likely no, everyone who claims they are happy are in denial. I suppose there might be an answer, religious enlightened dudes like buddha and jesus advocated for chastity and were still extremely content. I also read in the hindu book Upanishads that someone who is spiritually enlightened or something experiences 100 times the joy of a wealthy earthly man and there was something even above that increased the joy again by a hundred times.

Ofc you don't know if this is true and it probably isn't so no you can't be happy as an incel.

 

[micropenis29]

There's many things I'm happy about concerning my life, but in general, I will always be miserable because I have failed at the major goal of all humans.

Sex (at least the unpaid, romantic kind that I assume is the kind you're talking about) is not "the goal of humans" any more than eating at fancy restaurants or living in luxurious mansions is "the goal of humans."

We are programmed by evolution to be on a never-ending hedonistic treadmill. Consciousness makes it possible to override and ultimately rewrite this programming though, and thereby be happier and happier with less and less.

TLDR: Pay a prostitute if you want to achieve your evolutionary goal of having sex. But don't assume you need romantic sex to be happy and fulfilled in life, as evolution is indifferent to your well-being and will leave you continuously feeling unfulfilled.

 

[GoonCel]

Yes bro

Yes Bro

 

[Ritalincel]

It is possible

 

[BrendioEEE]

The ultimate goal of incels should be to become volcels

 

[Deleted member 15292]

Love and sex are basic human emotional needs. When you can't have them, you are emotionally fucked up, less or more, no matter what

Absolutely true

 

[Ritalincel]

wellbutrin helps

 

[Insomniac]

Yes. It requires a trained mind but is possible.

Most of what leads to unhappiness is confusion within one's own mind about what is vs. what "should be."

High IQ.

wellbutrin helps

Had to look that up tbh. You are very educated in the field of pharmaceuticals.

 

[KingChemist]

That's exactly my mentality

 

[Swiswis]

l just watched this movie

now as a blackpilled guy, all l have to say is that this movie is absolutely disgusting

chiefly the moment when Jenny asks him if he has ever been with a woman, or when she announces him she has AIDS....

 

[Rurik]

The ultimate goal of incels should be to become volcels.

That’s how to be happy.

exactly
yes you can be happy, just embrace who you are and move on.
doesnt mean its going to be easy, i struggle with this a lot...

 

[StaroRavager]

Only for short bursts at a time

 

[Mik_TFL]

yes

 

[grayjedi90]

yes but very very hard, you need to become some chaolin monk or something and be really determined

 

[FrustratedWhiteMale]

If you're a homosexual.

 

[Spite]

If you have access to good copes and don't have to wagecuck.

 

[Seoh]

If you have good copes to live with... yeah.

 

[acnescarcel]

 

[mrhaircut33]

A few nights ago I watched the Movie Forest Gump. The guy was a total incel. He constantly got cucked by the girl he loved when she fucked every guy in front of him except himself. She eventually had pity sex with him when he was in his 30s or 40s. But yet he still lived a great life and made a bunch of achievements. I think maybe I can just train my mind to forget about foids and just focus on other things. I’m sure it’s possible. Why dwell over something that’s never gonna happen?

Yes it is possible to be happy despite what external reasons you have to be unhappy. It all comes down to chemical make up and neurotransmitters when discussing happiness and how you perceive external factors

 

[CopeWithTheRope]

stop watching that jew propaganda. hollywood is terrible for your brain. quit it. now.

 

[Ritalincel]

 

[Deleted member 14805]

If you have access to good copes and don't have to wagecuck.

 

[TheProphetMuscle]

stop watching that jew propaganda. hollywood is terrible for your brain. quit it. now.

terrible for my brain by encouraging me not to be miserable?

 

[WillyBlogAndFriends]

No. Being unattractive to women means that both men and women view you as someone with no value. Like it or not but only your family is willing to pity you enough to talk to you.

I go weeks at work without someone before someone voluntarily talks to me and it's always work related. I have to approach them if I want anything done and it's the lowest effort responses.

 

[starystulejarz]

Rubbing one out when I feel those temptations usually takes care of it

it doesn't work for me anymore, i can fap 3 or 4 times a day and while my urge for sex is almost null i still have desire to touch, hug, kiss them, spend time with her, receive validation (aka love) , even men need attention and would want to be attached/loved by someone, I would feel almost the same while hookerceling since you can't kiss them, you can barely touch them and she won't desire you at all since it's her job to fuck her clients.

 

[BlackPilledKira]

Depends on your copes.

If you got a good job and maxed out your gaming nest then that should keep you satisfied for a very long time, especially with VR on the horizon. Drugs can also be a good cope (if used in moderation) to enhance the experience even further, and to combat the lonliness and sexual repression you can use hookers.

However no cope can compare to ones that engage your mind in creative ways, such as programming, engineering, science, writing and art, but you have to become good at them which takes alot of effort but gets more rewarding over time.

 

[acnescarcel]

stop watching that jew propaganda. hollywood is terrible for your brain. quit it. now.

no h0llywood now!

that aint me

 

[Animas]

yeah it’s just you will always know you could have had more and i think that’s what really bothers me and a lot of us

 

[CopeWithTheRope]

terrible for my brain by encouraging me not to be miserable?

you're being programmed, boyo.

 

[Ritalincel]

that aint me